This video was created in response to our episode: “Married But In Love With Someone Else?” Listeners commented on the first video wondering if Dr. Beam would have different views on marriage if his lover hadn’t left him and they ended up together. In this Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Beam explains what really happened once his lover left, how his feelings changed, and how he changed. He went from idealizing the situation with his lover, to viewing it more realistically. Dr. Beam wants to encourage us to reach beyond feelings we have at the moment in order to make the right decision.