The Shame and Blame Game

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The Shame and Blame Game

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Dec 13, 2019

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The definitions of shame and guilt are still the source of much academic debate. In this episode, Anney and Samantha talk gender differences when it comes to shame, blame and guilt and dig into the science of victim-blaming.
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Dec 13, 2019

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The Shame and Blame Game

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