Tuck answers our trickiest advice questions yet with BFF of the show Z Griffler (they/them).  Topics include: How do I stop caring about what cis people think?!?  What pronouns should I use for nonbinary people in languages they don’t speak? What if I’m being misgendered at work but don’t want to lose my job? Can you be a boy without being a man? Plus: Tuck really, really rips into some guy named Mike (and also Joe Biden?) Remember, your gender isn’t conditional on whether it makes people comfortable! :) This Week in Gender: Tulsi Gabbard continues to be anti-LGBTQ. Do you have gender questions that you’d like answered on the show? Submit questions anonymously via this Google form. Join our Patreon (patreon.com/gender) to receive our weekly newsletter and other rewards. We also welcome donations via PayPal, Cash App, or Venmo.  Browse our limited-edition merch at bit.ly/gendermerch.  We have transcriptions available for every episode, as well as “starter packs” for new listeners, at genderpodcast.com  We’re on Twitter or Instagram @gendereveal. Our host is @tuckwoodstock.  Join the Gender Detectives Slack at bit.ly/genderslack2. Logo: Ira M. Leigh Music: Breakmaster Cylinder Additional Music: Chopin Mazurka, Op. 50 No. 3, performed by Blue Dot Sessions Producer: Isaura Aceves Sponsors: YOU! Thank you!