128 SelfWork: What Happens When You Quit Perfectly Hiding Depression? You Find Grief.

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128 SelfWork: What Happens When You Quit Perfectly Hiding Depression? You Find Grief.

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Dr. Jennifer Ashton of ABC News was interviewed this week as she revealed the suicidal death of her ex-husband. She stated quite clearly that he displayed none of the signs of depression that she had studied in medical school. None of them. I need to read her new book on surviving the suicide of […] The post 128 SelfWork: What Happens When You Quit Perfectly Hiding Depression? You Find Grief. appeared first on Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

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