In this episode we talk about … the 8 of Cups, knowing when to hold them, fold them, and walk away, with our very special guest, Ann Friedman, media wunderkind, writer, editor, and former host of the Going Through It Podcast. If you're not sure if it's time to move on from... that place you're living, that relationship you're in, or that job you have... this is the episode for you. We also give you some good tips on how to do decision-making tarot readings, and give a ritual for working with Hecate, Guardian of the Crossroads. Join us!**********************************Find out more about our special guest, writer, editor, and podcaster Ann Friedman...Check out her website https://www.annfriedman.com/Sign up for her newsletter: https://www.annfriedman.com/weekly/Listen to her podcasts: https://www.annfriedman.com/podcastYou can also follow her on Instagram or Twitter: @annfriedman**********************************Quest of Cups 10-Week Online Workshop InformationJoin us for our last workshop of the season, The Quest of Cups: In Pursuit of Your Deepest Heart’s Desire.This 10-week course will help you deepen your knowledge of the tarot AND most importantly, figure out how to apply its lessons to your everyday life.This Course Includes:10 x  1-page (i.e. bite sized, 1 per week) PDFs to help you connect with the magic of each cup card in the suit.Spells you can used based on the cardMeditations to help you connect with the suit of cupsNumerological, herbal, crystal, and astrological correspondences to help you remember and work with the messages of each cardJournal prompts to help you integrate the lessons of the cardsWeekly ½ hour group video calls that include a brief meditation, discussion of that week’s card, and a Q&A sessionAltar strategiesA full “album” of the cups songs from the Between the Worlds episodes you can listen to just for fun, and practice to be able to call in the energy of the cardsCups movement gestures to kinesthetically call in the energy of each cardAnd more!TO SIGN UP FOR THE WORKSHOP OR FIND OUT MORE, CLICK HERE**********************************Amanda's References This Episode Include:“Tarot as a Way of Life” by Karen Hamaker-Zondag“The Complete Book of Tarot Reversals” by Mary K. Greer“Braiding Sweetgrass” by Robin Wall Kimmerer (Amanda talks about this book when she describes the mucky pond).Also, the wand maker Amanda mentions is Daymoon Wands. You can find out more about them on Instagram @daymoonwands or on their Etsy shop.To order Amanda's book, "Initiated: Memoir of a Witch" CLICK HERE.**********************************Original MUSIC by Carolyn Pennypacker Riggs.Referenced excerpt: I'm Set Free by The Velvet Underground.**********************************Ritual for HecateHecate is the guardian of the in between places so it’s good to go at dawn or twilight to do this ritual, leaving offerings for her at a crossroads where three roads come together. This ritual is good for transitional moments. You’re asking for Hecate to guide you at this crossroads in your life, through this transition. Before you set out to the crossroads do a ceremonial clearing with fumigation herbs like mugwort or cedar or rosemary, have a ritual bath and anoint yourself with oil of cypress, or brush yourself down with a soft brush. Then go to a crossroads where three roads come together. You can leave coins for her, or pour a libation of water, milk (you can use any milk, oat milk, etc) - she is also the goddess of childbearing, wine or honey, snake skins for transformation, fish or eggs (for you non-vegan friends), or garlic also works, or onion, you can also leave cakes. Leaving offerings for Hecate on the dark moon (the night before the new moon), in ancient Greece the ritual to Hecate (involving a ceremonial dinner for her) was called a Deipnon. After the dinner your supposed to leave offerings for her at the crossroads where three roads come together, and say,“Torch bearing Hekate, powerful wanderer through realms of night