Today on The Lively Show, we’re speaking with New York Times bestselling author, Today Show dating expert, and Cosmopolitan dating columnist, Matthew Hussey of How To Get The Guy.

I first found Matthew’s YouTube channel several months ago, and I have since become a huge fan of his practical and empowering advice which helps millions of women improve their confidence in the dating world and beyond.

As someone who is new to dating in the online era, Matthew’s advice concerning attracting the partner you want, dating site/app do’s + don’ts, and texting have been particularly helpful for me personally.

This episode is perfect for anyone looking to attract the partner they really want, learn how to approach online dating intentionally, hear about Matthew’s own personal journey as a well-respected coach at the age of 28.

 












 

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IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL FIND OUT ABOUT
 


Matthew tells us how he began his career in self development as a child by studying self-help books on a continuous basis.


He tells us how he figured out that the “secret sauce” of successful people was simply the way they acted around people.


Matthew was always self-aware of what he needed to do to improve his situation at various times in his life.


He tells us how he went from helping men to helping women with relationship advice since they needed to hear from someone who knows how men are.


Mathew explains how he modeled himself from his “mentor” Tony Robbins and it took years to develop his own style and method for himself.


He’s tells us that women tend to gravitate to people they are comfortable with which is the reason they seem to get the same quality of men in their lives.


Matthew says that the only way to get a guy that you want is to break from what is comfortable for you.


He explains that you need one really great dimension of yourself to make you attractive to another person.


Mathew talks about how he shows people how to develop their unique pairings over time which can make them irresistible to the opposite sex.


 
SHOW NOTES
 

How To Win Friends and Influence People

Get the Guy

Get The Guy - Website

Mathew Hussey - Cosmopolitan

Mathew Hussey - YouTube

Tony Robbins

Brené Brown

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