D/s Breakups LB054

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D/s Breakups LB054

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Sep 16, 2016

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Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back for episode 54 of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week’s topic is about D/s breakups and how to (hopefully) make them suck a little less. In this...
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D/s Breakups LB054

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