25: When a Student Hates You

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25: When a Student Hates You

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Sep 16, 2015

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Despite our best intentions, sometimes teachers make decisions that alienate students beyond repair. In this episode, I share stories of mistakes I made that damaged my relationships with three different students, and what I learned from each one.

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Sep 16, 2015

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25: When a Student Hates You

25: When a Student Hates You

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