How People Pleasing Will Hurt You And Your Marriage and stop your ministry

Advice for Couples Who Work Together: Take our 31-day marriage prayer challenge today and join the 1000's of couples who have done it. https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle Whether you and your spouse work together in business, parenting, DIY house projects, or in any other way...this episode is for you! Working together with your spouse can have its challenges and moments of joy, in this episode of Marriage After God we encourage you as you pursue working together, we share what has worked for us, and we remind you of why you are working together and the importance of the process! We chat about how expectations can impact the working marriage relationship. We talk about being on the same team and how to take advantage of your strengths and weaknesses. Scriptures we review: The benefit of working together: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Who you are working for: Colossians 3:23-24 The way you work together is a witness to the world! -- Peacemaker Shirt: http by Marriage After God

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3 Games You Should Never Play With Your Spouse: In this episode of Marriage After God we have a little fun at the beginning talking about our favorite family games we enjoy together but only as a segway into the real topic at hand. We discuss 3 very dangerous emotional and manipulative games that are all too common in marriage. by Marriage After God

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How To Study The Bible As A Family: One of the main roles, if not the most important role, of the Christian parent, is to teach and disciple their children in the Word of God. We have been given the greatest task of all time, to raise our children to know God and his Word. We are not only supposed to read it to them but also to teach it and live it out, especially the live it out part. The Bible gives us very real and specific instructions on this. The word of God is to be taught in every part of our lives. Not just on Sundays. Not just at church but in every facet of our every day lives. But this task could be daunting. The idea of being responsible for their Biblical knowledge and understanding can invoke many fears and inadequacies in us. You may feel unprepared or incapable. You may think that you don't know enough about the Bible or are unqualified to teach it to your children. Well, we are here to encourage you that you can and must. That God has called you to be the main place by Marriage After God

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3 Honest Fears Of A Growing Family And How To Combat Them Biblically Private: In this episode, we talk about 3 honest fears that have come up recently in light of our 4th pregnancy and how we combat them biblically. TRANSCRIPT - Hey, we're Aaron and Jennifer Smith with Marriage After God. - Helping you cultivate and extraordinary marriage. - And to day we're gonna be talking about fears of a growing family and how to combat them biblically. - Before we get started today, because this topic is kind of surrounded around growing family and having kids, I wanted to share that we do have resources for parents called 31 Prayers For My Son and For My Daughter, and these are great resources for you to pray over your children. They're 31 prayers in each book talking about different topics in the child's life and there's also journal pages that after each prayer you can just make it more personal and we've had some positive feedback about these resources. Parents are really loving them, so m by Marriage After God

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6 Callings God Has For Your Marriage: This week we highlight 6 callings God has for every marriage. We share personal stories and struggles we have experienced in our own marriage, as well as the importance of these callings and how they impact the marriage relationship and beyond. READ: - We're Aaron and Jennifer Smith with Marriage After God. - Helping you cultivate an extraordinary marriage. - Today we're going to be talking about God's calling for your marriage. Lots of people think they have a calling or don't know what their calling might be, but we believe that there's six callings that every Christian marriage has and we're here to share 'em with you. - So Aaron, before we get started, can you just explain a little bit about what does it mean to have a calling, what does it mean when you hear the word I have a calling on my marriage? So that people understand what we're saying. - So just growing up in the church, we've all heard this idea of our calling and a lot of tim by Marriage After God

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Your Marriage is Your First Ministry: One of the reasons we started this channel is to help and encourage Christian marriages around the world to know that our marriages are our ministry and the first place that we practice the things the Bible teaches us and commands is in our marriage toward our spouse and our children. Our heart for this is to recognize how when our marriage ministry is thriving then it will make our ministry outside the home more effective. Do you recognize your role in the marriage as a ministry? Being a husband, being a wife. In the episode, we hope you are encouraged to thrive in the ministry God has given you, which is your marriage. We as Christians walk in this way treating our marriages as the ministries that they actually are then the world we see what God intended them to see, good fruit. -- 31-Day Marriage Prayer Challenge: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle The Husband And Wife 30-Day Devotional: https://shop.unvei by Marriage After God

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Our Need for Romance In Marriage (Physical & Emotional): Romance is the feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love. Romance is breaking up the mundane of the day to remind each other that you desire them and are thinking of them. Every marriage needs romance. We discuss the importance of both physical and emotional romance in marriage. Physical romance includes touch, affection, sex, kissing, holding hands, and all of the different ways a husband and wife connect physically to show their love for each other. Emotional romance is connectedness through communication, becoming known, spending quality time together, listening to each other, laughing and playing together, cultivating a strong bond of unity. We must not see a husband or wife only need one form of romance over another, both are important for a marriage to thrive. A marriage after God pursues physical and emotional romance continuously. -- FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagr by Marriage After God

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Our Marriage Story: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: In this episode of Marriage After God, we share how we met, getting married, those first few hard years, how God walked us through healing from painful sex and pornography, and where we are today. by Marriage After God

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Christian Community Is Necessary For Your Marriage: Christian Community is one of those things that people desire and want, but can be afraid of or not know how to get. In this episode we share our journey of finding Christian Community, how it has impacted our marriage, why it is necessary, and practical ways of how to find it. — FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.unveiledwife.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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Our Favorite Parenting & Marriage Resources - Part 1: Marriages resources played an invaluable role in helping our marriage grow into what it is today. There are a handful of marriage books and websites that transformed the way we saw our marriage, our sex life, our way of communicating and so much more than we thought we would share them with you! Some of these resources helped us in our struggles with sexual intimacy, porn addiction, and parenting. In this episode, we share books, blogs, social media accounts to follow, and some insight into the power of real-life relationships. We also share a look at the some of the marriage resources we have created to inspire and lift up your marriage. It is crucial for the health of your marriage that you invest in your relationship by digging into resources that give you a fresh perspective that will challenge you to grow in the role that God has given you! Here are all the links from the helpful marriage books and resources we talked about in by Marriage After God

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Goal Setting: Why It's Good For Your Marriage: Setting goals with your spouse is one of the best ways to cultivate hopefulness and togetherness. Knowing your purpose and what you are working on as a team builds unity in marriage. In this episode, we discuss the importance of goal setting and how it is good for your marriage. FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.unveiledwife.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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Why A Healthy Lifestyle Is Important For A Healthy Marriage: This episode of Marriage After God shares 3 important areas of life that are positively impacted when we choose to live a healthy lifestyle and how it affects marriage. by Marriage After God

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My Husband Is An Extrovert and I'm an Introvert How We Navigate It Biblically: It is common in marriage for one spouse to be an extrovert and the other to be an introvert. There are times that both spouses have the same dominant personality traits. No matter what it can be a challenge in marriage to navigate how to get each other's needs fulfilled and communicate these needs in marriage, so we thought we would share a little from our experience of being an extrovert and introvert in marriage. by Marriage After God

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9 Fun & Creative Date Ideas For Marriage: In this episode, we wanted to share some fun and creative date ideas for your next date night. Jennifer and I have learned over the years just how important it is to prioritize and protect a date night with each other. Our heart is not only to give you some fun date night ideas but also encourage you to be Intentional in connecting each week in your marriage. - FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.unveiledwife.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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How To Make The Most Out Of Your Summer Family Outings: Summertime can be such a fun time for your marriage and for your family. It can also be a hard and frustrating time if we aren't careful with how we approach all of those fun family outings and trips. Whether you are going to the pool or to the beach, to the mountains or to the lake it is important for us to be prepared in our hearts so that we do not let our selves get in the way of the peace and joy our families will experience. Also, we must remember that our lives are meant for more than we realize and while we are enjoying our family outings God just might also have a mission for us and our families. SHOW NOTES: Peacemaker shirt: https://shop.unveiledwife.com/collections/apparel/products/peacemaker 31-Day Marriage Prayer Challenge: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle The Unveiled Wife Book: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/collections/devotionals/products/the-unveiled-wife-embracing- by Marriage After God

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How To Confess Your Sin To Your Spouse: Confessing your sin to your spouse will never be an easy thing to do but it is important ot maintain a healthy relationship with your spouse as well as growing in your walk with christ. Although confession is so important it is something that does not happen very often in our marriages. In this episode we discuss the reasons why confessing your sin to your spouse is so important and we also give some practicle and biblical advice on how to go about confessing. We also talk a little bit about how to recieve a confession from our spouse. Please leave us your questions and comments. -- GET THE "Ephesians 5:25" SHIRT HERE: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/collections/apparel/products/ephesians-5-25-shirt -- SHOW NOTES: 1 John 1:5-10 Romans 8:12-14 James 5:16 Matthew 3:8 Luke 17:3-4 Tips For Confession 1. (22:28) Recognize what Christ has done for us. There is nothing your spouse can do that is worse than what we have done to God. 2. Honest by Marriage After God

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How To Have A Healthy Biblical Relationship With Your In-laws: When we say "I do" we are saying yes to the person we have fallen in love with. However, that person comes from a family and part of marriage is navigating how to respect both sets of family. Marriage is about two people who have different backgrounds and upbringings becoming one, making their own unique family. In-laws and extended families are one of those areas of marriage that can be a source of contention for couples. We get asked quite a bit of questions for advice on how to respect these relationships while still trying to work together in marriage to build the family God desires. In this episode, we chat about marriage and in-laws. We take a look at some scripture that helps us understand the significance of being one in marriage. We also talk about boundaries. -- FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.unveiledwife.com FOR by Marriage After God

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Being Faithful In The Little Things Will Prepare Us For The Big Things: Let's be faithful with the small things so that we will be faithful in the big things. Consider supporting this podcast by visiting our online store today. https://shop.marraigeaftergod.com READ: [Aaron] Hey we're Aaron and Jennifer Smith with Marriage After God. [Jennifer] Helping you cultivate an extraordinary marriage. [Aaron] And today we're gonna talk about how being faithful in the little things will prepare us for the big things. [Aaron] Welcome to the Marriage After God podcast where we believe that marriage was meant for more than just happily ever after. [Jennifer] I'm Jennifer, also known as Unveiled Wife. [Aaron] And I'm Aaron, also known as Husband Revolution. [Jennifer] We have been married for over a decade. [Aaron] And so far we have four young children. [Jennifer] We have been doing marriage ministry online for over seven years through blogging and social media. [Aaron] With the desire t by Marriage After God

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Stop Escaping the Hard Things In Your Marriage: Why you should stop trying to escape the hard things in your marriage. Marriage is hard. We all go through trials and tribulations. In fact, the Bible promises us that we will encounter hard things in life. Jennifer and I were notoriously great at escaping the issues in our marriage in the beginning. We managed to find every excuse to avoid dealing with our sexual issues and our hearts towards God and each other. God finally got a hold of our stubborn hearts and showed us the beauty and healing that can come from facing our trials head-on. In This episode of Marriage After God we discuss how we managed to escape our problems and how we changed and found healing. -- FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.unveiledwife.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook. by Marriage After God

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What To Do After a Fight: Fights are more common in the Christian marriage then they should be. Fighting should be a rare occurrence and if they happen here are some way to help reconcile and bring unity and oneness back to the marriage. -- FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.marriageaftergod.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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How To Have A Strong Marriage After Having Kids: Take Our 31-day Marriage Prayer Challenge: https://shop.unveiledwife.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle Many of the questions that have come in from listeners and viewers are about having a healthy biblical marriage after children, so we thought it would be beneficial for us to answer some of them. So we have taken a handful of question from our viewers and we answer them in this episode. We answer from our own life experience of learning to walk with each other while having our 3 children with another on the way and we bring in scripture to help us navigate how we should look at our marriage with children in the mix. Please leave us any questions, comments or you own advice that other could glean from. -- Take Our 31-day Marriage Prayer Challenge: https://shop.unveiledwife.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle -- FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCE by Marriage After God

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How to Bicker with Your Spouse: Take our 31-day marriage prayer challenge today. Thousands of couples have already started. https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle At the beginning of this episode, we share our favorite tips on how to bicker with your spouse. Of course, we are playing and the real intention of this episode is to identify why married couples fight and bicker and to help you learn how to stop bickering in a biblical way. -- FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.marriageaftergod.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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11 Fall Date Ideas: Being creative with your weekly date nights can get difficult over the years. This is why we put together 11 date night ideas for you. :) Take our 31-day marriage prayer challenge today and join the 1000's of couples who have done it. https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.marriageaftergod.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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How We Deal With Entertainment And Media In Our Marriage and Home: We live in an entertainment world and with all of the media that is available to us at any given moment, we think it is important to discuss how to know what we should or should not consume. Movies, Music, TV. How do we know what kinds of things we should be watching as married Christians? What do I do if my spouse won't stops watching that show that I don't think he should watching? She says it doesn't affect her the same way it affects me, now what do I do? In this episode, we discuss how we navigate entertainment in our home and life. We also give some Biblical ways of thinking about this issue. -- FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.unveiledwife.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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What It's Like Being A Part of a Home Church: We grew up in what many would call mega-churches. Calvery Chaples, Harvest Christian Fellowship, Crossroads Christian church and now we are a part of a small home church with about 10 families. In this episode find out from our first-hand experience of what it's like being a part of a small home church. Take our 31-day marriage prayer challenge today and join the 1000's of couples who have done it. https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.marriageaftergod.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com https://facebook.com/unveiledwife FOR HUSBANDS https://husbandrevolution.com https://facebook.com/HusbandRevolution by Marriage After God

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How To Work as a Team During Postpartum: The Postpartum season and any other time of trial or hardship can really rock a marriage. In this episode, we discuss our past experiences of postpartum and why this fourth time around was so different. We specifically address a decision we both made before the baby was born and how it impacted the wellness of the whole family during postpartum. Postpartum is a trying time as a husband and wife get disrupted with a new baby, crying, sleepless nights, pain, and a jolt in the day to day routines. However, we realized that being a team and working together is critical during this season. We talk about how selfishness and fairness cause bitterness and frustration, we talk about expectations, walking in the Spirit, and we talk about preparedness and how much that can really help the marriage during postpartum. Postpartum eCourse https://unveiledwife.com/a-christian-postpartum-course-that-every-expecting-mom-needs-review/ -- Take our 31-day marri by Marriage After God

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Are you a liar in your marriage?: Lying is one of those things that can easily get overlooked, although it affects marriage in big ways. In this episode of Marriage After God we discuss the impact of lying, what scripture says about it, we share personal examples of small lies in our marriage, and we challenge husbands and wives to evaluate whether they are liars or walking in integrity. Lying, both big lies and little lies, causes disunity and distrust in marriage. A marriage after God, a husband and wife after God, are people of light and integrity, pursuing and cultivating truth in everything they do. -- 31-Day Marriage Prayer Challenge: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle The Unveiled Wife Book: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/collections/devotionals/products/the-unveiled-wife-embracing-intimacy-with-god-and-your-husband-by-jennifer-smith I Love My Wife Shirt: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/collections/apparel/products/i-love-my-wife -- F by Marriage After God

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How to Live with an Unbelieving Spouse: Take our 31-day marriage prayer challenge today and join the 1000's of couples who have done it. https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle -- Being unequally yoked in marriage means that one spouse is walking in obedience to God and the other is not. This can become a source of contention that amplifies other marriage issues that can arise even in relationships when both spouses are both walking with God. This can be a painful situation to experience, but for anyone in this position there is hope and it starts with the spouse who knows God. The most important thing in a marriage with a spouse who doesn’t know God or isn’t obeying Him, is Salvation! The desire to see that spouse come to know and love God is more important than happily ever after! In this week’s episode of Marriage After God we discuss some important details about being unequally yoked in marriage. We specifically give 4 Biblical tips for those who a by Marriage After God

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Making Time Count In Your Marriage: Everyone has the same amount of time in a day, yet we all manage our time differently and many of us may have lost a healthy perspective of and use of our time. In this episode, we discuss time and how if we value our time correctly then we can be more effective for the ministry God has for our marriages. We talk about how much time we have or how little we actually have. How do we perceive the value of our time? How can we see our time differently, how can we use it more effectively? Do we need to slow down? and most importantly we must ask ourselves what God's word says about time. -- Take our 31-day marriage prayer challenge today and join the 1000's of couples who have done it. https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/products/thirty-one-prayers-bundle -- FOR MORE MARRIAGE ENCOURAGEMENT https://marriageaftergod.com https://instagram.com/marriageaftergod SHOP MARRIAGE RESOURCES https://shop.marriageaftergod.com FOR WIVES https://unveiledwife.com http by Marriage After God

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Let's Talk About Social Media And Marriage: We haven't figured out how to perfectly navigate social media in our marriage and family which is why we wanted to talk about this subject today. We talk about a few strategies to build healthy habits with social media in our home and we will talk about areas that we struggle with social media. We think it is time to start evaluating how social media is affecting our families and daily lives. There is a lot of good that can come from social media but there is a lot of unhealthy things as well. Aaron gets personal and shares his own addiction to social media we share stories of things our kids have told us because of us being on our phones in front of them and we both share how we can be better at how we engage with it on a daily basis. “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything." 1 Corinthians 6:12 -- Take our 31-day marriage prayer challenge toda by Marriage After God

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