Raise Your Love Signal: A Guide to Attracting and Keeping the Love of Your Life

By Chantal Landreville

Why do I keep attracting the wrong men? Am I ever going to find the love of my life? And, if I did, could I sustain the relationship?

Have you ever asked yourself these questions?

Travel on a genuine, relatable journey through love and relationships in Raise Your Love Signal, a guide for the woman seeking more from her romantic relationship and wanting to cultivate deeper connections, a profound sense of self and lasting happiness.

Drawing from twenty years of personal growth and her own sometimes heart-wrenching pursuit of the 'perfect relationship', certified love and relationship coach Chantal Landreville shares the simple yet powerful principles that can help you nurture love, even before you officially become a couple. From start to finish, this book lays out the essentials of love success, helping you find the right relationship and keep it going strong, including:

• Knowing your worth and developing self-confidence
• Being the true You and not compromising your authentic self
• Getting clear about the kind of relationship you truly want
• Identifying your boundaries and learning how to stick to them
• Dating the right way and attracting the right partner for you
• Putting the fundamentals in place before going into your new relationship
• And so much more

Whether you're searching for that special someone or looking to strengthen the bond with your current partner, this guide covers it all.

After her own journey to love, Chantal realized that the world needed a new perspective on love and relationships, which prompted her to write this transformative book. She recognized a void in our education system and how we fail to teach young people about healthy, balanced relationships. She aims to fill that gap. Raise Your Love Signal is a guide for anyone seeking genuine love and for couples striving to maintain healthy, loving relationships.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Grammar Factory Publishing
• Release date: Feb 14, 2024
• ISBN: 9781998756575

Chantal Landreville

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE is a certified love and relationship coach with over two decades of experience in personal growth and human connection. Her mission is to help individuals discover the path to authentic and lasting love, and she is dedicated to empowering her readers with the knowledge and tools needed to create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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Praise for Raise Your Love Signal

This book is a must for anyone looking to attract and keep an incredible partner. Chantal takes the reader on a journey to better understand themselves, how they show up in relationships, as well as how to find, and create the relationship they have always dreamt of. She provides simple steps and simple questions that will leave you with more confidence to raise your love signal and call the partnership of your dreams. It’s deep, straight up truth and easy to follow.

MARK GROVES Speaker, Writer, Motivator and Founder of Create The Love

This book is an inspiring and practical guide to getting the love you want. Whether you are single or in a relationship that needs to grow, you will get step-by-step coaching from a woman who has courageously forged her own path. Chantal will teach you to raise your love signal!

TANYA CHERNOVA Inspiring Global Speaker, #1 Best-Selling Author

"If you’re looking for an in-depth, comprehensive guide for attracting/finding/keeping the love of your life, Raise Your Love Signal is for you. This book is deliciously and densely packed with insights, exercises and proven methods of self-reflection that are essential to ‘doing the work’ to discover what you need to do, if love is what you want. Most engaging are the personal stories of clients Chantal has worked with and their breakthroughs to finding lasting romantic love Landreville’s own ‘deep dives’ into her personal story, exploring with great vulnerability the struggles she grappled with and overcame to find passionate, deep and compelling love with her partner. It’s a love story and also a guidebook on how to make your very own love story. Raise Your Love Signal is the real deal. It’s like walking into the gym on January 1st; be prepared to do the work and the results you achieve will be far beyond your expectations."

RON GERBLER Producer

Raise Your Love Signal

A Guide to Attracting and Keeping the Love of Your Life

Chantal Landreville

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Raise Your Love Signal

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Raise Your Love Signal: A Guide to Attracting and Keeping the Love of Your Life / Chantal Landreville.

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1. FAM029000 FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Love & Romance. 2. FAM030000 FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage & Long-Term Relationships. 3. SEL023000 SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Self-Esteem.

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The material in this publication is of the nature of general comment only and does not represent professional advice. It is not intended to provide specific guidance for particular circumstances, and it should not be relied on as the basis for any decision to take action or not take action on any matter which it covers. Readers should obtain professional advice where appropriate, before making any such decision. To the maximum extent permitted by law, the author and publisher disclaim all responsibility and liability to any person, arising directly or indirectly from any person taking or not taking action based on the information in this publication.

Introduction: What does it mean to Raise Your Love Signal?

IF YOU’VE picked up this book, chances are you’ve had your share of struggles in the love department. Maybe you’re single and are desperately seeking your life partner. Maybe you’re wondering why you keep attracting the wrong men. You might just be coming out of a toxic relationship or are discontented with your current relationship and ready to throw in the towel.

You want to do something about it, but...

you hate online dating and feel frustrated by how hard it is to meet the one,

you put yourself out there but keep attracting low-quality, emotionally unavailable men,

you fear the idea that your clock is ticking,

you think you’re doing everything right or just can’t figure out what you are doing wrong,

you worry you’ll never find love, that it will never happen for you.

Basically, you are sick and tired of the entire subject and feel hopeless.

Well, guess what? You’re not alone. That is why I know this book is right for you. It will not only help you understand all these feelings, it will also help you in your search to attract the Love of your Life.

Believe me, I have personally experienced all of these issues. Every. Single. One. I know exactly how you feel. Every tear you’ve shed, every moment of depression and loneliness you’ve experienced, every ounce of self-doubt and anger you feel... I’ve been there. And like you, I have asked myself more than once, What is wrong with me? Why is this not happening for me? Will I ever find love or what my heart truly desires?

You see, I was a single gal, too, alone for more than fifteen years and struggling in all the areas of finding love as you are. The good news, and, yes, there is good news, is that all those tears I shed got me here, writing this book that will hopefully transform your love life.

Now, you might be wondering why I’m so fascinated with love, with dating and relationships. My father’s passing when I was two years old certainly affected me deeply and had a lot to do with it. Of course, I didn’t know this at the time, but I’m sure it affected my need for male attention, which I’ll tell you more about as we continue. For now, I’ll say I am sure this need developed into the idea of being in love with being in love. I would fantasize about romance, about my prince charming and how he would sweep me off my feet to live the happily-ever-after life, just like in a Disney movie.

Sadly, life isn’t a Disney love story. For most of my adult life I was light years away from that. All my attempts at love failed, leaving me with so much hurt, rejection, and disappointment. It led me to a dark place. I started questioning myself: Is there something wrong with me? Am I being too demanding? Am I not loveable enough?

Or, the worst one: Will I be alone for the rest of my life? (Reading this sentence today, it makes me sad that once upon a time I actually thought this, and lived in fear about it.)

Self-doubt crept into my head without my even realizing it. I started to question my self-worth (I literally thought I was not worthy of love). When I reflect on those dark days, I shudder to think what I had to go through to get to where I am today. Hopefully, your being here can help you avoid that journey.

But, then, every journey has a beginning and these experiences were my initiation to the world of self-development and personal growth. And, as with every journey, this meant I needed to do the work on myself to find and attract my life partner. This demanded some soul-searching and a deeper dive to get to the root of why I wasn’t able to attract and keep my right partner for a long-term, committed relationship. I also needed to recognize patterns in my life and understand why I had them.

So, I started reading. I became almost addicted to reading and researching everything that was out there about relationships, male-female connections, human behaviour, and everything in between. I was also lucky enough to have numerous guides, friends, and angels who helped me along the way by giving me the right advice and pointing me in the right direction in terms of books, self-help conferences, healers, life coaches, Vipassana meditation practices, Ayahuasca ceremonies, Tantra workshops, retreats, and many other experiences.

At one point, though, I realized I needed to stop consuming. I had officially become a self-help junkie, learning and discovering all these things but not applying any of them to my own personal life, which was why nothing was really changing for me. It’s one thing to learn; it’s a whole other to apply the lessons and use the tools and skills acquired along the way (keep this in mind as you work through this book and start making the changes you need to, and remember as well that deep beliefs and patterns set in our brain for more than twenty, thirty, or forty years do not change overnight). You know that old saying, that doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results is the definition of insanity? Well,