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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is a delightful little book in which the author explores, through a series of short essays (musings really), the ways in which grammar influences our mindsets and vice versa. Although it does kind of sound like a self-help book, it's not cheesy or new-agey at all; it reads more like an extended letter from a friend. Larry Weinstein writes with a breezy, witty, often wry tone, certainly not holding himself up as any kind of expert, not saying "I know better than you how to live your life," but more of a "here are some interesting ideas that I thought you might like to contemplate."If you work with words in any capacity, or have any interest in grammar as more than just a set of boring rules that need to be memorized; if the power of words interests you, if you've ever spent more than a few seconds pondering how best to construct a particular sentence for maximum clarity, elegance, and depth/breadth of expression -- then you will almost certainly enjoy "Grammar for the Soul." You're bound to find at least one or two points in the book that will make you stop and say "Hey, cool, I never thought of it that way before." I highly recommend checking it out.
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Grammar for the Soul - Lawrence A. Weinstein
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Copyright © 2008 by Lawrence A. Weinstein
First Quest Edition 2008
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Weinstein, Larry.
Grammar for the soul: using language for personal change / Lawrence A. Weinstein.—1st Quest ed.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 978-0-8356-0865-7
1. English language—Miscellanea. 2. English language—Grammar. I. Title.
PE1095.W35 2008
ISBN for electronic edition, e-pub format: 978-0-8356-2072-7
5 4 3 2 * 08 09 10 11 12
To Diane
To know how near or
far each soul is from its goal,
the indicator is speech.
—NACHMAN OF BRATZLAV
Editorial Note
N ote numbers do not appear in the text. All textual references are listed in the sources section at the end of the book.
Contents
Introduction
Bootstrap Grammar—Taking Life in Hand
GETTING NOTICED
Colons
ENERGY
Transitive Verbs in the Active Voice
WHEREWITHAL
Prepositions
DOING WHAT WORKS
Anomalous Commas and Beyond
LACK OF TIME
The Imperative
Grammar for Creative Passivity
GETTING OUT OF ONE’S OWN WAY
Passive Voice
THE LATENT REPERTOIRE
Triple-Spacing
HYBRID
Blessing
Grammar for Belonging
TOUCH
Many Elements
COMMUNICATION
Commas, Quotation Marks, Modifiers, Pronouns
BONDING
Ellipses
BEING CORRECT
Apostrophes
COMPROMISE
They
—Made Singular
TRUST
Exclamation Marks, Italics, Intensifiers
GENEROSITY
Semicolons, Cumulative Sentences
FRIENDS IN THE GRAVEYARD
Present Tense
Grammar for Freedom
MODELING I-STATEMENTS
USING E-PRIME
SHIFTING INTO PAST TENSE
OUR LINGUISTIC LIMITS
Grammar to Restore the Ego
FULCRUM
But
GRAMMAR, THING OF BEAUTY
Sentence Length and Repetition, among Other Things
Grammar for Mindfulness
SPEAKING WITHOUT FEIGNING CERTAINTY: PART I
Avoiding the Third-Person Omniscient
SPEAKING WITHOUT FEIGNING CERTAINTY: PART II
Emily Dickinson’s Dashes
CHECKING PREOCCUPATION
Future Tense and Adverbial Provisos
A DIGRESSION ON THE SPIRITUAL VALUE OF DICTIONARIES
TOLERATING AMBIGUITY
And
CODA
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
SOURCES
Introduction
The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.
—LUDWIG WITTGENSTEIN
G rammar? In most people’s minds, the closest synonym for grammar
is chore.
It’s about as inspiring a thought as dust cloth.
It certainly seems to have no place in a discussion of ways to realize one’s potential as a whole person.
All the same, I wish to suggest that our list of activities capable of hastening personal growth be expanded beyond yoga, meditation, and the martial arts to include the wise use of syntax and punctuation.
During my first twenty years as a teacher of writing at the college level, I would not have dreamed of suggesting this idea. Like my colleagues, I viewed grammar’s importance strictly in terms of communication: only by following its rules can we Homo sapiens make our thoughts clear to one another. A randomly ordered, unmarked string of words such as you rake hand me that would
is gibberish, whereas the correctly sequenced, punctuated sentence Would you hand me that rake?
gets the job done. That was grammar’s great contribution to us—but its only contribution, insofar as I could tell.
If, during those first twenty years in the classroom, I saw a connection between grammar and mental health, it was a negative one: a sizeable fraction of my students at both Harvard University and Bentley College had been verbally traumatized in the name of grammar. Their high school teachers had red-marked their papers so heavily for split infinitives, tense shifts, pronoun reference problems, run-ons, fragments, and the like that now they feared committing words to paper at all. They approached blank sheets of paper as they might a minefield. I actually once wrote an essay on those students’ behalf entitled Grammar, What Big Teeth You Have.
I did not begin to think about how attention to grammar can enhance morale until I read some articles by linguist Benjamin Lee Whorf. According to him, any language—English or Hopi or Chinese—does more than enable its speakers to make their thinking clear to each other: it somewhat molds their thinking. By making it easier to express certain thoughts than others (and which thoughts those are, he says, differs from language to language), a language helps determine what one thinks and feels in the first place. In English, for example, we have tenses that separate the present from the past—that put the past behind us, in effect, implying it will never come again—and most of us who think in English therefore try not to waste
time; we move in a hurry. By comparison, the Hopi Indians Whorf studied—whose management of tense implied that everything that ever happened still is
—had less incentive to live fast and therefore led more measured lives. A language, Whorf believed, can contribute either to neuroses (his term) or to more expansive, adaptive ways of thinking and being.
When I encountered Whorf, I knew little about differences between whole national grammars but a fair amount about differences between the grammar of one English speaker and the grammar of another. Each of my students represented a distinct grammatical profile within English. One never used a question mark—or a hedging phrase or clause—but would use italics and adverbial intensifiers (without doubt,
very,
extremely,
etc.) freely. Another stood out for inserting the occasional parenthesis or dash as a conversational touch. A third wrote sentences so long that they created the impression she couldn’t bear to part with them, and a fourth wrote only sentences of twenty-two words or less, each built along the simplest of lines from subject to predicate to object. In the course of reading Whorf, I began to wonder if his central insight applied to all these private languages as well as national ones. Could these linguistic differences be linked to different ways of thinking and living? If so, that seemed worth knowing, since making the right changes in one’s grammar might then be expected to improve one’s life, to some degree.
Deciding to test my thesis on the speaker with whom I had the most influence, I resolved to start noticing the effects of my grammatical decisions on my own quality of life. As my experiment continued, this often meant behaving like a patient in a medical study and taking my soul’s vital signs. Respiratory rate? I learned that I don’t breathe as freely when I avoid use of the first-person pronoun as when I use it. Pulse? A certain way of managing the future tense keeps the beat steady, regardless of setbacks and unpleasant surprises. Temperature? Some grammatical moves—the use of ellipses, for example—warm up my relations with the people around me by implying tacit, shared knowledge, and I feel warmer.
Like my student who wrote endless sentences, I could go on and on in this vein: It makes a difference to my self-esteem whether I put a phrase bearing bad news about myself before the coordinate conjunction but
or after it. It affects my level of hopefulness when I rely exclusively on forms of the verb to be,
which reduce both things and people to static entities. I have now recorded scores of such connections between grammar and my own well-being, some pronounced, others subtle. Conceivably, at least, every attribute a person might desire to develop—from decisiveness in an emergency to trust and generosity and the ability to tolerate uncertainty—stands to benefit from changes in one’s verbal conduct, as I hope to show.
I have come to view the realm of grammar as a kind of rarefied gymnasium, where—instead of weights, a treadmill, mats, and a balance beam—one finds active verbs, passive verbs, periods, apostrophes, dashes, and a thousand other pieces of linguistic equipment,