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Full of current events of the day and #HashtagsOfTheMoment, the topics in the collection are wide ranging, including cooking food to show love, surviving Chinese School, being an underpaid lecturer, defending against yellow dildos, navigating immigration issues, finding love in a time of elections, crying with children separated from their parents at the border, charting the landscape of frugal/hoarder elders during the pandemic, witnessing COVID-inspired anti–Asian American violence while reflecting on the death of Vincent Chin, teaching her sixteen-year-old son to drive after the deaths of Trayvon Martin and George Floyd, and trusting the power of writing herself into existence. Within these lyric essays, some of which are accompanied by artwork and art installations, Wang finds the courage and hope to speak out for herself and for an entire generation of Asian American women.
A notable work in the landscape of Asian American literature as well as Midwest and Michigan-based literature, You Cannot Resist Me When My Hair Is in Braids features a clear and powerful voice that brings all people together in these political and pandemic times.
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You Cannot Resist Me When My Hair Is in Braids - Frances Kai-Hwa Wang
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Frances Kai-Hwa Wang languages desire with a refreshing candor and mischievous wit. She talks story of divorce, of messy relationships, and of enduring humiliating racist and misogynistic microaggressions because she is an Asian American woman. Wang’s prose poems and lyric essays ring with wisdom and hard-earned truths and dreamlike reveries in this unforgettable collection.
—May-lee Chai, author of Useful Phrases for Immigrants: Stories, winner of the American Book Award
"‘I do not know if one ever recovers from Kathmandu,’ the speaker in one of Frances Kai-Hwa Wang’s poems ruminates, and I don’t know if we ever recover—or want to recover—from You Cannot Resist Me When My Hair Is in Braids, which is part of the marvelous linguistic spell that is cast in this book. By turns whimsical, romantic, witty, hybrid, self-deprecating, fierce, intertextual, hashtagged, polylingual, and full of a radiant empathy that connects us to Vincent Chin, George Zimmerman, Sun Ku Wong, Hanuman, and Milan Kundera, this is a collection that astounds, surprises, and delights, which encapsulates much of what a book that leaves an indelible mark should do. Yay Frances for a collection that rocks!"
—Dr. Ravi Shankar, Pushcart Prize–winning author of Correctional
"You Cannot Resist Me When My Hair Is in Braids is a great gathering of the many contradictions, the multifaceted multitudes, of Frances Kai-Hwa Wang. Across its pages of aphorism, prose poem, micro-fiction, and lyric essay, we encounter Patsy Cline heartache and AOC outrage, delivered in a humor that is solely Wang’s own."
—Tim Tomlinson, director and cofounder of New York Writers Workshop, author of Requiem for the Tree Fort I Set on Fire and This Is Not Happening to You
You Cannot Resist Me When My Hair Is in Braids
Made in Michigan Writers Series
GENERAL EDITORS
Michael Delp, Interlochen Center for the Arts
M. L. Liebler, Wayne State University
A complete listing of the books in this series can be found online at wsupress.wayne.edu.
You Cannot Resist Me When My Hair Is in Braids
Frances Kai-Hwa Wang
Wayne State University Press
Detroit
Copyright © 2022 by Frances Kai-Hwa Wang. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced without formal permission. Manufactured in the United States of America.
ISBN 978-0-8143-4941-0 (paperback)
ISBN 978-0-8143-4942-7 (e-book)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2021951007
Publication of this book was made possible by a generous gift from The Meijer Foundation.
Cover art and design by Kristle Marshall
Photographs in Dreams of the Diaspora
and Texting Nostalgic for Kathmandu
by Jyoti Omi Chowdhury. Photographs in Sowing Aunties
by Frances Kai-Hwa Wang.
This is a work of creative nonfiction that stands at the intersection of lyric essay and prose poetry. It is a hybrid work of literature with elements of both fiction and nonfiction. It reflects the author’s recollections and reflections on experiences over time. Some names, places, events, incidents, details, and identifying characteristics have been changed; some characters have been combined; some dialogue has been re-created; and time and space have been condensed and rearranged. Other names, places, characters, dialogue, characteristics, details, events, and incidents are a product of the author’s imagination. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.
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With gratitude to my parents and elders, who are still trying to set me up
For my children, who are not allowed to date until they are 35
Contents
Notes and Acknowledgments
Prologue
Dreams of the Diaspora
Public Persona
Tsundere Pride or You Are So Prickly!
Texting Nostalgic for Kathmandu
The Californian
Did you eat? means . . . I Love You.
Finding Home Between the Vincent Chin Case and COVID-19
Adventures with the Haircut Aunties
The World’s Most Exciting Date
Poignant Truth, Precarious You (and Preparing for the Sriracha Apocalypse)
Learning to Drive Defensively
Crying on Airplanes
What Ever Happened to 王大中 (Wang Da Zhong)?
He Ain’t You
A Suggestion of Salt (with Ravi Shankar)
Falling, Mad and Alone
You Cannot Resist Me When My Hair Is in Braids
Tiny Modern Love Songs
DTW
It’s Not a Yellow Dildo!
Talkin’ to Whypipo
3 a.m. with Erhu
Down in the Basement of the DIA
the space between goodbye
Secret Crush
Sowing Aunties
Breath Rises
Epilogue: Lost Constellation
About the Author
Notes and Acknowledgments
Did you eat? means . . . I Love You.
was previously exhibited, with the photography of Hao Hao Wang, at the Blacklava 20th Anniversary Art Exhibition at Hatakeyama Gallery, Los Angeles, in August 2012; was originally published, with the photography of Hao Hao Wang, in Kartika Review, issue 14 (Fall 2012): 63–66; was previously exhibited, with the photography of Hao Hao Wang, at the Asian American Women Artists Association (AAWAA) in May 2013, SOMArts, San Francisco; and was reprinted in the Dreams of the Diaspora chapbook by Frances Kai-Hwa Wang, January 2014.
Dreams of the Diaspora
was written for and previously exhibited in a multimedia art installation created with Jyoti Omi Chowdhury at the Smithsonian Asian Pacific American Center Indian American Heritage Project in an online gallery (https://www.si.edu/object/yt_KNv_fUYv7Dc) and in a traveling art exhibition on the H-1B visa at Twelve Gates Art Gallery in Philadelphia, January 2014; and reprinted in the Dreams of the Diaspora chapbook by Frances Kai-Hwa Wang, January 2014.
Texting Nostalgic for Kathmandu
was originally published, with photographs by Jyoti Omi Chowdhury, in Cha Asian Literary Journal, Hong Kong, issue 23 (March 2014); and reprinted in in the Dreams of the Diaspora chapbook by Frances Kai-Hwa Wang, 2014.
Tsundere Pride or You Are So Prickly!
was written for and performed at the Navigating the underCurrents activist poetry reading curated by May-lee Chai, inspired by an art installation by Stella Zhang in the AAWAA’s underCurrents & the Quest for Space multidisciplinary arts exhibition, at SOMArts in San Francisco, May 2013; and originally published in the Dreams of the Diaspora chapbook by Frances Kai-Hwa Wang, 2014.
"Poignant Truth, Precarious You