The Wisest Investment: Teaching Your Kids to Be Responsible, Independent and Money-Smart for Life
By Robin Taub
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*Winner of the EIFLE Award for Best Adult Book of 2022 by the Institute for Financial Literacy.*
"A treasure chest of great ideas presented in short, punchy chapters. Excellent!" - David Chilton, author of The Wealthy Barber
"One of the questions I get asked on a steady basis is whe
Robin Taub
A CPA by training, Robin Taub began her career at KPMG, transitioned into real estate, and then landed in the complex world of derivatives marketing at Citibank. Today, she's a professional speaker and the award-winning author of The Wisest Investment: Teaching Your Kids to Be Responsible, Independent and Money-Smart for Life (CAD Edition). Robin lives in Toronto, where she and her husband have raised two (mostly) money-smart young adults.
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The Wisest Investment - Robin Taub
The Wisest Investment
Teaching Your Kids to Be Responsible, Independent and Money-Smart for Life
Robin Taub
CPA, CA
Dedicated to Justin and Natalie,
my wisest investments!
Contents
Introduction
1. The Wisest Investment: Teaching Your Kids about Money
Why Is Teaching Your Kids about Money the Wisest Investment?
What Are the Challenges Parents Face?
Who’s Teaching Your Kids about Money?
Financial Literacy in School
What Kind of Financial Role Model Are You?
Is Money a Taboo Topic in Your Home?
The Big Picture: Household Finances
How Your Values Influence Your Financial Decisions
Can Money Buy Happiness?
The Eleven Healthy Habits of Financial Management
2. Teaching Young Children: A Roadmap for Children Five to Eight Years Old
Earn
What Is Money?
Where Does Money Come From? (No, the Answer Isn’t the ATM!)
Birthday and Tooth Fairy Money
Allowance: Payment for Chores, a Money Management Tool, or Both?
Save
Multi-Slotted Piggy Banks
Spend
Teachable Moments
Share
Get a Gift/Give a Gift
Donating to Charity — It Adds Up!
Invest
Encouraging Entrepreneurship — Beyond the Lemonade Stand
3. Teaching Preteens: A Roadmap for Preteens Nine to Twelve Years Old
Earn
Jobs: Babysitting, Tutoring and Other Odd Jobs
Allowance Revisited: Payment for Chores, a Money Management Tool, or Both?
Save
Piggy Banks to Real Banks
Matching Savings
Chequing Accounts
A Story about Setting Goals
Spend
Getting Out in the World
More Teachable Moments
Debit and Credit Cards
Digital Spending: How Do You Make It Feel Real?
Share
Fostering an Attitude of Gratitude
Invest
Cashflow, the Board Game — Monopoly on Steroids!
Entrepreneurship Revisited
4. Teaching Teenagers: A Roadmap for Teens Thirteen to Seventeen Years Old
Earn
Their First Real Job
Helping Them Understand Their Paycheque
Paying for Good Grades
Online Consignment Sales
Save
Is Cash Still King?
Digital and Cryptocurrencies
Using Personal Values to Set SMART Goals
Paying Themselves First — and Making It Automatic
Spend
Allowance: Increased Financial Responsibility
Budgeting
Tracking Spending
Digital Tools
Needs versus Wants Again
A Sustainable Approach to Financial Responsibility
Spending Wisely
Stored Value Cards
Negotiating and Bargaining
Tipping
Share
Raising Money at School
Raising Money for School
Invest
Investing for Short- and Medium-Term Goals
Simple versus Compound Interest
5. Teaching Emerging Adults: A Roadmap for Young Adults Eighteen to Twenty-One Years Old
Earn
Why File a Tax Return?
Tax Breaks for Students
Scholarships and Bursaries
Save
Tax-Advantaged Savings
The Latte Factor
Spend
Paying for Post-Secondary Education
Is Your Kid Prepared to Be on Their Own?
Credit Cards Revisited
Fraud, Scams and Identity Theft
Share
Volunteering Your Time
Philanthropy Is a Family Affair
Gratitude
Invest
Long-Term Investing: Start Early and Invest Regularly
Stocks, Bonds, and Other Investments
Asset Allocation and Security Selection
Fintech and Robo-Advisors
Responsible Investment
Connect with Me
List of Resources
Further Resources
About the Author
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Like most parents, you feel a responsibility to teach your kids about money. You understand the importance of making sound financial decisions and developing good financial habits. You know how financial struggles can strain relationships and even take a toll on your health. But teaching kids about money is easier said than done, especially in today’s financially complex, digital world, where the tools we use are constantly changing to keep pace.
At a time when cash is disappearing, spending is frictionless, and fraud and scams are constant threats, out of nowhere, COVID-19 hit in January 2020. Its sudden and devastating impact on the economy accelerated and magnified these trends - and they are here to stay. Many families found themselves financially unprepared. The pandemic, the inflation that emerged and the increase in interest rates required to bring inflation down, served as a wake-up call about the importance of teaching the next generation about money.
According to research, most parents feel they don’t have the information they need to teach the right lessons about money, and they don’t know how to approach the subject with kids of different ages. But they do recognize they need help, and they are willing to listen and learn.
As a Chartered Professional Accountant, I’ve always felt comfortable and confident around money and financial concepts. And I believe money management is an important life skill, one that I wanted to pass on to my two kids. So in 2011, when I was asked to write a book to help parents teach their kids about money, I was intrigued. I had just started writing for the Ontario Securities Commission’s financial literacy website, getsmarteraboutmoney.ca. But writing a book? It wasn’t something I had ever really thought about doing. It certainly wasn’t on my bucket list (like meeting Bruce Springsteen, which I managed to do in 2007!).
When Justin and Natalie were young, I started to invest in their financial education. I knew that the earlier kids are taught about money, the greater the likelihood of financial success throughout their lives. I tried to put my money where my mouth was and be a good financial role model to them. I took advantage of teachable moments to build money lessons into our daily lives, and I made sure that the information I shared with them (about earning, saving, spending, sharing and investing) was appropriate for their age and maturity (and I still do). Back in 2011, when my kids were 14 and 16, I could already see my efforts were paying off.
After some reflection, I thought to myself, Maybe I do have a book in me! Why not write about my own experiences — both rewarding and challenging — and the experiences of other parents? That, combined with solid research, would help parents like you give your kids the knowledge, skills and confidence that I gave my own kids.
I wrote A Parent’s Guide to Raising Money-Smart Kids, and it quickly became a Canadian bestseller. In the decade since it was first published, society has moved away from cash toward mobile and digital money, and the economic consequences of the coronavirus pandemic have only accelerated this move. This third, updated version builds on time-tested lessons that have always applied and still apply today in the post-pandemic new normal.
It also addresses both the challenges and benefits of managing money in an increasingly digital world. Over the same decade, my kids have grown into financially literate, independent and responsible young adults (most of the time!).
For anyone who may be thinking, How can I teach my kids about money if I’m not doing a good job of it myself?, this book will make you more aware of your own behaviour around money and the type of financial role model you are to your kids now (and the type of role model you can become). But it’s something you and your kids can learn together, and it may even lead to improvements in your own financial habits and health as you become more skilled in understanding, practising and explaining money management.
To get the most out of your reading, you should understand a few things about how I’ve organized the book. The first chapter sets the stage, explaining why teaching your kids about money is the wisest investment. It also covers what that implies about your own responsibility to be smart with your money so that you can teach by example.
But beyond your own example, there is the very basic need to talk to your kids about money. How do you approach it? Well, there are five pillars of money that can be used to structure an ongoing conversation. Chapter 1 explains the fact that in order to have money you have to earn it. Then, once you’ve earned it, there are just four things to do with it:
save
spend
share
invest
Chapters 2 through 5 are directed at parents with kids at different stages:
young children (ages 5–8)
preteens (ages 9–12)
teens (ages 13–17)
emerging adults (ages 18–21)
Each chapter is organized around the five pillars of money just discussed — earn, save, spend, share, and invest — and explores specific topics within each. There are suggestions for family discussions and activities designed to reinforce these concepts. Each chapter also contains quotes from parents talking about how they approached financial education with their kids, which remind us that we can find humour in even the most serious of subjects.
The following visual depiction of The Wisest Investment illustrates this framework, while also showing that at each stage, your child can build on the learning that came before.
I hope the suggestions in this book and the real-life experiences of other parents will help you make the wisest investment. I would love to hear from you. Please email me at wisestinvestment@robintaub.com.
Robin
Chapter 1
The Wisest Investment
Teaching Your Kids about Money
This first chapter explains why teaching your kids about money is the wisest investment and helps you understand the context in which kids learn about money. It discusses some of the problem areas that parents run into and suggests approaches to deal with those problems effectively. This chapter also introduces the Eleven Healthy Habits of Financial Management, which can help you achieve two objectives: getting your own finances in order and teaching your kids how to do the same.
Why Is Teaching Your Kids about Money the Wisest Investment?
We want our kids to thrive in life. We want them to be able to manage their lives well, including their financial lives, for their sakes as well as our own. If we don’t succeed in teaching our kids about money management, it may come back to haunt us. How would you feel, for instance, if you had to support your adult children financially? (Most Canadians can’t afford to.) Or if you had to bail them out of a financial mess, like bankruptcy