Birth…: Journey To the Wild Depths of Motherhood
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Birth… - Veronica Moule
Birth...
journey to the wild depths of motherhood
dr veronica moule
Copyright © 2021 Demeter Press
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Cover artwork: Veronica Moule
Typesetting: Michelle Pirovich
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Library and Archives Canada Cataloguing in Publication
Title: Birth : …journey to the wild depths of motherhood / by Veronica Moule.
Other titles: Journey to the wild depths of motherhood
Names: Moule, Veronica, 1968- author.
Identifiers: Canadiana 20200374907 | ISBN 9781772583274 (softcover)
Subjects: LCGFT: Poetry.
Classification: LCC PR9619.4.M68 B57 2021 | DDC 821/.92—dc23
I acknowledge the Dja Dja Wurrung as traditional custodians of the land this was written on, and pay my respects to the Elders past, present and emerging
I acknowledge the First Nations people’s connection to country, and that sovereignty was never ceded
I give thanks to Dja Dja Wurrung country, where my sons Aidan, Callum and Ben were born
I give thanks to Wathaurong country, where my son Jarah was born
In this collection, I reference the ‘message tree’ and ‘birthing tree’. I write from my experience sitting in stillness with these trees, as a non-indigenous woman.
I honour the stories of birth and community held in country, in culture.
‘be gentle on this land
a child was born here’
Archie Roach
Gunditjmara / Bundjalung
4 times I have birthed
reached into the depths of myself
my wonder
my self-observation
my raw
wild
passionate
determined
she-wolf
contents
introduction
The Story of Persephone
unfolding
labour
Persephone, story of woman
Zeus
safety, security
disease
hospitals
risk aversion
op position
policy
theme
patriarchal woman
pelvic instability
man
healing
Demeter
Demeter
moonchild
maternal yearnings
matrilineal
generations
water
reflection
catharsis
Messenger
messenger
girls
woman
message tree
unknown destinations
bits and pieces
broader
Hades
courage
Artemis to Kali
solace
be gone
roar
Kore
stage fright
dance
tears
surrender
loss
learnings
vagina
beyond
Light
burning
pause
bearing witness
birthing tree
mandala
Persephone
Persephone
embodied
breath in the third stage
man-waves
womb
rebirthing
Embodied midwifery
physiological guide
allowing
i am a midwife
oxytocin
receiving
intimacy
aching womb
legacy
midwifery
birth stories of my children
Jarah
Aidan
Callum
Ben
dawn
acknowledgements
notes
photography
together we climb the mountain
because I climb this mountain for you
together we wade through the river
together we shelter in the trees
gathered with my support crew
or standing solo
exuding the theatrics of the stage
or in the quiet Zen of retreat
I unravel myself
open myself
surrender myself
to this bold and broad and astonishing experience
that will release you
my child
into the world
and will forge my will
my heart
my being
into the wild depths
of motherhood
… I will accept all this child brings
my body
my heart
my mind will stretch
beyond its known boundaries
and I will learn of openness and love
again, and again
unconditional holding of this child
this child who resonates
within the depths of my being...
introduction
Nine months have passed, your beautiful belly has bloomed beyond your imagination. Ten moon cycles your baby has grown, and now, full like the moon, it is time.
Your baby will transition, from being held in your womb to being held in your arms. How will this happen? Do you yearn for natural childbirth?
… Labour … You will stretch beyond your knowing and meet all of yourself. Are you willing to meet all of yourself? The bold warrior, stepping into the rhythm of the beginning of labour – courage to commence. Then the warrior must step aside, over the hours or days it takes to move through the first stages of labour. Step aside to surrender to the awesomeness of the female body. Traversing chaos, enmeshed in pain, stretching beyond logical limits, as the hormones of love and acceptance pulse through your body.
Yet you don’t have to. You can by-pass the pain, the stretching, the opening, the hormonal breadths and depths. This has all become unnecessary discomfort with our technological and medical advances. Why would woman want to stretch herself? Why would she want to experience the raw honesty of her body, in an expression like no other? Is there any point in discomfort? Is there any point to this challenge?
Birth was considered a ‘rite of passage’, this extraordinary shift from woman to mother. Yet we’ve lost the art of the ‘rite of passage’.
It is glorious watching a child learn, the first smile, the first steps. We delight in these turning points in life. Yet once they grow, show signs of maturing into their adult bodies, as the mystery gets bigger, culturally we pull