Sensual Fantasies: 50 Shades of Seduction - How to Seduce a Man

By Celine Kirei

Suggestions about seducing and spicing sex

Develop your feminine power

Use affirmations to increase your self-esteem, sexuality and improve your psychological aspects. Repeat positive messages, for example, say to yourself things like "I am a wonderful woman!", "I'm becoming more and more sexy!", "I'm an attractive lover!" and so on. Be smart, don't bother with the "flaws" that all of us have (fatty spots, cellulites…). Show your best! Feel powerful and sexy despite your physical type or age. Value your strong side! Take control of your personality, charm and beauty.

Seduce your husband or boyfriend

In the beginning of the relationship, sex is usually more exciting because at this phase everything is new. But the point is how to keep seducing your partner after a long time together.

Surprise him by trying to have a more active attitude, as generally men do to seduce a woman. But try not to exaggerate, start gradually if he's not used to a more powerful and sexy attitude. Use your intuition in order to do everything right! Know that men love and feel excited to know that they are still important and attractive to their woman, especially if you're together for a long time. For example: how about telling him about how turned on you feel when you're with him, look at him with desire just as you did in the beginning of the relationship, or touching his body (or yours) in a sexy way? Simple tips as these make a lot of difference. Which man doesn't want to be seduced by his wife or girlfriend?

Innovating your techniques

Extending your creativity and using new ways to stimulate your man is important in order to avoid routine. Try different places to make love, go to a motel or travel to the fields or to an aphrodisiac beach. Many couples stop "dating" after having children. Don't let this happen to you - save some time only for you two. We know that many women, intuitively, use these simple secrets of seduction that are basic but essential in order to keep erotic.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Editora Eden
• Release date: Oct 8, 2015
• ISBN: 9788598691220

Book preview

Introduction

To fantasize is to give wings for imagination, is going beyond your own limits, stimulating your feelings and sensations and deepening your relationship with your partner. These sensual fantasies can be performed in order to win him over and also to keep your loved with you.

I’m a writer and sensual arts teacher for the Goddess of Love workshop and one of my favorite courses is about sensual costumes. I love my job and I’ve acquired a great affection for this subject through the years. I’ve found that, way beyond entertainment, the healthy practice of these sensual performances is an excellent therapeutic resource for sex life. As a professional of health area, I’ve also dedicated my life to the study and research about prevention and improvement of sexual health. My goal is to help people to have a better life quality and be happier in sex. It’s always a joy to teach and learn with students and readers. It’s also gratifying to know about the positive results after the reading of our books and trainings. I thank, from my heart, everybody for the care and friendship. 

Nowadays, it grows more and more the number of professionals who work in the sexuality area. They are researchers, professors, doctors, businessmen, etc., who act on this important field connected to health and life quality. By working on a similar area, we’ve met and made friends with many of these people and, one way or another, we know, through the testimony of many delicate, comic and embarrassing situations involving these professionals, who still today are discriminated by relatives and neighbors. Many of our friends, and even myself, have been through so many amazing situations that would give an awesome book or movie, I’d call it The Sex Professionals. Today e can take it easier and even smile when people… let’s say, think or make small confusions thinking we are someway different, abnormal, liberal and so on…

Many things have changed after the turn of the century, but we know that people who work or own sex shops still don’t escape from the comments, and many of these people even laugh about it. The good side of all this is that the erotic sector establishes itself more and more, breaking old limitations and joining definitely this new world full of new information about pleasure. The many sensual and erotic costumes factories and confections, as well as the growth of this sector, proves the increase of the search for erotic items. 

Today, there are many representatives and salespeople of erotic products in the country, and most of them have been doing great, even if some don’t have their husband or partner’s incentive. They keep on going bravely and persistent, assisting on their family’s income, working to a market that grows: lingerie and erotic costumes and accessories market. But those who know best these heroes, know they are people just like everybody else and have their families, ideals and dreams. 

The sector connected to sexuality increases knowledge, health and pleasure on a public bigger and bigger and avid for news, as we can see with these growing successes of the market, like Erotic Fair in Sao Paulo, Rio de Janeiro, United States and Europe. There still is this sinful or perverted aura on the subject, but, as everything in life can be used for good or bad, sex isn’t different. At this special moment, I thanks and congratulate all those who work to bring a happy, creative and healthy sexuality for everybody. 

What I desire and ask God is for me to always have wisdom and strength to accomplish this mission of assisting on the cure of sex and bringing people these new ways of expressing love. I wish you all love, happiness and success!

Celine Kirei

Pleasures and Fantasies

I invite you to look for creative ways of stimulating your affective life with sensual performances. There are a few suggestions for you to start this path that may lead you to discovering new pleasures. I’ve tried to write on freer way, just like fantasies are: free. Feel comfortable to create your own. The proposal of this book is to facilitate and boost your courage and boldness in order to practice it and serve as a support for students who go to our courses, while the book Striptease: How to Win a Man Over that we released recently can extend your knowledge on sensual arts with other techniques and styles, like the chair dance, lap dance, erotic dance, etc. 

But at this moment that we have to develop the subject sensual costumes, I’ll try to incentive more individual creative process with new selected ideas developed to serve as motivation, so that each reader can express freely her desires and creations. Performances and striptease training can bring a lot of benefits. The results are more effective if practiced regularly. Keep this book close to you, it’s important to always practice and surprise your partner. Be sure that the costumes can also bring happiness and unforgettable moments. 

It’s best to be happy than be sad, happiness is the best thing there is – Vinicius de Moraes.

I added some texts and quotes by writers and poets, great masters of creation who guide our most beautiful dreams and fantasies. I thank for all the great treasures they’ve left. 

With sensual fantasies we can heat up to the maximum our relationship our relationship. We might forget an ordinary night of sex, but sex