Herman: 1940s Lonely Hearts Search
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In this biography, author Wendell Affield researches the life of his stepfather, Herman. Follow Herman’s four-year search for a wife through Lonely Heart’s Club publications. Herman, a shy WWII veteran, eventually responds to the personal ad of a New York pianist with four children. In 1949, Barbara moves out to his rural Minnesota farm with her young children, including the author.
Part II of this book includes a rare 52-page Lonely Hearts Catalogue from 1945. This book is a great resource for those researching family history. It is an excellent glimpse of post WWII womens’ plight in the United States and an intriguing text for Women’s Studies programs.
Wendell Affield
It’s one thing to write a book; it’s another to live it. Wendell Affield never knew who his father was. His childhood was punctuated by a volatile mother and stepfather. At sixteen he left home, rode the rails out west, and lived in hobo camps. At seventeen he enlisted in the navy. At twenty, he was wounded in an ambush while driving a river patrol boat in Vietnam and medevac'd home. He spent thirty years working in the food industry.Affield retired in 2001 and knew he had stories to tell. He spent several years attending Bemidji State University (BSU), learning how to tell a story. His Vietnam “memory stories” evolved into a memoir, "Muddy Jungle Rivers." The memoir has opened surprising new paths. Today he speaks to groups about PTSD. Autumn 2016 he taught a writing workshop to veterans. Spring 2017 he’ll speak to students who are using his memoir in a history class, at Indiana University, South Bend.Affield’s mother, Barbara, lived an unusual life. He began a series of interviews with her, hoping to tell her story, never suspecting that the key to it lay decomposing in an old building seventy feet from where they sat visiting in the old farmhouse. After she died in 2010, Affield and his sister discovered and salvaged their family history, dating back to 1822. Over the past six years, he has spent countless hours studying, scanning, and transcribing the documents he discovered locked in the Chickenhouse on his childhood homestead.Affield lives with his wife, Patti, in a log cabin overlooking a small lake in northern Minnesota, where they enjoy feeding birds. They have three children and several grandchildren. Sadly, their son, Jeff, died in 2015. Affield continues to write, study writing, and psychology. His greatest fear: that he dies before all the stories are told.
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Herman - Wendell Affield
Herman
1940s Lonely Hearts Search
Chickenhouse Chronicles
Book I
After the Ice Storm
(circa March 1941)
Only surviving early Affield homestead picture.
Chickenhouse is the dark building just to the left of large spruce tree.
After Wendell Affield’s mother died in 2010, he discovered a time capsule locked in the chickenhouse on his family’s farm homestead in northern Minnesota. He spent six years studying, transcribing, and archiving hundreds of documents, thousands of letters and diary pages, dating back to 1822, and many long-lost photos. This is the first in a series of biography.
HERMAN
1940s Lonely Hearts Search
Wendell Affield
Books by Wendell Affield
Muddy Jungle Rivers
A River Assault Boat Cox’n’s
Memory Journey of His War in Vietnam and Return Home
Herman
1940s Lonely Hearts Search
Chickenhouse Chronicles
Book I
Wendell Affield
Whispering Petals Press, LLC
Bemidji, Minnesota
Copyright © 2017 by Wendell Affield
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Published in the United States by Whispering Petals Press, LLC.
Library of Congress Control Number: 2016913645
Herman, 1940s Lonely Hearts Search, Chickenhouse Chronicles: Book I, Wendell Affield.
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In memory of my stepfather, Herman
The Fates played a cruel joke on him
Acknowledgements
Usually, the spouse is the last to receive recognition. My wife, Patti, for the past six years, has quietly supported me as I explored my family’s history. She listened patiently to long conversations I had with my sister, Laurel, and my brother, Chris, as we excavated childhood events. Chris has been instrumental in his recollections of life in New York City, and later, the early years on the farm. (Those memories are woven into forthcoming Chickenhouse Chronicles, Book II.
In exploring Herman’s past, a few people from his family offered their stories. His younger sister, Elfrieda LaDoux and her son, Roy and his wife, Sally, shared memories and old family pictures. Lorraine Hightshoe Knighton and Evelyn Hightshoe Walters, Herman’s nieces; Faye Monson, Herman’s childhood friend and neighbor—all offered valuable insights into his early years. Karel Knutson, a World War Two veteran, shared first person stories about Herman with me. The older generation is gone now, I’m thankful for the time I spent with Elfrieda and Karl.
My visit with Steve Affield and the information from his book, Greetings from Afar; Memories of the Reinhold Affield Family, provided turn-of-the century background about the first Affields to arrive in this country. Beltrami County Historical Society was instrumental in supplying information about the early days in Nebish.
Thank you Scotty Allison, Beltrami County Veterans Service Officer, for helping me weave through the bureaucratic paper maze to obtain Herman’s military records from National Personnel Records Center in St. Louis, Missouri. Herman’s army history proved integral to understanding my stepfather’s past.
My writing group, Sue Bruns, Doug Lewandowski, Polly Scotland, Marilyn Heltzer, and Mary Lou Brandvik—thank you for your countess hours of critiquing. Sue’s critiques transported me back sixty years to grammar and comp class. Angela Foster, a wonderful editor who I first met and worked with on my Vietnam memoir, Muddy Jungle Rivers provided big picture developmental edits that proved very insightful. Thank you, Angela.
My daughter, Trish, and the company she founded, TJ Studio, Bemidji, MN, has been instrumental in graphic design and formatting for my first book and this one. TJ Studio, now owned by Paul Bunyan Communications, continues to support the technical aspects of my work, website, etc. Thank you.
And finally, the late Susan Carol Hauser. Susan was an early believer in this book. She recognized the historical significance—the forerunner of today’s dotcom dating sites. I shared the old lonely hearts club catalogues with her and her first response was that they were lost history—a glimpse into the risks women of our mothers’ generation took.