Preparing for Adolescence Family Guide and Workbook: How to Survive the Coming Years of Change
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Dr. James Dobson
Dr. James Dobson is the founder of Family Talk, a nonprofit organization that produces his radio program, Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk. He has an earned PhD from the University of Southern California, and is the author of more than fifty books dedicated to the preservation of the family. Dr. Dobson served as an associate clinical professor of pediatrics at the University of Southern California School of Medicine for 14 years. He is married to Shirley and they have two grown children, Danae and Ryan, and two grandchildren.
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Preparing for Adolescence Family Guide and Workbook - Dr. James Dobson
God!
PREPARING TO PREPARE FOR ADOLESCENCE
Dear Parent,
Your preteen or young teenager is embarking on quite a journey—and taking the entire family along for the ride, as well. You can help your son or daughter prepare for this exciting—and challenging—passage of life called adolescence.
A few of the things your child will need to know to survive this physical and emotional roller-coaster ride are:
• It’s naturally a time of stress and agitation.
• The discomfort is almost universal. Even kids who seem entirely carefree feel uncomfortable at some time during adolescence.
• The best news of all is that adolescence has a predictable beginning and a predictable end.
What to say …
If you’re like many adults, you’re probably wondering just what you should say to your preteen to prepare him or her for the coming years—and of equal importance, how you should go about saying it.
Let’s begin with the what.
In his book Preparing for Adolescence, Dr. Dobson gives an example of a football coach in the locker-room with his team, minutes before the kickoff of a big game. No coach in his right mind would miss taking the opportunity to provide last minute instruction and summarize the important things he’s been teaching his players all along.
You are not unlike that coach. Whether you are a parent, stepparent, guardian, foster parent or teacher, as your young player heads out onto the field, it’s time for a little pep talk; a time to reemphasize biblical values and give the last minute instructions your child will need to survive the pressures that will occur in the coming years.
And that’s the whole purpose of this Preparing for Adolescence Family Guide: To help you summarize what your child needs to know about self-esteem, peer pressure, sexual development, emotional growth and independence, and a solid relationship with God.
How to say it …
This leads us to the next question: how to go about communicating these valuable principles.
It’s a well-known phenomenon that children and their parents are often suddenly transformed at the onset of puberty. Sometimes Junior may seem like a stranger. And from Junior’s perspective, the word parent
can be associated with a whole new set of adjectives—many of them less than complimentary!
The dynamics of these changes demand solid communication skills. And building them takes time. And commitment. And practice!
The 20 sessions in this book will require a total of about three and a half hours of your time. May I suggest that you plan these hours carefully. Good communication doesn’t just happen
—it takes effort.
But the effort pays off. As you practice a commitment to communication with your preteen, he or she will begin to develop vital skills needed later on in relationships with coworkers, friends, family and spouse. And you may very well find unexpected joy in developing a new person-to-person friendship with somebody who is no longer a child.
A few do’s and don’ts …
As you begin to use this Preparing for Adolescence Family Guide, you’ll want to remember these things:
1. DO work one-on-one. Including other siblings might hamper the effectiveness of each session. (In a group setting we suggest that you use the Preparing for Adolescence Group Guide. See information in the back of this book.)
2. DO plan your course with specific dates and times—but don’t get too businesslike about it. Relax! Have fun!
3. DO feel free to share from your own experiences as an adolescent and teen. Relating the memories of your own adolescence with your preteen gives you credibility as a guide who’s been there
and knows the ropes. This credibility takes you and your child one step closer to an adult-to-adult relationship. And it enhances your empathy toward your preteen—putting you in touch with the many issues of adolescence. This does not mean that you have to communicate everything in