Magical Housekeeping: Simple Charms and Practical Tips for Creating a Harmonious Home

By Tess Whitehurst

Let your home nourish your soul and uplift your spirits. Swirl magical botanicals into your cleaning supplies, call fairies into your garden, ask a spider for advice. Clear clutter for clarity, perform the oatmeal cookie ritual for abundance, or make a sweet dreams charm for a good night's sleep.

In this delightful book, intuitive counselor Tess Whitehurst reveals how your home can be a powerful catalyst for personal transformation and manifestation. She offers a variety of simple, whimsical ways to create a harmonious home while enhancing your own happiness, intuition, and magical power.

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"Filled with valuable information and ancient wisdom to activate sparkling energy and create true sacred space in your home. I recommend it!"—Denise Linn, author of Sacred Space

• Language: English
• Publisher: Llewellyn Worldwide
• Release date: Sep 8, 2010
• ISBN: 9780738726199

Tess Whitehurst

Tess Whitehurst (Boulder, CO) is an intuitive counselor, energy worker, feng shui consultant, and speaker. She has appeared on the Bravo TV show Flipping Out and her writing has been featured in such places as Writer's Digest, Llewellyn's annuals, and Spirit and Destiny magazine. She is also the founder and facilitator of Wisdom Circle, an online magical community and learning hub. To learn about her workshops, writings, and appearances, and to sign up for her free monthly newsletter, visit her online at www.tesswhitehurst.com.

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This magical book reminds us that everything is connected outside and inside: environment and psyche, style and substance, house and heavens. If you are ready for positive change, you can’t do better than this!

—Ana Brett and Ravi Singh, yoga teachers with several best-selling Kundalini yoga DVDs. Dubbed yoga teachers to the stars, their clients have included Madonna, the Red Hot Chili Peppers, and Sting.

"Tess Whitehurst shows us that cleaning can be a powerful tool for personal transformation. Magical Housekeeping incorporates mantras, angels, faeries, crystals, plant and animal allies. Get your brooms ready ... housekeeping will never be the same again."

—Ellen Dugan, author of Cottage Witchery, Natural Witchery and Garden Witch’s Herbal

Tess Whitehurst is a lifelong student of the magical arts and an intuitive counselor, energy worker, feng shui consultant, and speaker. Her writings (which have appeared in such places as New Witch magazine and Llewellyn’s Magical Almanac) emphasize perceiving life through a magical lens and advocate self-love, self-expression, and personal freedom. She is also an environmental activist, a (usually) raw vegan, and a kundalini yogini. She lives in Venice, California, with her two cats and musical boyfriend. To learn about her workshops, writings, and appearances, and to sign up for her free monthly newsletter, visit her at www.tesswhitehurst.com.

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Contents

Acknowledgments

Introduction

1. Clutter Clearing

2. Cleaning

3. Space Clearing

4. Harmonious Positions

5. The Three Secrets Empowerment

6. Gemstones

7. Fairies, Angels & Other Helpful Beings

8. Plant Allies

9. Animal Allies

10. Sacred Smoke & Aromas of Power

11. Blessings, Protections & Other Rituals

Conclusion

Appendix: Color Correspondences

Bibliography

Acknowledgments

To my mom for teaching me that being myself was the best and only thing that I could possibly be, and for speaking to me in the language of magic since before I was even born.

To my dad for teaching me to question everything, for challenging me to do exactly what I most wanted to do, and for repeatedly saying and demonstrating that there are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.

To Ted Bruner for every single thing.

To Sedona Ruiz for making those first daring treks with me to Wonderland, Oz, and the Isle of Avalon, and for being my muse and the sister of my soul.

To J. P. Pomposello for giving me the idea that I could write.

To Cheryl Hamada for relaying the divine message that it was time to get to work.

To Mike Milligan and Courtney Lichterman for the generously shared wisdom and countless votes of confidence.

To Jonathan Kirsch for his expert guidance and heart-centered support.

To Denise Linn, Ana Brett, Ravi Singh, Doreen Virtue, Louise Hay, Marina Medici, Karen Kingston, Terah Kathryn Collins, Scott Cunningham, Eckhart Tolle, Byron Katie, Joseph Campbell, Julia Cameron, Allen Ginsberg, Rob Brezsny, and all those whose work helps to dissolve the illusory floodgates to the infinite.

To Becky Zins for beautifying this book and profoundly blessing it with her wisdom and expertise.

To Cat Fusca, Elysia Gallo, Amy Martin, Bill Krause, Lisa Novak, Lynne Menturweck, Sally Heuer, and everyone at Llewellyn for so many perfect opportunities, contributions, and gifts.

To the Goddess, Archangel Michael, Archangel Metatron, the fairies, and all the rest of my otherworldly guides and helpers.

And finally, to Smoke, the magic cat who waits for me beyond the veil.

Introduction

Everything is holy! everybody’s holy! everywhere is holy! everyday is in eternity! Everyman’s an angel!

—Allen Ginsberg, Footnote to Howl

I was sitting under a canopy of oak trees in northern California, listening to a lecture on how to make love charms and herbal aphrodisiacs. Suddenly, seemingly out of nowhere, the teacher stressed the importance of clearing clutter. "Old, stagnant stuff in your home means there is old, stagnant stuff in your mind, body, and emotions. It’s baggage, she said, and it complicates your life and relationships."

This was the first time I had thought seriously about the connection between my home and my life. Though I didn’t realize it then, learning to recognize this connection was to be an essential key that would powerfully activate my spiritual path and give much-needed direction to my ongoing quest to improve myself and my life. It was in that moment that I started to understand that my state of mind, my relationship with myself, and the way I expressed myself to the world were very closely intertwined with the feelings I had in and about my home. And, because so much of my life was lived in my home, I began to see that it quite literally made up the fabric of my reality.

As I describe in the first chapter, I started by reading Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui by Karen Kingston and consequently began clearing clutter out of my apartment like a madwoman. The lightness and clarity that it brought me was so profound that I almost immediately felt like a different person. For years, I had struggled off and on with depression, discord in my relationship with my boyfriend, family drama, money issues, an inability to meditate, acne, a negative body image, confusion about my career path, and general, all-around bad luck. That all began to dissipate and shift as I continued to clear old, unwanted, and unloved stuff out of my apartment. Most of the negative conditions didn’t disappear overnight. In fact, some took quite a while to work through (and a few still reappear at times!), but the stagnant energy wasn’t stagnant anymore, and I knew in my heart that the baggage had finally begun to powerfully move out of my life. It was such a relief.

Though I’d been a student of magic and metaphysics for some years before the clutter-clearing rampage, it suddenly all began to make sense on a much deeper level than before. This might sound strange, but the palpable difference I felt as I let go of each bag of clutter was somehow a window into the subtle field that surrounds and fills everything, and connects it all together. I was finally beginning to perceive energy in an experiential way. This made me want to read more about energetic space clearing, and I sought out books that seemed to resonate with what I already felt on a gut level. It was then that I discovered the gentler and more intuitive practices of feng shui, such as those taught by Denise Linn (Space Clearing A–Z), Terah Kathryn Collins (The Western Guide to Feng Shui), and David Daniel Kennedy (Feng Shui for Dummies).

After I had cleared and cleaned like never before, I composed and performed an intense space-clearing and home-blessing ritual that combined the natural magic principles I had been working with for years with the new (to me) space-clearing and feng shui wisdom I’d been studying. And it was definitely intense! I lit candles, invoked the four elements, clapped, burned sage, used chimes, the whole bit. When it was over, I had raised so much energy that the room was spinning. I actually had to lie down for a long breather before I could sufficiently ground myself and return to everyday reality. Though I had performed rituals in the past, actually feeling this amount of power in a tangible way during a ritual was a first for me. And boy, did it create a shift! The room almost seemed to pulsate and sparkle. It was as if someone had increased the wattage in the lights or opened a window that had never been open before.

Now, everywhere I looked in my home, I saw things that I loved and that virtually glowed with positive energy. What had been just an apartment before was now a sacred space that inspired me, nurtured me, and lifted my spirits. And this was just the beginning! In the years following, I attended the Western School of Feng Shui, started my own private feng shui practice, and began writing about and lecturing on the principles that I was now working with on a regular basis. And, best of all, my life was now characterized by a joyful harmony and flow that I had never known before.

As if all this weren’t enough, working with the magical energies in my home has led to the continual deepening of my intuition: my ability to sense the energies emanating from objects, the distinctive personalities of plants, and the thoughts and feelings of people and animals. Somewhere along the way I became a vegan, since I was connecting so deeply with animals and could clearly feel the pain and suffering within animal foods and products. Then I became a raw vegan, since I could sense the healing and consciousness-expanding qualities of live plant foods, and because I felt guided that this would help me to live in blissful harmony with the planet and the universe. Living in this way (at least most of the time, because I do have a few beers or a plate of French fries every now and then) has intensified my intuition and connection with the subtler energetic realms even further, and has no doubt contributed to my insights into the metaphysical qualities of plants, animals, crystals, colors, etc.

My path has also led me to the realization that being environmentally conscious is not just for the sake of the planet. It’s for our own sakes: to be grounded in and respectful of all of nature is a prerequisite to true and abiding happiness. And our homes are the perfect places to start—after all, they are our own personal corners of Mother Earth and the only places where we have ultimate jurisdiction over how she is treated. And when we treat her well, she treats us well. Just as we love to give gifts to the people in our lives who appreciate us and are grateful for past gifts we’ve given them, the earth goddess loves to shower us with her gifts of nurturance and plenty when we respect her and live from a place of gratitude. That’s why you’ll find that throughout the book, I recommend earth-loving habits such as respecting plants and animals and using soy candles and green cleaning supplies.

Everything is connected, and every inch and component of the physical world is filled with an invisible life force and unique magical energy. I’ve written this book because I’m certain that every one of us has the inherent ability to sense, change, channel, and direct these energies to create positive conditions and manifest the true desires of our hearts—maybe not overnight, and maybe not in exactly the way we expect, but that would be boring anyway. Besides, living magically is all about the journey, and I’ve found that it’s the most exciting and rewarding journey we could possibly embark upon.

With great love,

Tess

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Clutter Clearing

Everything is connected. When we look at our homes with this in mind, we see that they are like extensions, or reflections, of our bodies, lives, and emotional landscapes. This is an illustration of Hermes Trismegistus’s famous magical precept, As above, so below. Above, the seen and externally manifested world (our homes), and below, the unseen and internally manifested world (our thoughts, feelings, and experiences), are not only mirrors of each other, but they are also one and the same.

This connection between the seen and the unseen, as it relates to personal dwellings, is something we’re already aware of. For example, the next time you watch a movie, notice the homes of the characters. If it’s the home of a happy couple, notice the environmental cues that let you know this. You’ll probably notice things like warm colors, happy pictures, and fresh flowers. An unhappy couple’s home, on the other hand, will probably have cool and muted tones everywhere, hard and shiny surfaces, and austere or sparse decorations. Similarly, a happy character may live in a relatively tidy, pleasingly lit home, while a depressed character’s home may be cavelike, cluttered, and lit either too brightly or too dimly. Notice how quickly you make assumptions about the lives of the characters based on their homes. We’re able to do this because we’re inherently aware that the same patterns are true in real life.

Also, you’ve possibly already had the experience of clearing out a bunch of old stuff and feeling an amazing increase in your degree of clarity, ease, energy, and joy. These positive feelings come from things like being able to find exactly the item you’re looking for, being surrounded exclusively by what you enjoy gazing upon, not having the responsibility of caring for and housing a bunch of stuff you don’t especially care for, and opening your closet to see a rack full of clothes that you look great in.

Not only

Reviews for Magical Housekeeping

[tldegray-1 · Rating: 2 out of 5 stars]

A pretty basic look at magical housekeeping. Nothing I haven't seen before in other places, but it's nice to have it all in one book.

[Nova E · Rating: 1 out of 5 stars]

If you're any kind of pagan or witch, I wouldn't consider recommending this to you. This book is more for those "love & light" type of people. People that are into reiki, feng shui, and energy work. I believe in deities as well, but the liberal usage of angel work was off putting. Angels do not care about your basic cleaning. Now, some of the *more advanced* rituals for blessing the home and such may be worth to *look* at. But, that is info you can find in other books. Also, anybody that believes in fairies... I wouldn't follow her advice on them. Again, if you are a person that doesn't believe in gray or dark magic and you only like the rainbow sunshine part of practicing magic... then this is the book for you. I am very open to reading outside of what I believe, but this is definitely one of the titles I cannot stand. It is simple and non eye-catching. I will follow the advice about cleaning out books that don't give off the best energy in your home and make this one my first.

[silvernfire · Rating: 2 out of 5 stars]

You know how once upon a time it was sufficient to wash your hands with soap and water? Do that, and you could trust that your immune system would fend off everything except the worst germs. Now if your immune system was impaired in some way, you needed to take extra care, but for the most part a basic cleaning routine was all that was needed. But as we've grown more afraid of contagion (H1N1, anyone?), we've begun adding antibacterial agents to hand soap, dish detergent, and other products, all in the hope of staying healthy. We're scared that mere soap can't protect us sufficiently.Magical Housekeeping strikes me as the psychic version of this trend. You don't just refresh the energies in your home with this book; you purge, purify, and detoxify them. As I read along, I started wondering if all this was really necessary, or whether it was the New Age equivalent of antibacterial hand soap. Is it even possible to purify your home of all negativity? Because Whitehurst never defines what negativity is, I began wondering if it includes things like creative tension and passion (stuff that can be uncomfortable to live with, but is it truly negative?). If there's such a thing as an impaired psychic immune system, then this level of sterilization might be necessary, but I'm hoping most of us don't need to put this much energy into sanitizing the atmosphere.Overall, this is a book of white light, crystal essences, and angels. The darkest it ever gets is when Whitehurst discusses calling upon Kali. There's also a consumerist theme woven into this book. These "simple charms & practical tips" are going to involve a lot of shopping for roses, essential oils, crystals, and the occasional mattress/box spring combo.Yes, there were aspects of the book I liked. Whitehurst has a very readable, conversational writing style and the book moves along quickly. She covers many aspects of magical housekeeping, although you may need to research some topics yourself for more depth. Her definition of "altar" is wonderfully succinct: I'm going to have to remember it for future reference. But overall, much of the material has been covered by other works on feng shui and Paganism and this won't really fill any gaps

[faramir4 · Rating: 3 out of 5 stars]

An easy-to-read book blending feng shui, magic, religion and environmentalism. A good primer for those wanting to organize their homes better. If you think fairies will clean your house after reading this, think again. :)I was familiar with the feng shui concepts she listed; however, I'd never heard of adding a magical layer to it. This is also true for the decluttering tips. Adding a magical and feng shui spin to them made them more relevant to me. And I found the drink spell to focus on housework was good and effective (I hate housework!). Being an atheist, I couldn't relate to calling upon angels and gods to help with decluttering and housework. Really, wouldn't they have better things to do? If not, that explains the current state of the universe. Another reviewer complained about the expense of purchasing oils and essences for the spells. These are standard components every mage and witch should have. This is a nice book to add to one's collection, but not critical. Get it on sale, if you can.