Princess: A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia
By Jean Sasson
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Sultana Al-Sa'ud, a Saudi Arabian Princess, has four mansions on three continents, her own private jet, glittering jewels, and designer dresses galore. But in reality, Sultana has no freedom or control over her own life, no value but as a bearer of sons. Hidden behind her black floor-length veil, she is a prisoner, jailed by her father, her husband, her sons, and her country.
For the sake of her daughters, Sultana has decided to take the risk of speaking out about the life of women in her country: thirteen-year-old girls forced to marry men five times their age, young women killed by drowning, stoning, or isolation in the women's room, a padded, windowless cell where women are confined with neither light nor conversation until death claims them. In speaking out, Sultana risks bringing the wrath of the Saudi establishment upon her head. But by telling her story to Jean Sasson, Sultana allows us to see beyond the veils of this secret society, to the heart of a nation where sex, money, and power reign supreme.
"Absolutely riveting and profoundly sad..." --People
"A chilling story...a vivid account of an air-conditioned nightmare..." --Entertainment Weekly
"Must-reading for anyone interested in human rights." --USA Today
"Shocking...candid...sad, sobering, and compassionate..." --San Francisco Chronicle
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Reviews for Princess
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I was initially very wary of this book. I saw that it had be written by a white woman and was afraid that it might be either an exotic stereotyping or a preachy Islam-is-cruel-to-their-women tirade. I was both relieved and stunned to be proven so wrong. This is probably one of my favorite books of 2018 and I am already scrambling to get my hands on the others in the series. The Sultana's voice is so real and human that I was equal parts in love with and frustrated at her faults. A badass feminist if ever there was one, but a human who has been blinded to the issues of others, made mistakes, and grown comfortable at times even within oppression. Her story was a roller coaster ride of emotion--hope, despair, rage, you name it--that left me sometimes soaring and sometimes sobbing. Some horrors made me pause and put aside the book because the realization that these were things that occurred in recent history was too much to take in. While I would've thought that hearing about the oppression these women face would've made me grateful for the freedoms we have here in the States, instead it inflamed my own rage at the current outlandish and unspeakable treatment women are still suffering even in countries like the US that claim to be "better than", "civilized", and "modern". Additionally I learned a great deal more about Saudi Arabia, Islam, and the Middle East in general than I had known before (not that I really knew much to begin with).
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5One extra star because this book starts needed conversations. I'm on the fence about whether Sultana is a real person but in the end. I don't think it matters; the issues seem real enough.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5This is a tale of men with outrageous wealth and power, whose morals have lowered to such an extent that they seek their pleasure at the expense of others. This is a tale of women who, despite having the means to obtain almost anything they desire at any cost, cannot gain their ultimate desire: Freedom.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Good. Male dominance, abuse.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Fascinating stuff!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
My heart was breaking about this story. I couldn't put it down. Then, I couldn't stop talking about it. It's awful to hear how women are treated over there. This was an excellent book, every American, man or woman needs to read this! - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5"Princess" is the true biography of Princess Sultana, a Saudi Princess. Her story is shocking and very profound yet it is also universal because everyone that reads this book can relate to her. The author, Jean Sasson has written a new book titled "Yasmeena's Choice" which is also a true story. Although it is not about a princess, the book is just as gripping and I would highly recommend it.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5If you care about the treatment of women in any country, read this book. If you want to know more about harem cultures (which even modern Saudi Arabia still reflects), read this book. It may tear at your heart a bit, but you'll walk away glad that you've educated yourself. And perhaps wondering how this sort of cultural influence or gender bias might still be affecting even so-called "free" women in the United States.
And how many lives have you lived in such cultures as this? Do you carry an echo within you? Does your relationship with either gender reflect this subtle influence? I know I have a strong, past-life connection to harem lifetimes, as both man and/or woman, proven by my flashbacks and experiences in the present life, as detailed in my own book. It's important to ferret out any leftover imbalances in attitude in the present, and this book will help you do it. We live such lives to learn, but now's the time to discard the less useful elements through our objectification and analysis.
The sad aspect is that both men and women in such a restrictive social world are suffering from the lack of equal partnerships, or, as I like to call them, polarity relationships, which could otherwise do so much for their happiness, peace of mind, and productivity.
Do I think the Princess of the title is a real person? Hard to say. What a risky thing these two women did by creating this book! I waited two decades to read it, after my own close call with an opportunity to live in Saudi Arabia. From all I've learned from insiders about life in that country, I believe every story told in the book is true or as close to truth as could safely be conveyed. Since identities needed to be so securely hidden, some of the stories may have been many times repeated, but I didn't sense a lot of exaggeration, based on my knowledge of the customs.
It's a highly readable book, and you may find yourself compelled to keep turning pages, even when the situations are so shocking you'd like to quit. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Well written and infuriating at times. Jean Sasson writes with clarity and humor about life in an oppressive (and messed up) culture. For things to improve it will take a lot more women acting with bravery and determination. A handful of women can't change the culture by themselves.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5A quick read (got it done in one round-trip to Vegas) that's distressing and eye-opening. The Saudi royals may have it all in terms of wealth but the social structure and rules as "inspired" by Islam doesn't bring a lot of personal happiness or growth, especially for the women. An inside look that doesn't provide a lot of hope for a system that will be slow to change, if ever. Not terribly literary writing but the subject matter is absorbing. Will be interesting to follow Sultana's continued story in the two follow-up titles...if I ever get around to them! Took me years before I got to this one!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5hard to believe that if this is true, saudi people didn't know who sultana was. how much can you rearrange and still be true?well written, informative about saudi life.
- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5I honestly am baffled as to why this book has such rave reviews. Sultana is supposed to be a bastion of feminine change in Saudi Arabia (and lest you forget, she will remind you every two or three pages), but she does little to actually, you know, change anything aside from mouth off to her brother every once in a while.The book is also full of contradictions that show that Sultana is still, at the time of writing/dictating the book, deeply immersed in the "mindset" of her country. In location 900 (I'm on a Kindle) she says, "...there are many classes of people in my land, from those various levels of the wealthy Royal Family down to that of lowly salaried workers. But no one, including foreign workers, is without the basic necessities of life. Our government ensures the well-being of all Saudis. Each male citizen is assured of a home, health care....Our female citizens are provided for by the men of their families..." Loc 1019 states that the "poorest Bedouins" have to live in tents and imply they have trouble feeding their families.Sultana is also guilty of stereotyping against other races, as shown by this unprompted comment: "unsmiling German contractors" [loc 1704]
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5its just so realistic and am
azing.a miracle i. cant de - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This story highlights the difficulties we could never imagine, that women are facing daily in parts of this world. It touches the heart, and compels you to reach out and find some way to help these women is such desperate situations.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Great read, I parter reading this, I am so grateful for being an American female and being free.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This was a very interesting read. It brings the policies and way of life in Saudi Arabia for women to an extremely personal life. It talks about child marriage, oppression and slavery, and much more. I'd definitely recommend reading this book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I am stunned at the inhumane treatment of these intelligent women. I've always been quite aware that money isn't a guarantee of freedom. Moreover, it has a way of creating heavier chains than poverty. I weep for these owned women the world over.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5An amazing story into the devastating lives of women in Saudi Arabia
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5I found myself really torn about this book- it seemed a bit far-fetched to imagine a Saudi princess befriending an American author; the main character's tantrums I grew tired of, almost in spite of the importance of the issue she was protesting i found I didn't really like her very much- always a weakness when you are looking for empathy or sympathy. I am glad I read it even though not much was a real surprise, except for the depth of the hatred males and females seem to have for each other.Sad.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5good
- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5This was not a favorite. I have many concerns about a white woman appropriating a Saudi woman's story, but even the writing was just not great.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Princess, as the book jacket says, is a privileged peek behind the walls of a sumptuous palace owned by a relative of the al-Sau'd family in Saudi Arabia. It takes us into a world of almost unbelievable wealth, but in this incredible richness is a world which I would not enter for a king's ransom. I have been given glimpses throughout my life of societies where men are dominant, women inferior. I've even been in a couple of relationships of that sort, and thought myself hard done by. I cannot lessen the damage that certain men have meted out to me, but held against the horrors in Saudi Arabia it is like a single thorn in a prickly rose bush. Did you know that women could be stoned to death or drowned at a patriarch's whim? Or shut into a windowless dark room at the age of 22, and never be allowed out again, not until you die and they remove your body? Every day Saudi Arabian women risk death, punishment, brutality, and humiliation. It is a land of child marriages, of men with several wives, where female children are a disappointment, where a woman can be cast off if she is barren or if she does not bear sons. It was in this kingdom that a Washington Post reporter just last year was chopped into bits with a chain saw while still alive. I am so glad tourists are not permitted into the Saudi kingdom, because I would hate to travel there. For all that I found out appalling things while reading Princess, I didn't really enjoy the book. Part of that was the content, but part was because I found the woman describing these events annoying, for all that she does to help improve the situation of women in Saudi Arabia. Honestly, I'm not even sure why I wasn't enjoying the book, or at least reading it with interest. But I didn't. An interesting book, I won't be reading the follow-up volumes.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This book splashed the life behind the veil right into the light, with overwhelming ferocity and realism. This autobiography outlines the daily problems in Princess Sultana's life and the issues the women, even the royalty, of Saudi Arabia have to deal with. The urge for justice and the positive nature of Sultana is easy to visualise from the text. I think that people of all ages would enjoy this fantastic read, as nobody can be too old for a thriller and a downright adventure into the desert lands of Saudi Arabia.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Originally published in 1992, this is the true account of a Saudi princess whose story is told by the author who has lived in Saudi Arabia for many years. It describes the incredible subjugation of women in Saudi society and, although Islamic law is never blamed directly for attitudes toward women, it is a scathing indictment of Saudi male supremacy directed and perpetuated by those laws.Although names and situations were altered to protect the identity of the princess, the message is one of utter frustration and anger, and tells of the attempt to break away using wealth and subterfuge. Such male attitudes would seem to be an example of mindless faith on the part of men and women who adhere to customs based solely on ancient texts, and should be a warning to those who accept thoughtless religious dogma from the interpretation of others, devoid of common sense and human decency. In recent years, things have not gotten much better for Saudi women. This is a disturbing book for everyone, not just feminists.I give it 3-stars for the simplicity of the writing style, but the content is 5-stars to anyone who really wants to know of the hypocrisy and control behind the immense wealth and veil of Islam in Saudi Arabia. It is the first of three books on Saudi by author Sasson.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The book, ‘Princess: A True Story of Life behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia,’ is dedicated to raising international awareness to the cruelties that women in Saudi Arabia endure. It’s about an Al Saud princess, known as Sultana, and her life story. Her book also shows that she has dedicated her life to proving that she will not conform. It’s basically a feminists’ book. Being known as the trouble maker in her own up, she tried to live up to reputation, by proving to her cruel brother, Ali, that he has met his match. She continues her rebellious stage until her friends are caught being ,’indecent,’ and Sultana’s father arranges a quick and speedy marriage. The punishment of her friends leaves in her in a depression until she meets her husband-to-be, and decides that she can make it work. By sheer chance she received a tolerant, and modern thinking husband, a rare find in Saudi Arabia. Everything goes well in their marriage for many years, until she is rendered incapable of conceiving again, and her husband, Kareem, reveals that he wishes to take a new bride for the sake of children. Then, she runs away. I would recommend this book, just because it definitely has the ,’it,’ factor . There’s something about it that makes you keep reading. Possibly , because every chapter reveals a juicy secret kept by the royals !
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I received a huge eye opener from reading Princess: A True of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia and every one else that reads it will too. The plot takes place in Saudi Arabia with Sultana as the main character. Throughout the whole book Sultana is constantly expressing her views on her countries cultural aspects of women. Women are second-class, and live in a highly male influenced society. If a woman does not follow their culture exactly, they are looked down upon and are considered scandalous. Through the entire duration of Sultanas life, she has always been the rebel. Growing up, she was the “problem child” and was her fathers least favorite. As a child, she was apart of a club that she and her friends made up that had the ultimate plan leading towards women’s rights. The club was a secret but being children, their plans leaked to their father through her brother. As expected, her father was furious and cut her off from the group. Being a rebel, this made her furious. Eventually, things like this just rolled off her back and had no effect on her. Sadly, in the end only a small break from the cruel customs came for women, but was shortly destroyed. Reading this book has taught me that patience is key and also to never back down from your personal beliefs or let anyone else change you. Overall, I would rate this book an eight out of ten, and I defiantly encourage anyone to read this inspiring story.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Interesting and a "must read", but not an entertaining book and not particularly well written. The characters in the book, including the princess are not likable.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book has haunted me for years after I read it. The stories of opression and abuse that the women suffer in Saudia Arabia are so horrible that I constantly had a hard time believing that all of those things had really happened. Though it is one of my favorite books, I have yet had the courage to reread it and relive all of those womens' sufferings.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Princess by Jean Sasson is the purported true story of a Saudi princess and what her life entails. I say purported as the princess’ identity is never revealed and there have been questions as to whether she actually exists.I am one of the suspicious as I found parts of this book did not ring true. I believe all the events described probably did happen, but not necessarily to one woman. What I don’t question is the authenticity of the general life details that are described. This is a country that holds well over half their population as valueless, and the Saudi women’s lack of rights is a disgrace.As a North American woman it is hard to believe, much less read about the degree of control that men hold, the brutality that is commonplace and accepted, the laws that treat women as a possession, and the outdated systems that are kept in place for the sole purpose of keeping women in their place. I do realize that this book takes place before the 1990's and some changes have occured since that time, but in recent years the Arab countries have swung back to a very traditional viewpoint.An eye opening read and a frustrating look at a archaic system that should be changed but sadly probably won’t. In this country of immense wealth, the men have the power and appear to have not intention of allowing their women to step out of their shadow existence. When government, religion and tradition are set so solidly in one direction, it would be incredibly difficult or even impossible to change.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5There are books that makes one realize how lucky one is to be born in a country that grants women the basic rights that they deserve........this book is one of them. Its hard to imagine the oppression women are subjected to even today, the hardships and tyranny they face. A view in the life of a Saudi royal princess, but also into the lives of thousands of other women in Muslim countries.