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    Primitive Love and Love-Stories - Henry Theophilus Finck

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    PRIMITIVE LOVE AND LOVE-STORIES

    BY HENRY T. FINCK

    1899

    DEDICATED TO ONE WHO TAUGHT THE AUTHOR THAT CONJUGAL AFFECTION IS NOT INFERIOR TO ROMANTIC LOVE

    PREFACE

    On page 654 of the present volume reference is made to a custom prevalent in northern India of employing the family barber to select the boys and girls to be married, it being considered too trivial and humiliating an act for the parents to attend to. In pronouncing such a custom ludicrous and outrageous we must not forget that not much more than a century ago an English thinker, Samuel Johnson, expressed the opinion that marriages might as well be arranged by the Lord Chancellor without consulting the parties concerned. Schopenhauer had, indeed, reason to claim that it had remained for him to discover the significance and importance of love. His ideas on the relations between love, youth, health, and beauty opened up a new vista of thought; yet it was limited, because the question of heredity was only just beginning to be understood, and the theory of evolution, which has revolutionized all science, had not yet appeared on the horizon.

    The new science of anthropology, with its various branches, including sociology, ethnology, and comparative psychology, has within the last two or three decades brought together and discussed an immense number of facts relating to man in his various stages of development—savagery, barbarism, semi-civilization, and civilization. Monographs have appeared in great numbers on various customs and institutions, including marriage, which has been discussed in several exhaustive volumes. Love alone has remained to be specially considered from an evolutionary point of view. My own book, Romantic Love and Personal Beauty, which appeared in 1887, did indeed touch upon this question, but very briefly, inasmuch as its subject, as the title indicates, was modern romantic love. A book on such a subject was naturally and easily written virginibus puerisque; whereas the present volume, being concerned chiefly with the love-affairs of savages and barbarians, could not possibly have been subjected to the same restrictions. Care has been taken, however, to exclude anything that might offend a healthy taste.

    If it has been necessary in some chapters to multiply unpleasant facts, the reader must blame the sentimentalists who have so persistently whitewashed the savages that it has become necessary, in the interest of truth, to show them in their real colors. I have indeed been tempted to give my book the sub-title A Vindication of Civilization against the misrepresentations of these sentimentalists who try to create the impression that savages owe all their depravity to contact with whites, having been originally spotless angels. If my pictures of the unadulterated savage may in some cases produce the same painful impression as the sights in a museum's chamber of horrors, they serve, on the other hand, to show us that, bad as we may be, collectively, we are infinitely superior in love-affairs, as in everything else, to those primitive peoples; and thus we are encouraged to hope for further progress in the future in the direction of purity and altruism.

    Although I have been obliged under the circumstances to indulge in a considerable amount of controversy, I have taken great pains to state the views of my opponents fairly, and to be strictly impartial in presenting facts with accuracy. Nothing could be more foolish than the ostrich policy, so often indulged in, of hiding facts in the hope that opponents will not see them. Had I found any data inconsistent with my theory I should have modified it in accordance with them. I have also been very careful in regard to my authorities. The chief cause of the great confusion reigning in anthropological literature is that, as a rule, evidence is piled up with a pitchfork. Anyone who has been anywhere and expressed a globe-trotter's opinion is cited as a witness, with deplorable results. I have not only taken most of my multitudinous facts from the original sources, but I have critically examined the witnesses to see what right they have to parade as experts; as in the cases, for instance, of Catlin, Schoolcraft, Chapman, and Stephens, who are responsible for many false facts that have misled philosophers.

    In writing a book like this the author's function is comparable to that of an architect who gets his materials from various parts of the world and fashions them into a building of more or less artistic merit. The anthropologist has to gather his facts from a greater variety of sources than any other writer, and from the very nature of his subject he is obliged to quote incessantly. The following pages embody the results of more than twelve years' research in the libraries of America and Europe. In weaving my quotations into a continuous fabric I have adopted a plan which I believe to be ingenious, and which certainly saves space and annoyance. Instead of citing the full titles of books every time they are referred to either in the text or in footnotes, I merely give the author's name and the page number, if only one of his books is referred to; and if there are several books, I give the initials—say Brinton, M.N.W., 130; which means Brinton's Myths of the New World, page 130. The key to the abbreviations will be found at the end of the volume in the bibliography, which also includes an author's index, separate from the index of subjects. This avoids the repetition of titles or of the customary useless "loc. cit.," and spares the reader the annoyance of constant interruption of his reading to glance at the bottom of the page.

    Not a few of the critics of my first book, ignoring the difference between a romantic love-story and a story of romantic love, fancied they could refute me by simply referring to some ancient romantic story. To prevent a repetition of that procedure I have adorned these pages with a number of love-stories, adding critical comments wherever called for. These stories, I believe, augment, not only the interest but the scientific value of the monograph. In gathering them I have often wondered why no one anticipated me, though, to be sure, it was not an easy task, as they are scattered in hundreds of books, and in scientific periodicals where few would look for them. At the same time I confess that to me the tracing of the plot of the evolution of love, with its diverse obstacles, is more fascinating than the plot of an individual love-story. At any rate, since we have thousands of such love-stories, I am perhaps not mistaken in assuming that the story of love itself will be welcomed as a pleasant change. H.T.F.

    NEW YORK, October 27, 1899.

    CONTENTS

    HISTORY OF AN IDEA

         Origin of a Book

         Skeptical Critics

         Robert Burton

         Hegel on Greek Love

         Shelley on Greek Love

         Macaulay, Bulwer-Lytton, Gautier

         Goldsmith and Rousseau

         Love a Compound Feeling

         Herbert Spencer's Analysis

         Active Impulses Must be Added

         Sensuality the Antipode of Love

         The Word Romantic

         Animals Higher than Savages

         Love the Last, Not the First, Product of Civilization

         Plan of this Volume

         Greek Sentimentality

         Importance of Love

    HOW SENTIMENTS CHANGE AND GROW

         No Love of Romantic Scenery

         No Love in Early Religion

         Murder as a Virtue

         Slaughter of the Innocents

         Honorable Polygamy

         Curiosities of Modesty

         Indifference to Chastity

         Horror of Incest

    WHAT IS ROMANTIC LOVE?

    Ingredients of Love.

    I. INDIVIDUAL PREFERENCE

              All Girls Equally Attractive

              Shallow Predilection

              Repression of Preference

              Utility versus Sentiment

              A Story of African Love

              Similarity of Individuals and Sexes

              Primary and Secondary Sexual Characters

              Fastidious Sensuality is not Love

              Two Stories of Indian Love

              Feminine Ideals Superior to Masculine

              Sex in Body and Mind

              True Femininity and its Female Enemies

              Mysteries of Love,—An Oriental Love-Story

    II. MONOPOLISM

              Juliet and Nothing but Juliet

              Butterfly Love

              Romantic Stories of Non-Romantic Love

              Obstacles to Monopolism

              Wives and Girls in Common

              Trial Marriages

              Two Roman Lovers

    III. JEALOUSY

              Rage at Rivals

              Women as Private Property

              Horrible Punishments

              Essence of True Jealousy

              Absence of Masculine Jealousy

              Persian and Greek Jealousy

              Primitive Feminine Jealousy

              Absence of Feminine Jealousy

              Jealousy Purged of Hate

              A Virtuous Sin

              Abnormal States

              Jealousy in Romantic Love

    IV. COYNESS

              Women Who Woo

              Were Hebrew and Greek Women Coy?

              Masculine Coyness

              Shy but not Coy

              Militarism and Mediaeval Women

              What Made Women Coy?

              Capturing Women

              The Comedy of Mock Capture

              Why the Women Resist

              Quaint Customs

              Greek and Roman Mercenary Coyness

              Modesty and Coyness

              Utility of Coyness

              How Women Propose

    V. HOPE AND DESPAIR—MIXED MOODS

              Amorous Antitheses

              Courtship and Imagination

              Effects of Sensual Love

    VI. HYPERBOLE

              Girls and Flowers

              Eyes and Stars

              Locks and Fragrance

              Poetic Desire for Contact

              Nature's Sympathy with Lovers

              Romantic but not Loving

              The Power of Love

    VII. PRIDE

              Comic Side of Love

              A Mystery Explained

              Importance of Pride

              Varieties and Germs

              Natural and Artificial Symptoms of Love

    VIII. SYMPATHY

              Egotism, Naked or Masked

              Delight in the Torture of Others

              Indifference to Suffering

              Exposing the Sick and Aged

              Birth of Sympathy

              Women Crueler than Men

              Plato Denounces Sympathy

              Sham Altruism in India

              Evolution of Sympathy

              Amorous Sympathy

    IX. ADORATION

              Deification of Persons

              Primitive Contempt for Women

              Homage to Priestesses

              Kinship Through Females Only

              Woman's Domestic Rule

              Woman's Political Rule

              Greek Estimate of Women

              Man-Worship and Christianity

    X. UNSELFISH GALLANTRY

              The Gallant Rooster

              Ungallant Lower Races of Men

              Egyptian Love

              Arabian Love

              The Unchivalrous Greeks

              Ovid's Sham Gallantry

              Mediaeval and Modern Gallantry

              An Insult to Woman,

              Summary

              A Sure Test of Love

    XI. ALTRUISTIC SELF-SACRIFICE

              The Lady and the Tiger

              A Greek Love-Story

              Persian Love

              Hero and Leander

              The Elephant and the Lotos

              Suicide is Selfish

    XII. AFFECTION

              Erotic Assassins

              The Wisdom of Solomon

              Stuff and Nonsense

              Sacrifices of Cannibal Husbands

              Inclinations Mistaken for Affection

              Selfish Liking and Attachment

              Foolish Fondness

              Unselfish Affection

    XIII. MENTAL PURITY

              German Testimony

              English Testimony

              Maiden Fancies

              Pathologic Love

              A Modern Sentiment

              Persians, Turks, and Hindoos

              Love Despised in Japan and China

              Greek Scorn for Woman-Love

              Penetrative Virginity

    XIV. ADMIRATION OF PERSONAL BEAUTY

              Darwin's Unfortunate Mistake

              Decoration for Protection

              War Decorations,

              Amulets, Charms, Medicines

              Mourning Language

              Indications of Tribe or Rank

              Vain Desire to Attract Attention

              Objects of Tattooing

              Tattooing on Pacific Islands

              Tattooing in America

              Tattooing in Japan

              Scarification

              Alleged Testimony of Natives, Misleading Testimony of

                   Visitors

              Decoration at the Age of Puberty

              Decoration as a Test of Courage

              Mutilation, Fashion, and Emulation

              Personal Beauty versus Personal Decoration

              De Gustibus non est Disputandum?

              Indifference to Dirt

              Reasons for Bathing

              Corpulence versus Beauty

              Fattening Girls for the Marriage Market

              Oriental Ideals

              The Concupiscence Theory of Beauty

              Utility is not Beauty

              A New Sense Easily Lost Again

              Moral Ugliness

              Beautifying Intelligence

              The Strange Greek Attitude

    A COMPOSITE AND VARIABLE SENTIMENT

              Definition of Love

              Why called Romantic.

    SENSUALITY, SENTIMENTALITY, AND SENTIMENT.

         Appetite and Longing

         Wiles of an Oriental Girl

         Rarity of True Love.

    MISTAKES REGARDING CONJUGAL LOVE

         How Romantic Love is Metamorphosed

         Why Savages Value Wives

         Mourning to Order

         Mourning for Entertainment

         The Truth about Widow-Burning

         Feminine Devotion in Ancient Literature

         Wives Esteemed as Mothers Only

         Why Conjugal Precedes Romantic Love

    OBSTACLES TO ROMANTIC LOVE

            I. Ignorance and Stupidity

           II. Coarseness and Obscenity

          III. War

           IV. Cruelty

            V. Masculine Selfishness

           VI. Contempt for Women

          VII. Capture and Sale of Brides

         VIII. Infant Marriages

           IX. Prevention of Free Choice

            X. Separation of the Sexes

           XI. Sexual Taboos

          XII. Race Aversions

         XIII. Multiplicity of Languages

          XIV. Social Barriers

           XV. Religious Prejudice

    SPECIMENS OF AFRICAN LOVE

         Bushman Qualifications for Love

         Love in all Their Marriages,

         False Facts Regarding Hottentots

         Effeminate Men and Masculine Women

         How the Hottentot Woman Rules at Home,

         Regard for Women

         Capacity for Refined Love

         Hottentot Coarseness

         Fat versus Sentiment

         South African Love-Poems

         A Hottentot Flirt

         Kaffir Morals

         Individual Preference for—Cows, Bargaining for Brides

         Amorous Preferences

         Zulu Girls not Coy

         Charms and Poems

         A Kaffir Love-Story

         Lower than Beasts

         Colonies of Free Lovers

         A Lesson in Gallantry

         Not a Particle of Romance

         No Love Among Negroes

         A Queer Story

         Suicides

         Poetic Love on the Congo

         Black Love in Kamerun

         A Slave Coast Love-Story

         The Maiden who Always Refused

         African Story-Books

         The Five Suitors

         Tamba and the Princess

         The Sewing Match

         Baling out the Brook

         Proverbs about Women

         African Amazons

         Where Woman Commands

         No Chance for Romantic Love

         Pastoral Love

         Abyssinian Beauty and Flirtation

         Galla Coarseness

         Somali Love-Affairs

         Arabic Influences

         Touareg Chivalry

         An African Love-Letter

    ABORIGINAL AUSTRALIAN LOVE

         Personal Charms of Australians

         Cruel Treatment of Women

         Were Savages Corrupted by Whites?

         Aboriginal Horrors

         Naked and not Ashamed

         Is Civilization Demoralizing?

         Aboriginal Wantonness

         Lower than Brutes

         Indifference to Chastity

         Useless Precautions

         Survivals of Promiscuity

         Aboriginal Depravity

         The Question of Promiscuity

         Why do Australians Marry?

         Curiosities of Jealousy

         Pugnacious Females

         Wife-Stealing

         Swapping Girls

         The Philosophy of Elopements

         Charming a Woman by Magic

         Other Obstacles to Love

         Marriage Taboos and Incest

         Affection for Women and Dogs

         A Horrible Custom

         Romantic Affliction

         A Lock of Hair

         Two Native Stories

         Barrington's Love-Story

         Risking Life for a Woman

         Gerstaecker's Love-Story

         Local Color in Courtship

         Love-Letters.

    ISLAND LOVE ON THE PACIFIC

         Where Women Propose

         Bornean Caged Girls

         Charms of Dyak Women

         Dyak Morals

         Nocturnal Courtship

         Head Hunters A-Wooing

         Fickle and Shallow Passion

         Dyak Love-Songs

         The Girl With the Clean Face

         Fijian Refinements

         How Cannibals Treat Women

         Fijian Modesty and Chastity

         Emotional Curiosities

         Fijian Love-Poems

         Serenades and Proposals

         Suicides and Bachelors

         Samoan Traits

         Courtship Pantomime

         Two Samoan Love-Stories

         Personal Charms of South Sea Islanders

         Tahitians and Their White Visitors

         Heartless Treatment of Women

         Two Stories of Tahitian Infatuation

         Captain Cook on Tahitian Love

         Were the Tongans Civilized?

         Love of Scenery

         A Cannibal Bargain

         The Handsome Chiefs

         Honeymoon in a Cave

         A Hawaiian Cave-Story

         Is this Romantic Love?

         Vagaries of Hawaiian Fondness

         Hawaiian Morals

         The Helen of Hawaii

         Intercepted Love-Letters

         Maoris of New Zealand

         The Maiden of Rotorua

         The Man on the Tree

         Love in a Fortress

         Stratagem of an Elopement

         Maori Love-Poems

         The Wooing-House

         Liberty of Choice and Respect for Women

         Maori Morals and Capacity for Love

    HOW AMERICAN INDIANS LOVE

         The Red Lover

         The Foam Woman

         The Humpback Magician

         The Buffalo King

         The Haunted Grove

         The Girl and the Scalp

         A Chippewa Love-Song

         How Indian Stories are Written

         Reality versus Romance

         Deceptive Modesty

         Were Indians Corrupted by Whites?

         The Noble Red Man

         Apparent Exceptions

         Intimidating California Squaws

         Going A-Calumeting

         Squaws and Personal Beauty

         Are North American Indians Gallant?

         South American Gallantry

         How Indians Adore Squaws

         Choosing a Husband

         Compulsory Free Choice

         A British Columbia Story

         The Danger of Coquetry

         The Girl Market

         Other Ways of Thwarting Free Choice

         Central and South American Examples

         Why Indians Elope

         Suicide and Love

         Love-Charms

         Curiosities of Courtship

         Pantomimic Love-Making

         Honeymoon

         Music in Indian Courtship

         Indian Love-Poems

         More Love-Stories

         White Man Too Much Lie

         The Story of Pocahontas

         Verdict: No Romantic Love

         The Unloving Eskimo.

    INDIA—WILD TRIBES AND TEMPLE GIRLS.

         Whole Tracts of Feeling Unknown to Them

         Practical Promiscuity

         Marvellously Pretty and Romantic

         Liberty of Choice

         Scalps and Field-Mice

         A Topsy-Turvy Custom

         Pahária Lads and Lasses

         Child-Murder and Child-Marriage

         Monstrous Parental Selfishness

         How Hindoo Girls are Disposed of

         Hindoos Far Below Brutes

         Contempt in Place of Love

         Widows and Their Tormentors

         Hindoo Depravity

         Temple Girls

         An Indian Aspasia

         Symptoms of Feminine Love

         Symptoms of Masculine Love

         Lyrics and Dramas

         I. The Story of Sakuntala

         II. The Story of Urvasi

         III. Malavika and Agnimitra

         IV. The Story of Savitri

         V. Nala and Damayanti

         Artificial Symptoms

         The Hindoo God of Love

         Dying for Love

         What Hindoo Poets Admire in Women

         The Old Story of Selfishness

         Bayadères and Princesses as Heroines

         Voluntary Unions not Respectable

    DOES THE BIBLE IGNORE ROMANTIC LOVE?

         The Story of Jacob and Rachel

         The Courting of Rebekah

         How Ruth Courted Boaz

         No Sympathy or Sentiment

         A Masculine Ideal of Womanhood

         Not the Christian Ideal of Love

         Unchivalrous Slaughter of Women

         Four More Bible Stories

         Abishag the Shunammite

         The Song of Songs

    GREEK LOVE-STORIES AND POEMS.

         Champions of Greek Love

         Gladstone on the Women of Homer

         Achilles as a Lover

         Odysseus, Libertine and Ruffian

         Was Penelope a Model Wife?

         Hector and Andromache

         Barbarous Treatment of Greek Women

         Love in Sappho's Poems

         Masculine Minds in Female Bodies

         Anacreon and Others

         Woman and Love in Aeschylus

         Woman and Love in Sophocles

         Woman and Love in Euripides

         Romantic Love, Greek Style

         Platonic Love of Women

         Spartan Opportunities for Love

         Amazonian Ideal of Greek Womanhood

         Athenian Orientalism

         Literature and Life

         Greek Love in Africa

         Alexandrian Chivalry

         The New Comedy

         Theocritus and Callimachus

         Medea and Jason

         Poets and Hetairai

         Short Stories

         Greek Romances

         Daphnis and Chloe

         Hero and Leander

         Cupid and Psyche

    UTILITY AND FUTURE OF LOVE.

    BIBLIOGRAPHY AND INDEX OF AUTHORS

    INDEX OF SUBJECTS

    PRIMITIVE LOVE

    AND

    LOVE-STORIES

    HISTORY OF AN IDEA

    Love is always the same. As Sappho loved, fifty years ago, so did people love ages before her; so will they love thousands of years hence.

    These words, placed by Professor Ebers in the mouth of one of the characters in his historic novel, An Egyptian Princess, express the prevalent opinion on this subject, an opinion which I, too, shared fifteen years ago. Though an ardent champion of the theory of evolution, I believed that there was one thing in the world to which modern scientific ideas of gradual development did not apply—that love was too much part and parcel of human nature to have ever been different from what it is to-day.

    ORIGIN OF A BOOK

    It so happened that I began to collect notes for a paper on How to Cure Love. It was at first intended merely as a personal experiment in emotional psychology. Afterward it occurred to me that such a sketch might be shaped into a readable magazine article. This, again, suggested a complementary article on How to Win Love—a sort of modern Ovid in prose; and then suddenly came the thought,

    Why not write a book on love? There is none in the English language—strange anomaly—though love is supposed to be the most fascinating and influential thing in the world. It will surely be received with delight, especially if I associate with it some chapters on personal beauty, the chief inspirer of love. I shall begin by showing that the ancient Greeks and Romans and Hebrews loved precisely as we love.

    Forthwith I took down from my shelves the classical authors that I had not touched since leaving college, and eagerly searched for all references to women, marriage, and love. To my growing surprise and amazement I found that not only did those ancient authors look upon women as inferior beings while I worshipped them, but in their descriptions of the symptoms of love I looked in vain for mention of those supersensual emotions and self-sacrificing impulses which overcame me when I was in love. Can it be, I whispered to myself, that, notwithstanding the universal opinion to the contrary, love is, after all, subject to the laws of development?

    This hypothesis threw me into a fever of excitement, without the stimulus of which I do not believe I should have had the courage and patience to collect, classify, and weave into one fabric the enormous number of facts and opinions contained within the covers of Romantic Love and Personal Beauty. I believed that at last something new under the sun had been found, and I was so much afraid that the discovery might leak out prematurely, that for two years I kept the first half of my title a secret, telling inquisitive friends merely that I was writing a book on Personal Beauty. And no one but an author who is in love with his theme and whose theme is love can quite realize what a supreme delight it was—with occasional moments of anxious suspense—to go through thousands of books in the libraries of America, England, France, and Germany and find that all discoverable facts, properly interpreted, bore out my seemingly paradoxical and reckless theory.

    SKEPTICAL CRITICS

    When the book appeared some of the critics accepted my conclusions, but a larger number pooh-poohed them. Here are a few specimen comments:

    His great theses are, first, that romantic love is an entirely modern invention; and, secondly, that romantic love and conjugal love are two things essentially different…. Now both these theses are luckily false.

    He is wrong when he says there was no such thing as pre-matrimonial love known to the ancients.

    I don't believe in his theory at all, and … no one is likely to believe in it after candid examination.

    A ridiculous theory.

    It was a misfortune when Mr. Finck ran afoul of this theory.

    Mr. Finck will not need to live many years in order to be ashamed of it.

    His thesis is not worth writing about.

    It is true that he has uttered a profoundly original thought, but, unfortunately, the depth of its originality is surpassed by its fathomless stupidity.

    If in the light of these and a million other facts, we should undertake to explain why nobody had anticipated Mr. Finck's theory that love is a modern sentiment, we should say it might be because nobody who felt inspired to write about it was ever so extensively unacquainted with the literature of the human passions.

    Romantic love has always existed, in every clime and age, since man left simian society; and the records of travellers show that it is to be found even among the lowest savages.

    ROBERT BURTON

    While not a few of the commentators thus rejected or ridiculed my thesis, others hinted that I had been anticipated. Several suggested that Burton's Anatomy of Melancholy had been my model. As a matter of fact, although one of the critics referred to my book as a marvel of epitomized research, I must confess, to my shame, that I was not aware that Burton had devoted two hundred pages to what he calls Love-Melancholy, until I had finished the first sketch of my manuscript and commenced to rewrite it. My experience thus furnished a striking verification of the witty epitaph which Burton wrote for himself and his book: Known to few, unknown to fewer still. However, after reading Burton, I was surprised that any reader of Burton should have found anything in common between his book and mine, for he treated love as an appetite, I as a sentiment; my subject was pure, supersensual affection, while his subject is frankly indicated in the following sentences:

    I come at last to that heroical love, which is proper to men and women … and deserves much rather to be called burning lust than by such an honorable title. This burning lust … begets rapes, incests, murders. "It rages with all sorts and conditions of men, yet is most evident among such as are young and lusty, in the flower of their years, nobly descended, high fed, such as live idly, at ease, and for that cause (which our divines call burning lust) this mad and beastly passion … is named by our physicians heroical love, and a more honorable title put upon it, Amor nobilis, as Savonarola styles it, because noble men and women make a common practice of it, and are so ordinarily affected with it. Carolus à Lorme … makes a doubt whether this heroical love be a disease…. Tully … defines it a furious disease of the mind; Plato madness itself."

         "Gordonius calls this disease the proper passion of

         nobility."

         "This heroical passion or rather brutish burning lust

         of which we treat."

    The only honorable love Burton knows is that between husband and wife, while of such a thing as the evolution of love he had, of course, not the remotest conception, as his book appeared in 1621, or two hundred and thirty-eight years before Darwin's Origin of Species.

    HEGEL ON GREEK LOVE

    In a review of my book which appeared in the now defunct New York Star, the late George Parsons Lathrop wrote that the author

    says that romantic love is a modern sentiment, less than a thousand years old. This idea, I rather think, he derived from Hegel, although he does not credit that philosopher with it.

    I read this criticism with mingled emotions. If it was true that Hegel had anticipated me, my claims to priority of discovery would vanish, even though the idea had come to me spontaneously; but, on the other hand, the disappointment at this thought was neutralized by the reflection that I should gain the support of one of the most famous philosophers, and share with him the sneers and the ridicule bestowed upon my theory. I wrote to Mr. Lathrop, begging him to refer me to the volume and page of Hegel's numerous works where I could find the passage in question. He promptly replied that I should find it in the second volume of the Aesthetik (178-182). No doubt I ought to have known that Hegel had written on this subject; but the fact that of more than two hundred American, English, and German reviewers of my book whose notices I have seen, only one knew what had thus escaped my research, consoled me somewhat. Hegel, indeed, might well have copied Burton's epitaph. His Aesthetik is an abstruse, unindexed, three-volume work of 1,575 pages, which has not been reprinted since 1843, and is practically forgotten. Few know it, though all know of it.

    After perusing Hegel's pages on this topic I found, however, that Mr. Lathrop had imputed to him a theory—my theory—which that philosopher would have doubtless repudiated emphatically. What Hegel does is simply to call attention to the fact that in the literature of the ancient Greeks and Romans love is depicted only as a transient gratification of the senses, or a consuming heat of the blood, and not as a romantic, sentimental affection of the soul. He does not generalize, says nothing about other ancient nations,[1] and certainly never dreamt of such a thing as asserting that love had been gradually and slowly developed from the coarse and selfish passions of our savage ancestors to the refined and altruistic feelings of modern civilized men and women. He lived long before the days of scientific anthropology and Darwinism, and never thought of such a thing as looking upon the emotions and morals of primitive men as the raw material out of which our own superior minds have been fashioned. Nay, Hegel does not even say that sentimental love did not exist in the life of the Greeks and Romans; he simply asserts that it is not to be found in their literature. The two things are by no means identical.

    Professor Rohde, an authority on the erotic writings of the Greeks, expresses the opinion repeatedly that, whatever their literature may indicate, they themselves were capable of feeling strong and pure love; and the eminent American psychologist, Professor William James, put forth the same opinion in a review of my book.[2] Indeed, this view was broached more than a hundred years ago by a German author, Basil von Ramdohr, who wrote four volumes on love and its history, entitled Venus Urania. His first two volumes are almost unreadably garrulous and dull, but the third and fourth contain an interesting account of various phases through which love has passed in literature. Yet he declares (Preface, vol. iii.) that "the nature [Wesen] of love is unchangeable, but the ideas we entertain in regard to it and the effects we ascribe to it, are subject to alteration."

    SHELLEY ON GREEK LOVE

    It is possible that Hegel may have read this book, for it appeared in 1798, while the first manuscript sketches of his lectures on esthetics bear the date of 1818. He may have also read Robert Wood's book entitled An Essay on the Original Genius and Writings of Homer, dated 1775, in which this sentence occurs:

    "Is it not very remarkable, that Homer, so great a master of the tender and pathetic, who has exhibited human nature in almost every shape, and under every view, has not given a single instance of the powers and effects of love, distinct from sensual enjoyment, in the Iliad?"

    This is as far as I have been able to trace back this notion in modern literature. But in the literature of the first half of the nineteenth century I have come across several adumbrations of the truth regarding the Greeks,[3] by Shelley, Lord Lytton, Lord Macaulay, and Théophile Gautier. Shelley's ideas are confused and contradictory, but interesting as showing the conflict between traditional opinion and poetic intuition. In his fragmentary discourse on The Manners of the Ancients Relating to the Subject of Love, which was intended to serve as an introduction to Plato's Symposium, he remarks that the women of the ancient Greeks, with rare exceptions, possessed

    the habits and the qualities of slaves. They were probably not extremely beautiful, at least there was no such disproportion in the attractions of the external form between the female and male sex among the Greeks, as exists among the modern Europeans. They were certainly devoid of that moral and intellectual loveliness with which the acquisition of knowledge and the cultivation of sentiment animates, as with another life of overpowering grace, the lineaments and the gestures of every form which they inhabit. Their eyes could not have been deep and intricate from the workings of the mind, and could have entangled no heart in soul-enwoven labyrinths. Having painted this life-like picture of the Greek female mind, Shelley goes on to say perversely:

    Let it not be imagined that because the Greeks were deprived of its legitimate object, that they were incapable of sentimental love, and that this passion is the mere child of chivalry and the literature of modern times.

    He tries to justify this assertion by adding that

    Man is in his wildest state a social being: a certain degree of civilization and refinement ever produces the want of sympathies still more intimate and complete; and the gratification of the senses is no longer all that is sought in sexual connection. It soon becomes a very small part of that profound and complicated sentiment, which we call love, which is rather the universal thirst for a communion not merely of the senses, but of our whole nature, intellectual, imaginative, and sensitive.

    Here Shelley contradicts himself flatly by saying, in two consecutive sentences, that Greek women were certainly devoid of the moral and intellectual loveliness which inspires sentimental love, but that the men nevertheless could feel such love. His mind was evidently hazy on the subject, and that is probably the reason why his essay remained a fragment.

    MACAULAY, BULWER-LYTTON, GAUTIER

    Macaulay, with deeper insight than Shelley showed, realized that the passion of love may undergo changes. In his essay on Petrarch he notes that in the days of that poet love had become a new passion, and he clearly realizes the obstacles to love presented by Greek institutions. Of the two classes of women in Greece, the respectable and the hetairai, he says:

    The matrons and their daughters, confined in the harem—insipid, uneducated, ignorant of all but the mechanical arts, scarcely seen till they were married—could rarely excite interest; while their brilliant rivals, half graces, half harpies, elegant and refined, but fickle and rapacious, could never inspire respect.

    Lord Lytton wrote an essay on The Influence of Love upon Literature and Real Life, in which he stated that

    "with Euripides commences the important distinction in the analysis of which all the most refined and intellectual of modern erotic literature consists, viz., the distinction between love as a passion and love as a sentiment…. He is the first of the Hellenic poets who interests us intellectually in the antagonism and affinity between the sexes."

    Théophile Gautier clearly realized one of the differences between ancient passion and modern love. In Mademoiselle de Maupin, he makes this comment on the ancient love-poems:

    Through all the subtleties and veiled expressions one hears the abrupt and harsh voice of the master who endeavors to soften his manner in speaking to a slave. It is not, as in the love-poems written since the Christian era, a soul demanding love of another soul because it loves…. 'Make haste, Cynthia; the smallest wrinkle may prove the grave of the most violent passion.' It is in this brutal formula that all ancient elegy is summed up.

    GOLDSMITH AND ROUSSEAU

    In Romantic Love and Personal Beauty I intimated (116) that Oliver Goldsmith was the first author who had a suspicion of the fact that love is not the same everywhere and at all times. My surmise was apparently correct; it is not refuted by any of the references to love by the several authors just quoted, since all of these were written from about a half a century to a century later than Goldsmith's Citizen of the World (published in 1764), which contains his dialogue on Whether Love be a Natural or a Fictitious Passion. His assertion therein that love existed only in early Rome, in chivalrous mediaeval Europe, and in China, all the rest of the world being, and having ever been, utter strangers to its delights and advantages, is, of course a mere bubble of his poetic fancy, not intended to be taken too seriously, and, is, moreover, at variance with facts. It is odd that he overlooks the Greeks, whereas the other writers cited confine themselves to the Greeks and their Roman imitators.

    Ten years before Goldsmith thus launched the idea that most nations were and had ever been strangers to the delights and advantages of love, Jean Jacques Rousseau published a treatise, Discours sur l'inégalité (1754), in which he asserted that savages are strangers to jealousy, know no domesticity, and evince no preferences, being as well pleased with one woman as with another. Although, as we shall see later, many savages do have a crude sort of jealousy, domesticity, and individual preference, Rousseau, nevertheless, hints prophetically at a great truth—the fact that some, at any rate, of the phenomena of love are not to be found in the life of savages. Such a thought, naturally, was too novel to be accepted at once. Ramdohr, for instance, declares (III. 17) that he cannot convince himself that Rousseau is right. Yet, on the preceding page he himself had written that it is unreasonable to speak of love between the sexes among peoples that have not yet advanced so far as to grant women humane consideration.

    LOVE A COMPOUND FEELING

    All these things are of extreme interest as showing the blind struggles of a great idea to emerge from the mist into daylight. The greatest obstacle to the recognition of the fact that love has a history, and is subject to the laws of evolution lay in the habit of looking upon it as a simple feeling.

    When I wrote my first book on love, I believed that Herbert Spencer was the first thinker who grasped the idea that love is a composite state of mind. I now see, however, that Silvius, in Shakspere's As You Like It (V. 2), gave a broad hint of the truth, three hundred years ago. Phoebe asks him to tell what 't is to love, and he replies:

         It is to be all made of sighs and tears….

         It is to be all made of faith and service….

         It is to be all made of fantasy,

         All made of passion, and all made of wishes,

         All adoration, duty, and observance,

         All humbleness, all patience, and impatience,

         All purity, all trial, all obedience.

    Coleridge also vaguely recognized the composite nature of love in the first stanza of his famous poem:

         All thoughts, all passions, all delights,

         Whatever stirs this mortal frame,

         All are but ministers of love,

           And feed his sacred flame.

    And Swift adds, in Cadenus and Vanessa:

         Love, why do we one passion call,

         When 'tis a compound of them all?

    The eminent Danish critic, George Brandes, though a special student of English literature, overlooked these poets when he declared, in one of his lectures on literary history (1872), that the book in which love is for the first time looked on as something composite and an attempt made to analyze it into its elements, is Benjamin Constant's Adolphe (which appeared in 1816). "In Adolphe," he says,

    "and in all the literature associated with that book, we are informed accurately how many parts, how many grains, of friendship, devotion, vanity, ambition, admiration, respect, sensual attraction, illusion, fancy, deception, hate, satiety, enthusiasm, reasoning calculation, etc., are contained in the mixtum compositum which the enamoured persons call love."

    This list, moreover, does not accurately name a single one of the essential ingredients of true love, dwelling only on associated phenomena, whereas Shakspere's lines call attention to three states of mind which form part of the quintessence of romantic love—gallant service, adoration, and purity—while patience and impatience may perhaps be accepted as an equivalent of what I call the mixed moods of hope and despair.

    HERBERT SPENCER'S ANALYSIS

    Nevertheless the first thinker who treated love as a compound feeling and consciously attempted a philosophical analysis of it was Herbert Spencer. In 1855 he published his Principles of Psychology, and in 1870 appeared a greatly enlarged edition, paragraph 215 of which contains the following exposition of his views:

    "The passion which unites the sexes is habitually spoken of as though it were a simple feeling; whereas it is the most compound, and therefore the most powerful, of all the feelings. Added to the purely physical elements of it are first to be noticed those highly complex impressions produced by personal beauty; around which are aggregated a variety of pleasurable ideas, not in themselves amatory, but which have an organized relation to the amatory feeling. With this there is united the complex sentiment which we term affection—a sentiment which, as it exists between those of the same sex, must be regarded as an independent sentiment, but one which is here greatly exalted. Then there is the sentiment of admiration, respect, or reverence—in itself one of considerable power, and which in this relation becomes in a high degree active. There comes next the feeling called love of approbation. To be preferred above all the world, and that by one admired beyond all others, is to have the love of approbation gratified in a degree passing every previous experience: especially as there is added that indirect gratification of it which results from the preference being witnessed by unconcerned persons. Further, the allied emotion of self-esteem comes into play. To have succeeded in gaining such attachment from, and sway over, another, is a proof of power which cannot fail agreeably to excite the amour propre. Yet again the proprietary feeling has its share in the general activity: there is the pleasure of possession—the two belong to each other. Once more, the relation allows of an extended liberty of action. Toward other persons a restrained behavior is requisite. Round each there is a subtle boundary that may not be crossed—an individuality on which none may trespass. But in this case the barriers are thrown down; and thus the love of unrestrained activity is gratified. Finally, there is an exaltation of the sympathies. Egoistic pleasures of all kinds are doubled by another's sympathetic participation; and the pleasures of another are added to the egoistic pleasures. Thus, round the physical feeling forming the nucleus of the whole, are gathered the feelings produced by personal beauty, that constituting simple attachment, those of reverence, of love of approbation, of self-esteem, of property, of love of freedom, of sympathy. These, all greatly exalted, and severally tending to reflect their excitements on one another, unite to form the mental state we call love. And as each of them is itself comprehensive of multitudinous states of consciousness, we may say that this passion fuses into one immense aggregate most of the elementary excitations of which we are capable; and that hence results its irresistible power."

    Ribot has copied this analysis of love in his Psychologie des Sentiments (p. 249), with the comment that it is the best known to him (1896) and that he sees nothing to add or to take away from it. Inasmuch as it forms merely an episodic illustration in course of a general argument, it certainly bears witness to the keenness of Spencer's intellect. Yet I cannot agree with Ribot that it is a complete analysis of love. It aided me in conceiving the plan for my first book, but I soon found that it covered only a small part of the ground. Of the ingredients as suggested by him I accepted only two—Sympathy, and the feelings associated with Personal Beauty. What he called love of approbation, self-esteem, and pleasure of possession I subsummed under the name of Pride of Conquest and Possession. Further reflection has convinced me that it would have been wiser if, instead of treating Romantic Love as a phase of affection (which, of course, was in itself quite correct), I had followed Spencer's example and made affection one of the ingredients of the amorous passion. In the present volume I have made the change and added also Adoration, which includes what Spencer calls the sentiment of admiration, respect, or reverence, while calling attention to the superlative phase of these sentiments which is so characteristic of the lover, who does not say, I respect you, but I adore you. I may therefore credit Spencer with having suggested three or four only of the fourteen essential ingredients which I find in love.

    ACTIVE IMPULSES MUST BE ADDED

    The most important distinction between Spencer's analysis of love and mine is that he treats it merely as a composite feeling, or a group of emotions, whereas I treat it as a complex state of mind including not only diverse feelings or sentiments—sympathy, admiration of beauty, jealousy, affection—but the active, altruistic impulses of gallantry and self-sacrifice, which are really more essential to an understanding of the essence of love, and a better test of it, than the sentiments named by Spencer. He ignores also the absolutely essential traits of individual preference and monopolism, besides coyness, hyperbole, the mixed moods of hope and despair, and purity, with the diverse emotions accompanying them. An effort to trace the evolution of the ingredients of love was first made in my book, though in a fragmentary way, in which respect the present volume will be found a great improvement. Apart from the completion of the analysis of love, my most important contribution to the study of this subject lies in the recognition of the fact that, love being so vague and comprehensive a term, the only satisfactory way of studying its evolution is to trace the evolution of each of its ingredients separately, as I do in the present volume in the long chapter entitled What Is Romantic Love?

    In Romantic Love and Personal Beauty (180) I wrote that perhaps the main reason why no one had anticipated me in the theory that love is an exclusively modern sentiment was that no distinction had commonly been made between romantic love and conjugal affection, noble examples of the latter being recorded in countries where romantic love was not possible owing to the absence of opportunities for courtship. I still hold that conjugal love antedated the romantic variety, but further study has convinced me that (as will be shown in the chapters on Conjugal Love and on India, and Greece) much of what has been taken as evidence of wifely devotion is really only a proof of man's tyrannic selfishness which compelled the woman always to subordinate herself to her cruel master. The idea on which I placed so much emphasis, that opportunity for prolonged courtship is essential to the growth of romantic love, was some years later set forth by Dr. Drummond in his Ascent of Man where he comments eloquently on the fact that affection needs time to grow.

    SENSUALITY THE ANTIPODE OF LOVE

    The keynote of my first book lies of course in the distinction between sensual love and romantic love. This distinction seemed to me so self-evident that I did not dwell on it at length, but applied myself chiefly to the task of proving that savages and ancient nations knew only one kind, being strangers to romantic or pure love. When I wrote (76) No one, of course, would deny that sensual passion prevailed in Athens; but sensuality is the very antipode of love, I never dreamed that anyone would object to this distinction in itself. Great, therefore, was my amazement when, on reading the London Saturday Review's comments on my book, I came across the following:

    and when we find Mr. Finck marking off Romantic Love not merely from Conjugal Love, but from what he is pleased to call 'sensuality,' we begin to suspect that he really does not know what he is talking about.

    This criticism, with several others similar to it, was of great use to me, as it led to a series of studies, which convinced me that even at the present day the nature of romantic love is not understood by the vast majority of Europeans and Americans, many of them very estimable and intelligent individuals.

    THE WORD ROMANTIC

    Another London paper, the Academy, took me to task for using the word romantic in the sense I applied to it. But in this case, too, further research has shown that I was justified in using that word to designate pure prematrimonial love. There is a passage in Steele's Lover (dated 1714) which proves that it must have been in common use in a similar sense two centuries ago. The passage refers to the reign of the amorous Charles the Second, and declares that

    the licenses of that court did not only make the Love which the Vulgar call Romantick, the object of Jest and Ridicule, but even common Decency and Modesty were almost abandoned as formal and unnatural.

    Here there is an obvious antithesis between romantic and sensual. The same antithesis was used by Hegel in contrasting the sensual love of the ancient Greeks and Romans with what he calls modern romantic love. Waitz-Gerland, too, in the six volumes of their Anthropologie der Naturvölker, repeatedly refer to (alleged) cases of romantic love among savages and barbarians, having in all probability adopted the term from Hegel. The peculiar appropriateness of the word romantic to designate imaginative love will be set forth later in the chapter entitled Sensuality, Sentimentality, and Sentiment. Here I will only add an important truth which I shall have occasion to repeat often—that a romantic love-story is not necessarily a story of romantic love; for it is obvious, for instance, that an elopement prompted by the most frivolous sensual passion, without a trace of real love, may lead to the most romantic incidents.

    In the chapters on affection, gallantry, and self-sacrifice, I shall make it clear even to a Saturday Reviewer that the gross sensual infatuation which leads a man to shoot a girl who refuses him, or a tramp to assault a woman on a lonely road and afterward to cut her throat in order to hide his crime, is absolutely antipodal to the refined, ardent, affectionate Romantic Love which impels a man to sacrifice his own life rather than let any harm or dishonor come to the beloved.

    ANIMALS HIGHER THAN SAVAGES

    Dr. Albert Moll of Berlin, in his second treatise on sexual anomalies,[4] takes occasion to express his disbelief in my view that love before marriage is a sentiment peculiar to modern man. He declares that traits of such love occur even in the courtship of animals, particularly birds, and implies that this upsets my theory. On the same ground a reviewer in a New York evening paper accused me of being illogical. Such criticisms illustrate the vague ideas regarding evolution that are still current. It is assumed that all the faculties are developed step by step simultaneously as we proceed from lower to higher animals, which is as illogical as it would be to assume that since birds have such beautiful and convenient things as wings, and dogs belong to a higher genus of animals, therefore dogs ought to have better wings than birds. Most animals are cleaner than savages; why should not some of them be more romantic in their love-affairs? I shall take occasion repeatedly to emphasize this point in the present volume, though I alluded to it already in my first book (55) in the following passage, which my critics evidently overlooked:

    In passing from animals to human beings we find at first not only no advance in the sexual relations, but a decided retrogression. Among some species of birds, courtship and marriage are infinitely more refined and noble than among the lowest savages, and it is especially in their treatment of females, both before and after mating, that not only birds but all animals show an immense superiority over primitive man; for male animals fight only among themselves and never maltreat the females.

    LOVE THE LAST, NOT THE FIRST, PRODUCT OF CIVILIZATION

    Notwithstanding this striking and important fact, there is a large number of sentimental writers who make the extraordinary claim that the lower races, however savage they may be in everything else, are like ourselves in their amorous relations; that they love and admire personal beauty just as we do. The main object of the present volume is to demolish this doctrine; to prove that sexual refinement and the sense of personal beauty are not the earliest but the latest products of civilization. I have shown elsewhere[5] that Japanese civilization is in many important respects far superior to ours; yet in their treatment of women and estimate of love, this race has not yet risen above the barbarous stage; and it will be shown in this volume that if we were to judge the ancient Greeks and the Hindoos from this point of view, we should have to deny them the epithet of civilized. Morgan found that the most advanced of American Indians, the Iroquois, had no capacity for love. His testimony in detail will be found in its proper place in this volume, together with that of competent observers regarding other tribes and races. Some of this evidence was known to the founders of the modern science of sociology. It led Spencer to write en passant (Pr. Soc., I., § 337, §339) that absence of the tender emotion … habitually characterizes men of low types; and that the higher sentiments accompanying union of the sexes … do not exist among primitive men. It led Sir John Lubbock to write (50) regarding the lowest races that love is almost unknown among them; and marriage, in its lowest phases, is by no means a matter of affection and companionship.

    PLAN OF THIS VOLUME

    These are casual adumbrations of a great truth that applies not only to the lowest races (savages) but to the more advanced barbarians as well as to ancient civilized nations, as the present volume will attempt to demonstrate. To make my argument more impressive and conclusive, I present it in a twofold form. First I take the fourteen ingredients of love separately, showing how they developed gradually, whence it follows necessarily that love as a whole developed gradually. Then I take the Africans, Australians, American Indians, etc., separately, describing their diverse amorous customs and pointing out everywhere the absence of the altruistic, supersensual traits which constitute the essence of romantic love as distinguished from sensual passion. All this will be preceded by a chapter on How Sentiments Change and Grow, which will weaken the bias against the notion that so elemental a feeling as sexual love should have undergone so great a change, by pointing out that other seemingly instinctive and unalterable feelings have changed and developed.

    GREEK SENTIMENTALITY

    The inclusion of the civilized Greeks in a treatise on Primitive Love will naturally cause surprise; but I cannot attribute a capacity for anything more than primitive sensual love to a nation which, in its prematrimonial customs, manifested none of the essential altruistic traits of Romantic Love—sympathy, gallantry, self-sacrifice, affection, adoration, and purity. As a matter of course, the sensualism of a Greek or Roman is a much less coarse thing than an Australian's, which does not even include kisses or other caresses. While Greek love is not a sentiment, it may be sentimental, that is, an affectation of sentiment, differing from real sentiment as adulation does from adoration, as gallantry or the risking of life to secure favors do from genuine gallantry of the heart and self-sacrifice for the benefit of another. This important point which I here superadd to my theory, was overlooked by Benecke when he attributed a capacity for real love to the later Greeks of the Alexandrian period.

    IMPORTANCE OF LOVE

    One of the most important theses advanced in Romantic Love and Personal Beauty (323, 424, etc.), was that love, far from being merely a passing episode in human life, is one of the most powerful agencies working for the improvement of the human race. During the reign of Natural Selection, before the birth of love, cripples, the insane, the incurably diseased, were cruelly neglected and allowed to perish. Christianity rose up against this cruelty, building hospitals and saving the infirm, who were thus enabled to survive, marry, and hand down their infirmities to future generations. As a mediator between these two agencies, love comes in; for Cupid, as I have said, does not kill those who do not come up to his standard of health and beauty, but simply ignores and condemns them to a life of single-blessedness; which in these days is not such a hardship as it used to be. This thought will be enlarged in the last chapter of the present volume, on the Utility and Future of Love, which will indicate how the amorous sense is becoming more and more fastidious and beneficial. In the same chapter attention will be called, for the first time, to the three great strata in the evolution of parental love and morality. In the first, represented by savages, parents think chiefly of their own comfort, and children get the minimum of attention consistent with their preservation. In the second, which includes most of the modern Europeans and Americans, parents exercise care that their children shall make an advantageous marriage—that is a marriage which shall secure them wealth or comfort; but the frequency with which girls are married off to old, infirm, or unworthy men, shows how few parents as yet have a thought of their grandchildren. In the next stage of moral evolution, which we are now entering, the grandchildren's welfare also will be considered. In consequence of the persistent failure to consider the grandchildren, the human race is now anything but a model of physical, intellectual, and moral perfection. Luckily love, even in its sensual stages, has counteracted this parental selfishness and myopia by inducing young folks to marry for health, youth, and beauty, and creating an aversion to old age, disease, and deformity. As love becomes more and more fastidious and more regardful of intellectual worth and moral beauty—that is becomes Romantic Love—its sway becomes greater and greater, and the time will come when questions relating to it will form the most important chapters in treatises on moral philosophy, which now usually ignore them altogether.

    HOW SENTIMENTS CHANGE AND GROW

    In conversation with friends I have found that the current belief that love must have been always and everywhere the same, because it is such a strong and elemental passion, is most easily shaken in this a priori position by pointing out that there are other strong feelings in our minds which were lacking among earlier and lower races. The love of grand, wild scenery, for instance—what we call romantic scenery—is as modern as the romantic love of men and women. Ruskin tells us that in his youth he derived a pleasure from such scenery comparable for intensity only to the joy of a lover in being near a noble and kind mistress.

    NO LOVE OF ROMANTIC SCENERY

    Savages, on the other hand, are prevented from appreciating snow mountains, avalanches, roaring torrents, ocean storms, deep glens, jungles, and solitudes, not only by their lack of refinement, but by their fears of wild animals, human enemies, and evil spirits. In the Australian bush, writes Tylor (P.C., II., 203), demons whistle in the branches, and stooping with outstretched arms sneak among the trunks to seize the wayfarer; and Powers (88) writes in regard to California Indians that they listen to night noises with unspeakable horror:

    It is difficult for us to conceive of the speechless terrors which these poor wretches suffer from the screeching of owls, the shrieking of night-hawks, the rustling of the trees … all of which are only channels of poison wherewith the demons would smite them.

    To the primitive mind, the world over, a high mountain is the horror of horrors, the abode of evil spirits, and an attempt to climb it certain death. So strong is this superstition that explorers have often experienced the greatest difficulty in getting natives to serve as porters of provisions in their ascents of peaks.[6] Even the Greeks and Romans cared for landscape only in so far as it was humanized (parks and gardens) and habitable. Their souls, says Rohde (511),

    could never have been touched by the sublime thrills we feel in the presence of the dark surges of the sea, the gloom of a primeval forest, the solitude and silence of sunlit mountain summits.

    And Humboldt, who first noted the absence in Greek and Roman writings of the admiration of romantic scenery, remarked (24):

    Of the eternal snow of the Alps, glowing in the rosy light of the morning or evening sun, of the loveliness of the blue glacier ice, of the stupendous grandeur of Swiss landscape, no description has come down to us from them; yet there was a constant procession over these Alps, from Helvetia to Gallia, of statesmen and generals with literary men in their train. All these travellers tell us only of the steep and abominable roads; the romantic aspect of scenery never engages their attention. It is even known that Julius Caesar, when he returned to his legions in Gaul, employed his time while crossing the Alps in writing his grammatical treatise 'De Analogia.'

    A sceptical reader might retort that the love of romantic scenery is so subtle a sentiment, and so far from being universal even now, that it would be rash to argue from its absence among savages, Greeks, and Romans, that love, a sentiment so much stronger and more prevalent, could have been in the same predicament. Let us therefore take another sentiment, the religious, the vast power and wide prevalence of which no one will deny.

    NO LOVE IN EARLY RELIGION

    To a modern Christian, God is a deity who is all-wise, all-powerful, infinite, holy, the personification of all the highest virtues. To accuse this Deity of the slightest moral flaw would be blasphemy. Now, without going so far down as the lowest savages, let us see what conception such barbarians as the Polynesians have of their gods. The moral habits of some of them are indicated by their names—The Rioter, The Adulterer, Ndauthina, who steals women of rank or beauty by night or by torchlight, The Human-brain Eater, The Murderer. Others of their gods are "proud, envious, covetous, revengeful, and the

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