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Why You Might Want to Toss Out Your Trophies

If mementos of personal triumphs are starting to make you feel like a has-been, you might be better off without them.
Source: Illustration by Jan Buchczik

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From time to time, I visit a friend who has been enormously successful in business. He has an office in New York City that is decorated top to bottom with memorabilia of his many achievements. On the wall are framed magazine covers with his smiling face—CEO of the Year! On the bookshelves are dozens of knickknacks engraved with the dates of when he bought or sold a company.

His office is like a shrine to past glories, and an obvious source of pride. Recently, however, he surprised me by saying he plans to get rid of all of these trophies. I asked why, and he told me that his business has struggled of late, and the trophies are only making his troubles seem worse. “I feel as if they’re mocking me.”

This phenomenon has been called the “Ozymandias on its base: “My name is Ozymandias, King of Kings; / Look on my Works, ye Mighty, and despair!”

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