Help! Self-pleasure leaves me guilty
Q I love sex with my man – he’s not my first partner by any means, and I’ve loved sex with all of them. But when it comes to bringing myself off, I’m just not into it. I do get aroused, but it just doesn’t feel right doing it to myself. Yet from everything I read, all the other women in the world are at it. Am I missing out on pleasure because I’m too uptight?
SUSAN SAYS
From what you say, you’re not missing out on pleasure at all – and you’re not uptight. You’re simply having great sex in the way you want –