For many older folks, LGBTQ+ young people have it better than they ever could have imagined — communication to other queers at their fingertips, enshrined rights, increased visibility. But maybe those advances came at a price; one being paid by these same young people, now navigating a world where anti-LGBTQ+ hostility feels more threatening than ever. In this country, specifically, a right-wing Supreme Court stripped away federal abortion rights, while justices on that bench have threatened to reverse LGBTQ+ progress. On the state level, trans youth have become convenient scapegoats for Republicans ravenous for victories. Yet, even with all the darkness, so many LGBTQ+ young people refuse to hide their identities, cater to intolerance, or shrink away from the challenges of the day. They are not waiting for the world to change; they’re changing it. Meet 30 of these inspiring heroes on the following pages.
Zaya Wade
(she/her), 16
@zayawade
Zaya Wade just celebrated her sixteenth birthday in May — and she’s already become a successful model, avid activist, and cultural icon. Zaya was first thrust into the spotlight when she came out as transgender at the age of 12. Her father, former professional basketball player Dwayne Wade, and stepmother, actress Gabrielle Union, have since shown enormous support for their daughter and become vocal allies for queer and trans youth.
As far as modeling, Zaya’s proving to be a shining star in the fashion world. She made her runway debut this March at Miu Miu’s spring 2023 show and graced the spring cover of Dazed magazine.
“My relationship with fashion has really evolved over the years,” she told Dazed. “It started out as, ‘Oh, my parents are super fashionable, and I want to dress up and be as fashionable as them.’ But, as time has passed and I’ve become more integrated into the fashion world, it’s become a really important part of expressing myself and my identity. Whether I’m wearing a dress for winter formal or wearing a suit for a shoot, it’s just a way to level up my iconic-ness, I feel.”
Zaya said she feels most empowered when “my family surrounds me,” and noted how crucial that support is to LGBTQ+ young people. “They are such a giant support system and have always been there for me. No matter what happens, I feel strongest when I’m with them.”
She also shared a message to young people who may be struggling with things like identity and finding your place in the world: “I would say to protect your peace. Discovering that part of yourself and then having the courage to share it is stressful in itself. It’s a lot of stress, pressure and tension…. You deserve a moment — multiple moments — to step back and take some time to sit with yourself…and just escape negativity as much as you can.”
Desmond Napoles
(they/them/he/she), 15
@desmondisamazing
At 15, the amazing Desmond Napoles has accomplished more than many people will within their lifetime. The activist, author, model, and “drag kid” is also now a budding clothing designer. They published their first book, Be Amazing: A History of Pride, at 12 years old, have walked numerous fashion runways, is a popular public speaker, and now is developing their own clothing brand called Be Amazing NYC.
“I’ve already achieved a lot, which feels pretty awesome,” says Napoles. “But I’ve also got big dreams and goals for the future that I’m super excited about. One thing I really want to do is continue working on my advocacy. It’s important to me to keep using my platform to raise awareness about issues that affect the LGBTQ+ community. I want to make a real difference and promote inclusivity and acceptance wherever I can.”
Regarding their interest in fashion, Naploes says, “I want to keep designing and curating awesome collections that celebrate diversity, inclusivity, and body positivity. I want people to feel amazing and confident in what they wear, while also breaking down society’s expectations and gender norms. It’s all about expressing yourself and being proud of who you are!”
They also say that one of their biggest dreams is to “host a monthly talent show specifically for LGBTQ+ youth in New York City.”
As someone who has experienced online abuse firsthand, Napoles is also committed to protecting other LGBTQ+ youth from such things, and even recently received a grant to start an online project for LGBTQ+ kids and young adults. “I’ve noticed how much hate and abuse LGBTQ+ teens face online, and it breaks my heart,” they say. “I’m determined to create online communities where we can all connect and support each other.”
Napoles also has a message for young people whose mental health may be affected by the current political climate: “The current anti-LGBTQ+ legislation happening around the country can undoubtedly be disheartening and make you question your worth and place in the world. But please remember, you are valid, you are loved, and you have a community that supports you.”
“Embrace your identity, surround yourself with love and support, and continue to fight for a world that celebrates and uplifts the LGBTQ+ community,” they add. “Stay strong, and remember that you are worthy of love, acceptance, and happiness.”
Bella Ramsey
(they/them), 19
@bellaramsey
At just 19 years old, Bella Ramsey has taken the entertainment world by storm.
The nonbinary actor first made waves playing Lyanna Mormont in HBO’s Game of Thrones. But this year, their role in The Last of Us raised them to dazzling new heights.
Ramsey’s fierce, stirring performance as queer heroine Ellie brought them accolades, critical acclaim, and thousands of new fans. Together, Ramsey and costar Pedro Pascal became the internet’s favorite pair, and the two won Best Duo at this year’s MTV Movie & TV Awards.
