The issue of how to discipline and what works most effectively is a big worry for many parents, so we've made it simple for you using four basic approaches: avoid the bad behaviour with proactive strategies, reward good behaviour, ignore minor infringements and divert your toddler's attention.
AVOID
When it comes to toddler tantrums and bad behaviour, first prize is avoiding them altogether.
Of course you can't always do that, but you can minimise the possibility of a meltdown with these! simple strategies:
■ COVER THE BASICS A well-fed, well-rested child is less likely to get out of control than a hungry, tired one. Structure and a predictable routine are the first steps to avoiding discipline problems.
If you are calm and clear about boundaries, your toddler will know where she stands. Whether she's 3 or 13, every child needs to know what is expected of her, what is acceptable behaviour, and what the consequences are for crossing the line. Don't say “No” and then be
