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Entrainments of Heart: The Stitch Work of Community

Entrainments of Heart: The Stitch Work of Community by Mark Nepo. Photograph of stitched blanking hanging on wall by Wael Lakhnifri

An exploration of community and the connections that nurtures our souls across beliefs, cultures, borders and religions.

There is one soul and many tongues, one spirit and various sounds; every country has its own speech, but the subjects of speech are common to all.

Tertullian, c. 217

In creating any kind of community, it’s important to recognize that we at heart are the same and connected under all our differences. This fundamental view of life as interconnected and interdependent affects how we educate and govern. In every age, seeking truth and meeting trouble bring us together and make our underlying connections visible. In 1838, James Fenimore Cooper argued that a free community is based on “the necessity of speaking truth, when speaking at all; [and] a contempt for all designing evasions of our real opinions.” 

Yet there’s a difference between telling the truth and experiencing the truth. 

When we open our heart to concerns beyond our own, we start to experience the truth we’re all a part of.This opening to concerns other than our own is the stitch work of community. I saw this quote from Martin Luther King, Jr. painted on

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