Fifty-one years ago, to be exact. I met a blond angel at a health food store on the Upper West Side. The angel smiled at me. I smiled back. She was a dancer, a soloist at George Balanchine's New York City Ballet. She was startled when I recognized her stage name, Deborah Flomine. She was even more startled when I talked about my favorite dancers—Allegra Kent, Jacques d'Amboise, Eddie Villella, and Patricia McBride, all of whom she'd danced with at Lincoln Center and other venues around the world when the company went on tour.
You weren't supposed to meet a stranger at a health food store who could examine one of Balanchine's ballets with all the incandescence of an x-ray machine. I was Debbie's dark angel, I suppose. I must have reminded her of Nureyev, with my high cheekbones. We fell in love. Eventually we moved in together, into an apartment