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The Bizarre Relationship of a ‘Work Wife’ and a ‘Work Husband’

The work marriage is a strange response to our anxieties about mixed-gender friendships, heightened by the norms of a professional environment.
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It started out as a fairly typical office friendship: You ate lunch together and joked around during breaks. Maybe you bonded over a shared affinity for escape rooms (or board games or birding or some other weird hobby). Over time, you became fluent in the nuances of each other’s workplace beefs. By now, you vent to each other so regularly that the routine frustrations of professional life have spawned a carousel of inside jokes that leavens the day-to-day. You chat about your lives outside work too. But a lot of times, you don’t have to talk at all; if you need

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