ou might imagine that when really big things happen in your life, you’d be prompted to make big changes. Think about a movie where someone gets left at the altar on their wedding day. They normally make some astronomical change and find a new (and usually very different) path. And sometimes this is what people do. But for most people, they get stuck and they struggle to make decisions. They begin to put things off, wait for a guarantee or for a sign that things are going to be okay. And then they wait for another one and time
