HOW CAN I GET RID OF THE GUILT?
Q My husband died recently and although part of me loved him, part of me also hated him because he was abusive and tried to control my life. I feel relieved and almost happy, but I also feel so guilty that I’m not crying. Or rather, I find that when I do cry it’s with relief that he’s no longer here to abuse me.
We were married for 20 years and I kept thinking I’d leave him but we have two children. They’re now grown up and have their