The Trait That ‘Super Friends’ Have in Common
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For many of us, making friends as an adult is intimidating, and sometimes embarrassing or a bit baffling. But we all know those people who appear to be naturals: They balance bustling social calendars, glide easily into conversations with strangers, and seem to get invited to everybody’s wedding. Research shows that these super friends, as I like to call them, really exist: Not only are they better at initiating new friendships, but they also view their friendships as closer and more enduring.
Super friends tend to have one quality in common—one that allows them to flourish outside of their relationships too. Studies find that people with this trait have ; they’re more , more , and less . Research suggests that they feel less ; that during typically , like math tests or public-speaking engagements, they keep calm; and that they are to have physical ailments.
