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How can I learn to stand up to my domineering in-laws?

I am a 48-year-old woman, and it recently occurred to me, like a bolt of lightning, that I’m unable to be assertive. I’ve just come back emotionally drained (again) from a weekend with my in-laws, having spent the entire time keeping a lid on my feelings in the interests of everyone getting on.

There are so many times when I just keep quiet to avoid

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