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    WHY WE MUST LOOK AT GRIEF

    Apr 16, 2022 4 minutes
    BY REBECCA SOFFER

    “WOW, I JUST CAN’T imagine.” That’s what people emailed, texted, and uttered after my parents died. They couldn’t imagine losing a mother to a violent car accident or a father, a mere four years later, to a heart attack in the middle of the night while he was traveling abroad. I was 34 and felt truly alone, and while talking to someone about my grief would have helped immeasurably, “I can’t imagine” felt like the opposite of an invitation—it felt like a warning. Don’t even try to share, I won’t get it. But if my grief was too hard for me, and it was too hard for others, what was I supposed to do with it?

    “I can’t imagine.” Families and individuals

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