The experts
I miss our sex life
Q My husband passed away due to COVID in spring this year, so this is my first Christmas alone. I miss him so much – his friendship, his company, his affection – and I miss our lovemaking. I’m due to spend Christmas with my lovely daughter and her fiancé. But I’m starting to realise that I’m going to get upset when I see their obvious physical affection. It’s so embarrassing, and I don’t want to stop them being affectionate with each other just because of me. How can I stop myself from feeling like this?
SUSAN SAYS
A I think it’s moving, rather than embarrassing, that you miss making
