destination: bachelorette

So all the bachelorette parties you’ve been to have looked vaguely familiar: a boozy night at the local bar, squealing women, X-rated party accessories and maybe a pink “bride-to-be” sash. Guess what? You don’t have to do the same thing. Instead, think big. Taste tequila in Cabo or totally zone out at a spa in Miami. What you do and where you do it are up for discussion. That’s why we’ve rounded up five fabulous destinations and created two separate itineraries for each. Take a look, jot down some notes and then pass this guide along to your best gal pals because—and here’s the best part—this is one detail of the wedding you don’t have to plan from top to bottom.

why you should go

When it comes to the best in nightlife and spas, New York City hits the mark. Not to mention, heading to “the city that never sleeps” means you can make every minute count. This is the rare