Nolo's Essential Guide to Buying Your First Home
By Ilona Bray and Ann O'Connell
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There’s no place like home!
Ready to say goodbye to your landlord? With help from Nolo’s Essential Guide to Buying Your First Home, you’ll not only find the right house for you, you’ll have fun doing it.
Learn how to:
- research the local market and listings
- choose a house, condo, co-op, or townhouse
- create a realistic budget
- qualify for a loan you can truly afford
- borrow a down payment from friends or family
- protect yourself with inspections and insurance, and
- negotiate and close the deal successfully.
Ilona Bray
Ilona Bray is an author and legal editor at Nolo, specializing in real estate, immigration law, and nonprofit fundraising. She is coauthor of Becoming a U.S. Citizen, U.S. Immigration Made Easy, Nolo's Essential Guide to Buying Your First Home and numerous other top selling books. Bray's working background includes solo practice, nonprofit, and corporate stints, as well as long periods of volunteering, including an internship at Amnesty International's main legal office in London. She received her law degree and a Masters degree in East Asian (Chinese) Studies from the University of Washington.
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Reviews for Nolo's Essential Guide to Buying Your First Home
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Jul 8, 2014
We're planning on buying a house next year, so I got this book from the library so I could get a head start on knowing what's involved and what we'll be getting ourselves into. After reading it, I feel so much less overwhelmed by the idea, and much more informed about the whole process - I can't even begin to say how much I learned from this book. I'd recommend it in a heartbeat to anyone thinking about buying a house, and I'll definitely be purchasing my own copy of the new edition when it comes out in January. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Jan 23, 2012
I read this book before buying my first home and found it generally useful in understanding the process and legal aspects of home ownership. If you've already bought homes before, this is probably a good reminder of the process if it's been a while. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Jun 25, 2011
I was really excited to see this offered as a LibraryThing Early Reviewer option since I have begun to consider the possibility of buying a house, but have felt at a complete loss of where to start. Then, after I won it and received the book, I put off starting it feeling a little intimidated and afraid that it might be boring and difficult.
Nothing could be further from the truth. While some parts certainly interested me more than others, the writing was accessible and the explanations clear. Two of the authors are lawyers, and they do a good job of explaining general law in layman's terms, even while stressing differences by state. Of course, since the subject matter is so broad, no one chapter can cover every option or every situation; furthermore, since laws are different from state to state, there are going to be individual differences. But this book lays excellent general groundwork for the ins and outs of home buying. The authors primarily focus on the purchase of a single-family home, though from time to time special situations like a new home from a developer or a co-op is considered. Each chapter introduces one aspect of purchasing a house, such as creating your wishlist, how to assemble your "team" (real estate agent, attorney, mortgage broker, etc.) and what each of them do, and how to finance your purchase. What could become dry facts and figures is broken up by real life stories, tips, worksheets (there are a few short examples in the text, with directions to look at the complete one on the CD-ROM included), and more. I especially enjoyed the "Best Thing We Ever Did" features in which something that could have been abstract, like getting a home inspection, translated into something practical by showing how someone truly benefited from it.
As a result of reading, I'm feeling more comfortable understanding such things as what a mortgage broker does, and what I might need to do to see if I'm in a position to buy now or later. I will be able to ask more intelligent questions and not feel completely lost. Though the earlier chapters have much more relevance to my current situation, I'm sure that I will refer to the book as I come closer to truly be in a position to buy. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Mar 27, 2011
I am in the middle of home buying when I received this book, including mortgages, looking for a home, etc. I'm at the stage where I just have to find one...
Anyway, I paged through this book. The advice was solid, the writing easy to understand. I think this is an excellent book for first time home buyers. And it spurred me into really pursuing a house (I'm a bit scared about buying a home...)
Highly Recommended. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Feb 20, 2011
Nolo’s Essential Guide for Buying Your First home was extremely helpful. I did not know where to begin
that was accessible. Overall it will make my first home buying experience much easier.
attention many things I would not have thought to look for. It was user friendly with language
and it gave guidelines, forms, and the pros and cons of different options. It also brought to - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Feb 14, 2011
This isn't the type of book that you would sit down and read cover to cover. When buying a house there are scenarios that are not applicable and can be perused and other areas in which one would read completely for full comprehension. Since my husband and I are looking into buying hopefully within the next year we found the book to be very useful and easy to understand. It is basically a step by step guide for those who know very little about buying a home. It would be the ideal reference book if you are just starting out.
The only criticism we had on the book was that it didn't go into the types of mortgages as deeply as it could have. That being said- it is well worth a starter read and to keep on hand for reference as well as the toolkit of forms and worksheets. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Feb 2, 2011
I picked this book out of the early review offerings because I was about to get my permanent residency in the USA. My green card and this book arrived at my apartment in the same week, and I've been happy with both. I've always resisted buying a house (not wanting to be tied down), but recent conversations have convinced me that it's not an iron chain. This book is continuing the reassurances, and demystifying the process. The language is plain and easy to understand, many experts were consulted on the various steps of home buying, it's very logically ordered, and it has very useful lists of questions to ask of the people with whom you'll work on your house purchase. It comes with a CD filled with forms and extra material as well. My only quibble is that they don't go into a lot of specific details regarding the differences in the process between states, that would have made for some perfect footnotes. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Jan 26, 2011
I requested this book because I hope to be able to make use of it in the next couple of years, and found it to be a useful tool. It's filled with instructions for every stage of buying a house from deciding if it would be a worthwhile purchase to rebuilding your finances afterward, along with sample forms, worksheets, and interview questions for the various professionals you deal with when buying a house. These are duplicated on the included CD. The tone is lightened with sidebars such as real-estate fiction and house themed music with which to celebrate your purchase. I'm sure this book will make the process much easier when the time comes. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Dec 15, 2010
This is the sort of book you dip into, not the sort of book you read straight through, but it's still well worth the money. Some of the material at the beginning of the book (about figuring out how much house you can afford) was too basic and simplistic for me, but I suppose in a book like this it's better to be overly simplistic than to assume your readers know anything.
We found the "questions to ask a buyer's agent / home inspector / mortgage lender" to be extremely useful, as well as the explanation of all the complicated terminology and the many steps in the process. The little "smartest thing we ever did" anecdotes were amusing -- especially because they frequently contradicted each other, emphasizing that every home purchase is different.
My wife and I selected this book out of the shelf of homebuying books because it was recent (post-bubble) and because it specifically mentions domestic partners in several places. (The hypothetical homebuyers in the little explanatory bits include same-sex couples and single people, which was a nice touch -- it's nice to not have to see George and Mary over and over and over again as the people everyone is supposed to identify with!) - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Dec 9, 2008
It was really informative and easy to read. It also didn't get overly complicated like many help books can be. It helped me to think about a few things I never would have thought of. I would recommend it to anyone going through the process.
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Acknowledgments
This book was a 100% team effort and couldn’t have been written without the advice, stories, and ideas of real estate experts and homebuyers from around the United States. First and foremost, we thank the members of our advisory board, who spent countless hours reviewing chapters, explaining local practices, and sharing the best and worst memories from their professional experiences.
Special thanks to Attorney Alayna Schroeder and Marcia Stewart, two of the original coauthors, for helping make this a book that would see many future editions.
Our other invaluable sages included:
Sydney W. Andrews, owner of the mortgage company Loanenvy.com and licensed real estate broker
Amy Bach, J.D., consumer advocate and executive director and cofounder of United Policyholders, a national nonprofit based in San Francisco, California
Timothy Burke, founder and CEO of National Family Mortgage based in Waltham, Massachusetts
Rona Fischman, owner of 4Buyers Real Estate in Massachusetts and founder of the National Association of Exclusive Buyer Agents (NAEBA)
Sandy Gadow, expert on real estate closing and escrow, and bestselling author of The Complete Guide to Your Real Estate Closing
Paul Grucza, retired director of education and client engagement at The CWD Group, Inc. AAMC® in Seattle, Washington
Sylvia M. Gutiérrez, loan officer in the South Florida market and author of Mortgage Matters: Demystifying the Loan Approval Maze
Colette Herwitt, associate broker and Realtor at Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Rocky Mountain, REALTORS® in Boulder, Colorado
Rob Jensen, broker/president of Rob Jensen Company, a Las Vegas brokerage
Greg Nino, associate Realtor at RE/MAX Compass in Houston, Texas
Zixian Qi, New York–based attorney representing homebuyers and sellers
Lisa Shaffer, former loan adviser in Alamo, California
Uli Sommers, an American Society of Home Inspectors (ASHI) certified home inspector and founder of Sommers Home Inspections, LLC, and
Daniel Stea, broker/owner/attorney at Stea Realty Group in Berkeley, California.
A number of other experts provided additional advice—you’ll see many of them quoted in this book. They include now-retired real estate broker Nancy Atwood in Framingham, Massachusetts; Alicia Champagne, real estate attorney and Realtor education teacher in Wilmington, Massachusetts; Debbie Ostrow Essex, child and family therapist based in Berkeley, California; Stephen Fishman, attorney and Nolo author; Kenneth Goldstein, Boston-area attorney with the law firm of Goldstein & Herndon, LLP; Joanna Hirsch, real estate agent with The Grubb Co. in Montclair, California; Joel Kinney, attorney in Boston, Massachusetts; Richard Leshnower, New York–based attorney; Frank Lesh, home inspector; Paul MacLean, retired home inspector in Austin, Texas; Ken McCoy, mortgage banker with Petaluma Home Loans; Mark Nash, Illinois Realtor; Carol Neil, retired Realtor; Fiore Pignataro, Realtor in Seattle, Washington; Mary Randolph, attorney and author; Paul A. Rude, retired home inspector; Ira Serkes, Berkeley Realtor with Pacific Union; Bert Sperling, founder of BestPlaces.net; Debbie Stevens, Oregon real estate agent; and Tara Waggoner, a Texas Realtor.
No amount of advice can substitute for a personal story, so we’d also like to thank the many homebuyers who shared the good, the bad, and the ugly of their own experiences or told us what they’d like from this book, including Amy Blumenberg, Laurie Briggs, Dave and Danielle Burge, Karen Cabot, Linda Chou, Jennifer Cleary, Jaleh Doane, Phil Esra, Lisa Guerin, Gabrielle Hecht, Pat Jenkins, Ellie Kania, Justin and Tamara Kennerly, Chris and Libby Kurz, Talia Leyva, Willow Liroff, Meggan O’Connell, Evan and Tammy Ohs, Leny and Frank Riebli, Leah Scheibe, Diane Sherman, Bruce Sievers, Luan Stauss, Tom and Heather Tewksbury, Catherine Topping, Josh and Gillian Viers, Julie and Malachi Weng-Gutierrez, and Kyung Yu.
Big thanks to our colleagues within Nolo, who supported us through the (long) process of writing this comprehensive (and yet fun!) text. Kudos to Susan Putney in Nolo’s Production Department, who took a challenging compilation of information and turned it into a beautifully designed book.
Our basements might be cluttered, our gardens might need weeding, and our floors might need a good scrubbing—but we love our homes. Thanks to the people who helped us get there—professionals (some who taught us what to do, others who taught us what not to do!) and our families, who share the joy of homeownership with us.
About the Authors
Ilona Bray is an attorney, author, and legal editor at Nolo. She also coauthored Selling Your House: Nolo’s Essential Guide. Her working background includes solo practice, nonprofit, and corporate stints. She has bought and sold two houses in California, but recently moved cross-country into a cohousing community in a semirural area of New York state. Its focus is on shared resources and environmental sustainability. Her fantasy house would be a Greene & Greene mansion like the Gamble House in Pasadena, with a large sun porch and lots of surrounding trees. (Plus solar panels.)
Ann O’Connell is an attorney, real estate broker, and legal editor at Nolo. She’s a sucker for punishment, having passed bar exams in three states and the real estate broker exam in Colorado. Ann is a California native who bought her first house at the height of the real estate boom, only to become one of the first people she knew to not make barrels of money from Bay Area real estate. She now lives in Colorado. Her dream house is somewhere on a swimmable lake. Through her own experiences or by helping others buy, sell, and litigate, she’s seen it all: pulled-up survey pins, tenants who won’t leave, strange things people keep in their garages, and—best of all—cabins with more moose than people for neighbors.
The most complete homebuying book you will find…doesn’t leave out any of the essentials. On my scale of 1 to 10, this superb book rates an off-the-chart 12.
—Robert Bruss, syndicated real estate columnist
Coming from a gal that knows tools, this book is a must-have tool for any homebuyer. It offers so much essential information, purchasing a home without it would be like trying to drive a nail without a hammer!
—Norma Vally, host of Toolbelt Diva (Discovery Home) and author of Chix Can Fix: 100 Home Improvement Projects and True Tales From the Diva of Do-It-Yourself
Any first-time homebuyer owes it to him- or herself to get this book. It’s packed with information you won’t find anywhere else, yet is remarkably accessible, even when covering complex financial issues.
—Elisabeth DeMarse, CEO, Creditcards.com, former CEO, Bankrate.com
Enthusiasm, hints and tips all rolled into a great read for first-timers.
—Pat Lashinsky, president of ZipRealty
Provides in-depth insight and helpful advice that is easy to understand and use.
—Rob Paterkiewicz, CAE, IOM, executive director, American Society of Home Inspectors
Like having over a dozen real estate experts over for dinner.
—Steve Kropper, president, Bank on Real Estate, founder of Domania.com
Nolo’s excellent guide for novice homebuyers provides fresh, updated information about the whole process that even those in the know will find useful.
—Library Journal
Table of Contents
Your Homebuying Companion
1What’s So Great About Buying a House?
Investment Value: Get What You Pay For … And Then Some
Tax Breaks: Benefits From Uncle Sam
Personality and Pizzazz: Your Home Is Your Castle
No More Landlord Hassles
You Can Do It … If You Want To
2What Do You Want? Figuring Out Your Homebuying Needs
Know Your Ideal Neighborhood: Why Location Matters
Know Yourself: How Your Lifestyle, Plans, and Values Affect Your House Priorities
Know Your Ideal House: Old Bungalows, New Condos, and More
Would You Like Land With That? Single-Family Houses
Sharing the Joy, Sharing the Pain: Condos and Other Common Interest Properties
Factory Made: Modular and Manufactured Homes
Putting It All Together: Your Dream List
3Does This Mean I Have to Balance My Checkbook? Figuring Out What You Can Afford
Beyond the Purchase Price: The Costs of Buying and Owning a Home
Spend Much? How Lenders Use Your Debt-to-Income Ratio
Blasts From the Past: How Your Credit History Factors In
What’s Your Monthly Budget? Understanding Your Finances
Getting Creative: Tips for Overcoming Financial Roadblocks
The Power of Paper: Getting Preapproved for a Loan
4Stepping Out: What’s on the Market and at What Price
What’s the Buzz? Checking Out Neighborhoods From Your Chair
See for Yourself: Driving Through Neighborhoods
On Foot: Talking to the Natives
Sunrise, Sunset: Getting Day and Night Perspectives
Got Houses? Finding Out What’s Locally Available
How Much Did That One Go For? Researching Comparable
Sales
Hot or Cold? Take the Market’s Temp
Just Looking: The Open House Tour
Nothing to Look at Yet? Finding Your Dream Development
5Select Your Players: The Real Estate Team
Your Team Captain: The Real Estate Agent
Your Cash Cow: The Loan Officer, Mortgage Broker, or Mortgage Banker
Your Fine-Print Reader: The Real Estate Attorney
Your Sharp Eye: The Property Inspector
Your Big Picture Planner: The Closing Agent
Strength in Numbers: Other Team Members
6Bring Home the Bacon: Getting a Mortgage
Let’s Talk Terms: The Basics of Mortgage Financing
Who’s Got the Cash? Where to Get a Mortgage
Narrowing the Field: Which Type of Mortgage Is Best for You?
Getting Your Cash Together: Common Down Payment and Financing Strategies
Where Do I Look? Researching Mortgages
I’ll Take That One! Applying for Your Loan
New-Home Financing
Unique Financial Considerations for Co-op Buyers
7Mom and Dad? The Seller? Uncle Sam? Loan Alternatives
No Wrapping Required: Gift Money From Relatives or Friends
All in the Family: Loans From Relatives or Friends
A One-Person Bank: Seller Financing
Backed by Uncle Sam: Government-Assisted Loans
8I Love It! It’s Perfect! Looking for the Right House
How Your Agent Can Help
The Rumor Mill: Getting House Tips From Friends
Keeping Track of New Listings
Planning Ahead for House Visits
Come on In: What to Expect as You Enter
Do We Have a Match? Using Your Dream List
All the World’s Been Staged: Looking Past the Glitter
Recent Remodels: What to Watch Out For
Walk the Walk: Layout and Floor Plan
What Do They Know? Reviewing Seller Disclosure Reports
Reviewing the Seller’s Inspection Reports (If Any)
Poking Around: Doing Your Own Initial Inspection
Hey, Nice Dirt Pile! Choosing a Not-Yet-Built House
Buying a New or Old Condo or Co-op? Research the Community
Buying a House Sight Unseen
9Plan B: Fixer-Uppers, FSBOs, Foreclosures, and More
Castoffs: Searching for Overlooked Houses
Houses Not Yet on the Market
Look What’s Back on the Market!
A Foot in the Door: Buying a Starter House
Have It Your Way: Buying a Fixer-Upper or House You Can Add on To
Share Your Space: Buying Jointly
Subdivide Your Space: Renting Out a Room
Hey, Where’s Their Agent? Looking for FSBOs (For Sale by Owners)
Buying a Short Sale Property
Buying a Foreclosure Property
Buying a House in Probate
10 Show Them the Money: From Offer to Purchase Agreement
Start to Finish: Negotiating and Forming a Contract
More Than Words: What’s in the Standard Purchase Contract
Too Much? Not Enough? How Much to Offer
Keeping Your Exit Routes Open: Contingencies
Putting Your Money Where Your Mouth Is: The Earnest Money Deposit
Divvy It Up: Who Pays What Fees
Deal or No Deal: Picking an Expiration Date
Think Ahead: Closing Date
Strategies in a Cold Market: What to Ask For
Strategies in a Hot Market: Making Your Offer Stand Out
Contracting to Buy a Brand-New Home
11 Toward the Finish Line: Tasks Before Closing
Wrappin’ It Up: Removing Contingencies
Will It Really Be Yours? Getting Title Insurance
Yours, Mine, or Ours? What to Say on the Deed
Get Ready, ’Cause Here I Come: Preparing to Move
12 Send in the Big Guns: Professional Property Inspectors
Home Inspection Overview: What, When, and at What Cost?
House Calls: Your General Home Inspection
Tagging Along at Your General Home Inspection
Say What? Understanding Your General Home Inspection Report
Termite or Pest Inspections
When to Get Other, Specialized Inspections
Trouble in Paradise: Inspecting Newly Built Homes
13 Who’s Got Your Back? Homeowners’ Insurance and Home Warranties
Coverage for Your House
Damage Your Homeowners’ Insurance Won’t Cover
Protection for Others’ Injuries: Liability Insurance
Your Out-of-Pocket: Homeowners’ Insurance Costs
Insurance Deductibles
Shopping Around for Homeowners’ Insurance
Types of Insurance Companies
Jointly Owned, Jointly Insured: What Your Community Association Pays For
Home Warranties for Preowned Houses
Home Warranties for Newly Built Houses
14 Seal the Deal: Finalizing Your Homebuying Dreams
Preview of Coming Attractions: What Your Closing Will Involve
Is It Really Empty? Final Walk-Through of an Existing House
Is It Really Finished? Final Walk-Through of a New House
Your Last Tasks Before the Closing
The Drum Roll, Please: Attending the Closing
Closing Documents Related to Your Mortgage Loan
Closing Documents Related to Transferring the Property
Can I Move In? Taking Possession
Tell the World You’ve Moved
There’s a Place for It: Organize Your Records
Appendix
Accessing the Downloadable Homebuyer’s Toolkit Forms
Editing RTFs
List of Forms in the Homebuyer’s Toolkit
Index
Your Homebuying Companion
Buying your first house might be one of the most financially significant things you ever do. And no matter how ready you feel, taking a major step like this can make you want to just close your eyes and get it over with.
But if you’re going to invest your time and money, you want to make sure you don’t find just any house—you want to find the right house, at the right price, with the right loan. A house you’re happy to stay in for a long time, no matter what the market does. To do that, you need more information than for practically any other type of purchase.
This book is full of nuts-and-bolts information about the homebuying process. But it’s also got anecdotes and advice that we hope will remind you to enjoy this exciting, if sometimes frustrating or nerve-racking, process. Keep in mind what you’re aiming for: your own home, where you’re free to pound nails in the wall, get a cat, or paint your bedroom any color you want, without asking the landlord!
By the time you’ve read the key information here, you’ll truly be ready. We’ll show you how to:
choose the appropriate house in the best possible neighborhood, whether it’s an old bungalow on a tree-lined street, a condo in the city center, or a custom-built home in a new development
narrow in on a realistic price range based on your budget and strategize ways to afford more
select from a variety of financing options, from a 30-year fixed rate mortgage to a private loan from a relative or friend
pick a great real estate agent, mortgage broker or loan officer, home inspector, and other professionals
negotiate and sign a purchase agreement (find out what’s important in all that fine print)
wrap up your financing, get inspections, and take care of other last tasks, and finally
close the deal, arrange your move, and settle into your new home.
You’re going to benefit from the expertise of a team of 14 advisers from around the country who have contributed to this book and provided the kinds of insights you usually get only in personal conversations. For instance, you’ll meet a mortgage broker who explains why you should not let rejection by one lender stop you from trying another, a real estate agent who explains why writing an offer on a house that’s already in escrow can put you in a strategic #2 position, a closing expert with straightforward advice on why you should care about things like easements and title insurance, and a lawyer who suggests how to successfully bind the sellers to moving forward with the deal.
With this book comes access to supplementary electronic materials on Nolo’s website. There you’ll find a Homebuyer’s Toolkit with more than two dozen checklists and letters to help keep you organized and on track during every stage of the process. Whether it’s a Dream List
that prompts you to set out your priorities, checklists to carry when you tour a house or condo, or a set of interview questions for potential real estate agents, you’ll find it there.
The authors of this book, Ilona and Ann, bring not only years of legal and real estate expertise, but also different first-time homebuying perspectives of our own. Ilona bought her first home with the help of family members and got probably the lowest mortgage payment on the block in one of the city’s up-and-coming neighborhoods—then resold at a profit 10 years later. Ann’s first homebuying experience was nearly the opposite of Ilona’s: She bought her first home in a hot market, then sold it just over a year later during a rapidly cooling market.
Our varied experiences help us understand that everyone has different objectives and special challenges when buying for the first time. You might just be looking for a place—any place—to get started, you might want the challenge of a fixer-upper, or you might need the convenience of a low-maintenance condo. We know that you might be doing this alone, with your spouse or partner, or even with a friend. No matter who you are or what your goals and objectives might be, we hope you recognize yourself in some of the stories and experiences reflected in this book.
So hang on tight—to this book, that is. It will be your companion, providing advice, information, and inspiration all along the path to your new front door.
Get Worksheets and More at This Book’s Companion Page on Nolo.com
You can download the worksheets, checklists, and letters included in this book on a dedicated companion page at:
www.nolo.com/back-of-book/HTBH.html
For a complete list of the forms included, see the Appendix.
CHAPTER
1
What’s So Great About Buying a House?
Investment Value: Get What You Pay For … And Then Some
Leverage
Equity, Baby
It Beats Paying Rent
You Can Live in Your Investment
You Can Borrow on Your Investment
My, You’re Looking Creditworthy!
That House Is Yours
Tax Breaks: Benefits From Uncle Sam
Tax Credits
Will You Itemize Your Deductions?
Mortgage Interest Deduction
Other Tax-Deductible Expenses
Capital Gains Tax Relief When You Sell
Personality and Pizzazz: Your Home Is Your Castle
No More Landlord Hassles
You Can Do It … If You Want To
But … I Like Renting
But … I Can’t Afford It
But … I’m Single
But … It’s Too Much Responsibility!
But … Maybe Prices Will Go Down!
But … I’m Still Scared!
Picking up a book on homebuying for some light reading? We’re guessing not. If you’re reading this, you’re probably seriously interested in buying a house. But before we launch into how, let’s explore why—just in case you’ve got any lingering doubts about whether it’s a good idea. This chapter will preview some of the primary financial and personal benefits to buying a home, then talk about some common myths and fears.
Buy my first home. Although Leah was happy with her rental place, she says, I wanted a place that I could call my own, with a backyard for my cats and space for an office so I could work at home full time. After three weeks of looking, I found it! And after a year, some of the best parts of homeownership are things I wasn’t even expecting—like having already gotten to know more neighbors than I did during a whole six years in my apartment. Plus, although I’ve never thought of myself as domestic, I’ve had a surge of interest in decorating—I put up Roman blinds, have been picking out paint colors, and just bought my first Christmas tree!
Investment Value: Get What You Pay For … And Then Some
You’ve probably heard people talk about real estate as a great investment. But what exactly do you get out of the deal? Well, a few things: You’ll build equity instead of spending cash on rent, you’ll gain immediate benefits (a place to live!), and you’ll eventually have full ownership of an asset that—at least over the long term—has a good chance of appreciating in value.
Leverage
Buying a home is one of those rare instances where you can control a very large and potentially appreciating asset with a comparatively small initial cash investment (your down payment). Better yet, notes adviser Daniel Stea, You’re using the proverbial ‘OPM’ (other people’s money) for the balance of the investment. Yet you get to enjoy the appreciation on the full value of the investment, not just your cash component. It almost doesn’t seem right!
Equity, Baby
Over time, as you patiently pay your mortgage bills, two things might start happening—your principal loan balance will go down, and the house’s market value might go up. Both of these mean that you’re accruing equity. Equity is the difference between the market value of a house (what it’s currently worth) and the claims against it (what you have left to pay on any mortgages or loans you’ve taken out against it). You’d be hard-pressed to find another investment where you can borrow a large amount of money, pay a modest interest rate, and reap every bit of the gain yourself.
EXAMPLE: Hugo buys a home for $300,000 with a $60,000 down payment (20%) and a $240,000 mortgage. If the market value of the house is $300,000, Hugo’s current equity in the home is $60,000 (market value minus mortgage debt). A few years later, Hugo has reduced the principal on the mortgage by $5,000, to $235,000. Meanwhile, the house’s value has risen to $310,000. Hugo now has $75,000 in equity ($310,000 minus $235,000). That’s $15,000 more than he originally invested.
Of course, the value of a property doesn’t always increase: It can also decrease, sometimes dramatically. Fortunately, houses rarely drop in value permanently. And after some precipitous value drops in the early 2000s, home appreciation in 2023 averaged a respectable 5.5%, according to the S&P/CoreLogic Case-Shiller U.S. National Home Price indexes.
It Beats Paying Rent
A good chunk of the money you’ll use to finance your home is money you’re probably already spending on rent. When you buy a house, your rent money becomes investment money.
You Can Live in Your Investment
Some people like to call a mortgage a forced savings plan, because it makes you sock a little cash away every month in the form of a mortgage payment—money you will, with any luck, get back when you sell the place. On the other hand, you might call it a smart investment plan, because it gives you both a roof over your head and a way to convert your cash into a potentially appreciating asset.
You Can Borrow on Your Investment
Eventually, as your equity in your home builds, you can borrow against it, using a home equity loan (HEL) or a HELOC (home equity line of credit). These are also commonly referred to as second mortgages.
The interest rates on these tend to be higher than on primary mortgages, but lower than on the typical credit card. The money borrowed can be used for any number of purposes, such as home improvements, college tuition, or a car.
Of course, there are risks—if you default and your house goes into foreclosure, the lender is second in line to be paid from the proceeds of the sale of your house, after the primary mortgage holder.
My, You’re Looking Creditworthy!
We hear so much about people who ruined their credit score by getting foreclosed on that it’s hard to remember the reverse side of the picture: A mortgage is seen as good debt.
When you successfully pay it down, credit-reporting companies view that as a sign that you’re responsible and able to handle a large loan.
This can do wonders for your credit rating,
says adviser Daniel Stea. It makes you a much better credit risk (statistically speaking), which becomes especially useful if you decide to apply for an auto loan, a small-business loan, a student loan for your kid’s college tuition, and so on.
That House Is Yours
One benefit to buying a house is kind of obvious … you’re becoming a homeowner. If you were to keep renting the same place you’re in now for 50 years, at the end of that time you’ll still have to pay monthly rent checks to your landlord. But as a homeowner, when the loan is paid off, you won’t have to pay for a place to live (though you’ll still have to pay taxes, utilities, maintenance, and any homeowners’ association fees).
Tax Breaks: Benefits From Uncle Sam
You’ll get to claim various federal tax deductions and credits for home-related expenses. For some, these can add up to some serious savings.
Tax Deductions vs. Tax Credits
Be careful not to confuse a tax deduction with a tax credit. A tax deduction is an amount that taxpayers who don’t take the standard deduction, but instead itemize
their deductions, subtract from their gross income (all the money earned during the year) to figure out how much of their income is subject to tax. For example, if your gross income is $80,000, and you qualify for a $2,000 tax deduction (and you elect not to take the standard deduction of $14,600 for single filers in 2024), your taxable income is reduced to $78,000. Read Will You Itemize Your Deductions?
later in this chapter to learn more.
A tax credit, by contrast, is a dollar-for-dollar reduction in your tax liability. If your taxable income is $80,000, and you qualify for a $2,000 tax credit, your taxable income is still $80,000, but you get to reduce the amount of tax you ultimately owe by $2,000.
Tax Credits
As a new homeowner, you might be entitled to certain tax credits:
Tax credit for first-time homebuyers. At the time this book went to print, all the tax credits for first-time homebuyers had expired. Some members of Congress are still trying to get a tax credit approved, but efforts appear to have stalled for now. Keep an eye on the news and www.irs.gov.
Tax credits for energy efficiency. Homeowners who install solar, geothermal, fuel cell, storage batteries, or wind systems to generate electricity, or in some cases hot water, are eligible for tax credits. It’s a 30% credit through 2032, then declines to 26% for 2033 and 22% for 2034.
Tax credit for energy-efficient home improvements. Homeowners can claim 30% of what they paid for home energy efficiency improvements, including exterior windows, skylights, and doors, home insulation, heat pumps, water heaters, central air conditioners, furnaces, hot water boilers, biomass stoves and boilers, electric panel upgrades, and home energy audits. The improvements must meet certain requirements and the amount of the credit is limited per year.
Tax credit for installing home electric vehicle charger. This lasts through 2032, though it applies only in low-income or non-urban census tracts. You can find out if your home is located in a qualifying census tract by searching online for 30C Tax Credit Eligibility Locator.
Taxpayers can claim such credits using IRS Form 5695, Residential Energy Credits. For more about the credit, as well as the latest information on eligibility and expiration dates, see EnergyStar.gov.
Will You Itemize Your Deductions?
To take advantage of house-related tax deductions, you’ll need to itemize your tax deductions, rather than take the standard deduction (for 2024 tax returns, $14,600 for individuals and $29,200 for marrieds filing jointly). For most people, homeowners included, taking the standard deduction is more beneficial. Run the numbers to see whether your itemized deductions exceed the standard deduction amount.
CHECK IT OUT
Go straight to the source. See IRS Publication 530, Tax Information for Homeowners, available at www.irs.gov. This publication will give you more detailed information about the tax benefits of buying a home.
TIP
Keep good records. If itemizing deductions is the right approach for you, be prepared to prove them to the IRS—all of them, not just the house-related ones. Keep a file of receipts for the more common deductions, such as unreimbursed business expenses (office equipment and travel), educational expenses (tuition and books), and unreimbursed medical expenses. Consider getting help—even the cost of meeting with a tax professional might be tax deductible!
Mortgage Interest Deduction
One of the biggest potential deductions from your taxable income, if you itemize, will be the interest you pay on your home mortgage. You may deduct the interest on up to $750,000 of mortgage debt, whether single or married filing jointly. (But it’s $375,000 for marrieds filing separately.) This deduction can be particularly advantageous during the first few years of a fixed rate mortgage, when most of your payment will be put toward interest. This $750,000 loan limit is scheduled to go up to a $1 million limit in 2025.
In the past, some home-owning families were able to fully deduct the cost of their mortgage insurance premiums (PMI). (PMI protects the lender’s investment if it needs to foreclose—lenders require borrowers to purchase PMI if their down payment is less than 20% of the purchase price.) Although the PMI deduction expired in 2017, Congress might someday renew it, which would make it possible for homeowners who itemize to again be able to use this deduction in the future. Check IRS.gov/ScheduleA for the latest information before you file your taxes.
Other Tax-Deductible Expenses
Taxpayers who itemize can also deduct certain other expenses from their taxable income, such as:
Property taxes. While the amount varies between states and localities, most people pay around 1% of the home’s value each year in state property tax. You can deduct from your federal taxable income up to $10,000 of what you pay collectively for state, local, and property taxes.
Points. Points are additional one-time (and usually optional) fees you pay to reduce your mortgage’s interest rate. They’re tax deductible in the year you pay them.
Interest on a home improvement loan. If you take out a loan to make improvements that increase your home’s value, prolong its life, or adapt its use—for example, by adding a deck or a new bathroom—you can deduct the interest on loans up to $750,000. But you can’t deduct interest on loans used to make normal repairs, such as repainting the kitchen or fixing a broken window, and definitely not if you take out a loan secured by your home for some unrelated purpose, such as medical bills.
Home office expenses. If you use part of your home exclusively and regularly for a home-based business, you might be able to deduct a portion of the related expenses—including the costs of some home repairs, or even things like landscaping if your home’s appearance will be important to visiting clients.
Capital Gains Tax Relief When You Sell
While it might be too soon for you to imagine selling your first home, another important benefit is available if and when you do. Thanks to the Taxpayer Relief Act of 1997, you don’t pay capital gains tax (usually 15%) on the first $250,000 you make when you sell. Double that exclusion to $500,000 if you’re married and filing jointly. If you co-own the place, each owner can take a $250,000 exclusion.
To qualify, you must (with a few exceptions) have lived in the home two out of the previous five years before selling and have used it as your primary residence. Many first-time buyers use this tax break to move from modest starter homes to roomier homes that cost more. Be sure to keep the receipts from all your home improvements while you live in the house—these expenses can increase your cost basis in the house, decreasing the amount that the IRS considers your (possibly taxable) gain when you sell.
Personality and Pizzazz: Your Home Is Your Castle
If you’ve always been a renter, you know the drill: Things stay the way they were when you moved in. White walls stay white, ugly carpeting stays ugly, and the funky bathroom light fixture stays funky.
When it’s your home, you get to make your mark. There’s just no way to quantify the psychological advantage of personalizing your space. Even people who’ve never taken an interest in home decorating, repair, or gardening find themselves hooked on the creativity and self-expression possible with home projects.
No More Landlord Hassles
Expressing your personality isn’t the only advantage to leaving rental living behind. Say goodbye to things like waiting around for things to get fixed, wondering whether the landlord will raise your rent or kick you out, and being surprised by landlords who stop by at their own convenience.
Even reasonable landlords who make prompt and thorough repairs and never raise the rent can pull surprises or sell the property. Owning your own house reduces the stress and uncertainty of renting. You’re in charge of when you move on, who comes in the front door, and when and what gets done to the place. While that means you’ve got some extra responsibilities, you’ve definitely got some extra security and benefits, too.
Make monthly payments to myself, not the landlord. At age 25, Talia had only toyed with the idea of buying a house—she’d thought that, despite her full-time job, it was financially impossible. But then her landlord raised the rent. Talia says, I looked into loan options—and to my surprise, I qualified. Within two months, I bought a converted first-floor apartment with a little patio, in a safe neighborhood. I love not having to share a washer and dryer with other people anymore. But even better is the feeling of independence of having my own place: Because I’m building equity, I like to think I’m making those mortgage checks to myself—and they’re not that much higher than my rent checks were.
You Can Do It … If You Want To
Are you still on the fence about homebuying? Some people just don’t feel ready to take the plunge. Below are a list of common "I can’t do it because …" excuses. Don’t get us wrong: Not every excuse is a bad excuse. You just need to know whether yours are based on solid facts rather than plain old fear.
But … I Like Renting
Maybe you’re thinking, I really love my apartment or I’m getting such a good deal. But even if your current rent seems cheap, cheap is never as good as free. Yes, we’re aware that buying a house isn’t free. But at some point, you won’t be paying a mortgage anymore. That will never be true if you rent.
All that being said, renting might be best in the following situations:
You plan on moving from the area within the next few years. Buying is a long-term strategy, with significant up-front costs. Plus, it’s easier to move out of a rental than a home you own—selling is almost as complicated as buying.
You need flexibility. Buying is best for people whose lives are fairly stable. If your first priority is being able to quit your job any time a friend proposes a round-the-world sailing trip, maybe homeownership will feel more like a trap than a positive step. (Then again, we’ve met travelers who’ve sublet their house and supported their travels with the rent payments!)
You expect your income to decrease soon. If you’re planning to return to school or quit your 9 to 5 to pursue your career dreams, you might not want to lock yourself into a mortgage. Still, you could be a potential homebuyer if you can afford something more modest with your anticipated future income or can pay the mortgage by co-owning the property or taking in renters.
It will cost you far more to buy than to rent. Run those numbers, using calculators like the ones listed below. If you live in a market where the cost of buying outweighs the cost of renting, you might be better off continuing to rent and investing elsewhere.
CHECK IT OUT
Run your own numbers. These calculators compare the costs of renting and buying:
The New York Times’s calculator (www.nytimes.com/interactive/2024/upshot/buy-rent-calculator.html), and
NerdWallet’s Rent vs. Buy Calculator (www.nerdwallet.com/mortgages/rent-vs-buy-calculator).
While you’ll need to
