Worry Less, Live More: God's Prescription for a Better Life
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Worry, which is essentially a strain of fear, is a rational response to real pressures and problems. Life is harder than we expect, and even the Lord Jesus, the Prince of Peace Himself, admitted, "Each day has enough trouble of its own" (Matthew 6:34). He said, "In this world you will have trouble" (John 16:33). On one occasion, He even said, "Now my soul is troubled, and what shall I say?" (John 12:27). Our souls are easily troubled. The world and its trials seem to only increase.
In nearly forty years of pastoral counseling, Rob Morgan has seen a lot of changes in our culture. People are anxious, and everyone seems increasingly tense and taunt. We're overextended, running on empty, and often running late. We're worried and we're weary. One moment we're alarmed about global politics and the next we're frustrated with a clogged commode or a cranky boss. Stress can have a way of keeping us on pins and needles from dawn to darkness.
In this book Pastor Morgan leads the way through the investigation of the Bible's premier passage on the subject of anxiety. Philippians 4:4–9 is God's most definitive word about overcoming anxiety and experiencing His overwhelming peace. Dissecting the following eight practices this vital passage promotes will help you to wage war on worry:
- The Practice of Rejoicing
- The Practice of Gentleness
- The Practice of Nearness
- The Practice of Prayer
- The Practice of Thanksgiving
- The Practice of Thinking
- The Practice of Discipleship
- The Practice of Peace
When we study and employ these practices effectively, we have the power to erase anxious thoughts and compose our minds with peace in any situation.
Robert J. Morgan
Robert J. Morgan is a Bible teacher and podcaster who serves as associate pastor of World Outreach Church in Murfreesboro, Tennessee. He is the author of The 50 Final Events in World History, 100 Bible Verses That Made America, The Strength You Need, The Red Sea Rules, Then Sings My Soul, Whatever Happens, and many other titles, with more than five million copies of books in circulation. He speaks at churches, conferences, and conventions all across America as well as overseas. Rob was also a homemaker and a caregiver for his late wife of forty-three years, Katrina, who battled multiple sclerosis and passed away in November of 2019. He and Katrina have three daughters and sixteen grandchildren.
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Worry Less, Live More - Robert J. Morgan
PRAISE FOR WORRY LESS, LIVE MORE
"My favorite author has written this excellent book for all of us who struggle with fear, worry, and anxiety. Trust me, I have read all the Bible verses on these subjects, but what I need today is a friend and coach to walk me to victory over these paralyzing sins. I encourage you to grab a copy of Worry Less, Live More—and while you are at it, get another copy for a fellow worrier!"
—Greg Vaughn
Emmy Award–winning film producer; author, Letters from Dad; and founder, Grace Ministries
"We are in quite a predicament. Jesus tells us that He is life. The living water. The way to eternal life. Yet, feeling alone in our frailty, we sometimes experience very little of the life He speaks of, overwhelmed by the seas of worry, doubt, and fear. In Worry Less, Live More, Robert J. Morgan—through powerful Scripture and challenging life experiences—gives us real, spiritual insights that we can cling to. Allow these words to take you by the hand and lift you out of the seas of worry to the life you long to live."
—Matt Markins
President, Awana Global Ministries
"Unexpected life changes. Sleepless nights. Fear of the unknown. Real life that many of us face more often than we’d like. As I read Robert Morgan’s Worry Less, Live More, with his compassionate unpacking of the timeless words of the apostle Paul, God’s eternal truths once again brought calm and comfort and well-being to my soul. Journeying from rejoicing to requesting to recollecting to resting, Robert tenderly guides the reader to the destination that Paul, no doubt, had intended: a peace-filled confidence in the trustworthiness of our loving God."
—Ann Mainse
Heart to Heart Marriage & Family Ministries and former TV host, 100 Huntley Street and Full Circle
"Worry is a common experience of human existence. In his book Worry Less, Live More, Robert Morgan wisely applies the antiworry medicinal ointment of God’s Word, found in Philippians 4:4–9. Morgan masterfully examines this key passage, principle by principle, to help the reader have less anxiety and more peace. Worry Less, Live More was a big help to me. Definitely a must-read!"
—Moises Esteves
Vice president, International Ministries Child Evangelism Fellowship®
"In Worry Less, Live More, Robert Morgan brings his calm authority to speak gently to the lives of anxious and fretting people—helping us place our scared hands into the security of our Savior’s scarred hands."
—Peter W. Rosenberger
Author, radio host, and thirty-year caregiver
"One of today’s most prevalent problems in our ‘high tech’ society is stress. We are all beset by anxiety and worry at times, and, if we are honest, we so often allow it to dominate our attitudes, thought processes, and behavior. It can ruin relationships, businesses, and families, and can eat away at our quality of life.
Pastor Rob Morgan has now produced one of the most valuable and insightful books I have ever read tackling this very real and present problem. Based on Philippians 4:4–9, it is intensely practical, personal, and relevant.
—Dr. W. E. G. (Bill) Thomas
Former president of the Gideons International and Consultant Surgeon
"Worry Less, Live More is an incredibly timely message for the culture in which we live. As so many people are gripped by fear and anxiety, this book offers hope that is found in the steadfast truth of God’s Word. Rob’s personal stories and courageous transparency let us know that this is not merely an exercise in study. Rather these are insights and revelation born out of his own personal and, at times, painful journey. I believe this is a book you will want to keep close for years to come. It’s not just a great read, it’s a guide to finding hope and freedom every day."
—Daniel Floyd
Senior pastor, Lifepoint Church; president, Lifepoint College; and author, Living the Dream
If you’ve been worried about locating a helpful biblically based book dealing with worry and anxiety, your worries are over! Seriously. Here it is in Robert Morgan’s important work on the subject. Wisdom, insight, and balance exude from these pages. Anyone and everyone, no matter your situation, will be blessed, helped, and encouraged by reading it.
—Phil Roberts
International Director of Theological Education, Global Ministries Foundation
"Dr. Robert and I are friends . . . and some of our best conversations are through the reading of his books . . . and this one makes me want to live more . . . and worry less!"
—Dennis Swanberg
America’s Minister of Encouragement
"Rob Morgan is a master at taking complex biblical subjects and truths and beautifully dissecting them in terms that are applicable and life-changing for the believer. So many people today are crippled by fear, worry, and anxiety, and the need for the practices outlined in Worry Less, Live More has never been greater. This is a powerful blueprint and dynamic guide to a life filled with peace and purpose."
—John Bolin
Minister of Worship & Arts, Houston’s First Baptist Church
"Robert J. Morgan, in Worry Less, Live More, has provided a wonderfully readable prescription from the Scriptures, especially from Philippians 4:4–9, to help us overcome the debilitating, paralyzing, stomach-churning, faith-quenching effects of worry. It is safe to say that we all could live better lives with less worry.
This volume points us to a better life, not through a quick-fix but by a commitment to biblical practices that will counter our habits of worry and replace them with habits that lead to the peace of God and an awareness of the presence of the God of peace. The book is filled with helpful textual comments, personal insights, and apt illustrations. The study guide also enables us to go deeper and further in applying the insights presented, translating them into practice. This book is a great read and, by God’s grace, a transforming read for those who not only worry regularly but also worry rarely, and that includes most of us!
—David Olford
President, Olford Ministries International, Inc.
OTHER BOOKS BY ROBERT J. MORGAN
The Strength You Need
The Red Sea Rules
Then Sings My Soul
Then Sings My Soul Book 2
Then Sings My Soul Book 3
12 Stories of Christmas
The Angel Answer Book
Mastering Life Before It’s Too Late
100 Bible Verses Everyone Should Know by Heart
All to Jesus
The Lord Is My Shepherd
The Promise
On This Day
Simple: The Christian Life Doesn’t Have to Be Complicated
Reclaiming the Lost Art of Biblical Meditation
Worry Less, Live More
© 2017 Robert J. Morgan
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To my sister Ann
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
—PHILIPPIANS 4:6
CONTENTS
PREFACE: HOW TO BURY WORRY BEFORE WORRY BURIES YOU
INTRODUCTION: IN EVERY SITUATION
1. THE PRACTICE OF REJOICING
REJOICE IN THE LORD ALWAYS. I WILL SAY IT AGAIN: REJOICE! —PHILIPPIANS 4:4
2. THE PRACTICE OF GENTLENESS
LET YOUR GENTLENESS BE EVIDENT TO ALL. —PHILIPPIANS 4:5
3. THE PRACTICE OF NEARNESS
THE LORD IS NEAR. —PHILIPPIANS 4:5
4. THE PRACTICE OF PRAYER
DO NOT BE ANXIOUS ABOUT ANYTHING, BUT IN EVERY SITUATION, BY PRAYER AND PETITION . . . PRESENT YOUR REQUESTS TO GOD. —PHILIPPIANS 4:6
5. THE PRACTICE OF THANKSGIVING
. . . WITH THANKSGIVING . . . . —PHILIPPIANS 4:6
6. THE PRACTICE OF THINKING
FINALLY, BROTHERS AND SISTERS, WHATEVER IS TRUE, WHATEVER IS NOBLE, WHATEVER IS RIGHT, WHATEVER IS PURE, WHATEVER IS LOVELY, WHATEVER IS ADMIRABLE—IF ANYTHING IS EXCELLENT OR PRAISEWORTHY—THINK ABOUT SUCH THINGS. —PHILIPPIANS 4:8
7. THE PRACTICE OF DISCIPLESHIP
WHATEVER YOU HAVE LEARNED OR RECEIVED OR HEARD FROM ME, OR SEEN IN ME—PUT IT INTO PRACTICE. —PHILIPPIANS 4:9
8. THE PRACTICE OF PEACE
THE PEACE OF GOD . . . WILL GUARD YOUR HEARTS AND YOUR MINDS. . . . AND THE GOD OF PEACE WILL BE WITH YOU. —PHILIPPIANS 4:7, 9
CONCLUSION: DON’T WORRY ABOUT IT!
A CLOSING THOUGHT
ANOTHER CLOSING THOUGHT
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
STUDY GUIDE FOR INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP USE
NOTES
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
PREFACE
HOW TO BURY WORRY BEFORE WORRY BURIES YOU
Amazon keeps track of your highlights. When e-book owners mark sentences, the online retailer knows and notes it. Recently Amazon released a list of the most popular passages in some of its bestselling books, such as The Hunger Games, the Harry Potter series, and Pride and Prejudice. Also released, the most highlighted passage in the Holy Bible.¹ I expected America’s favorite biblical portion to be John 3:16, Psalm 23, or the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6:9–13. But, no, it was a less prominent text, but one that’s striking a deep cord in today’s worried world. It was Philippians 4:6–7:
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
This is a passage I’ve underscored in my own Bible, and it’s a portion of a paragraph I’ve memorized from the book of Philippians. These words shore up my sanity, because I’ve battled anxiety from childhood. I have a journal full of war stories to prove it. Nothing grips my spirit like worry. It’s like a spider spinning webs of worry in my mind and tightening the strings, and if it pulls hard enough it almost draws me, at its worst moments, into fetal levels of fear.
I’m sorry to confess such a thing, because I’m a long-tenured Christian who’s memorized virtually every verse in the Bible about worry and about peace. But I inherited a stray genetic particle from my mother’s side of the family, and that gene sometimes mutates into a germ that wreaks havoc with my nervous system. I remember my mom standing on the porch of our home in Elizabethton, Tennessee, wringing her hands when ambulances raced up highway 19-E in the direction of our apple orchard, twenty miles away. Thousands of people lived up that road, but my mother always worried my dad had suffered an accident.
As a child, I anguished over misplaced library books, and my first panic attacks came when I had to give oral reports in school. A set of paralyzed lungs doesn’t bode well for someone wanting to become a public speaker. If I had time, I’d tell you about the moment in high school when I barreled through an acute panic attack while onstage and, by God’s grace, emerged through the experience with nearly all fear of public speaking gone. But that’s another story. Suffice to say, few of my other anxieties have vanished so abruptly. It’s tough to get through the social pressures of school, the insecurity of dating and courtship, and the changes required for marriage when you’re too insecure to talk to people or risk rejection. One tends to burrow into one’s own world. I like it in my own world—I’m an introvert—but not if I’m padlocked in there by worry.
I can’t blame it all on DNA. Worry, which is essentially a strain of fear, is a rational response to real pressures and problems. Life is harder than we expect, and even the Lord Jesus, the Prince of Peace Himself, admitted each day has enough trouble of its own
(Matthew 6:34). He said, In this world you will have trouble
(John 16:33). On one occasion, He even said, Now my soul is troubled, and what shall I say?
(John 12:27).
Our souls are easily troubled. The world and its trials seem to be getting worse. In nearly forty years of pastoral counseling, I’ve seen a lot of changes in our culture, and it seems to me we’re at a flood stage of angst. People are anxious, and everyone seems increasingly tense and taunt. We’re overextended, running on empty, and often running late. We’re worried and we’re weary. One moment we’re alarmed about global politics and the next we’re frustrated with a clogged commode or a cranky boss. Stress keeps us on pins and needles from dawn to darkness.
Anxiety disorders comprise the most common mental illness in America. Officially they affect 18 percent of the adult population, but 100 percent of us worry about life every day. We fret and fear as we face anxious moments, and there’s a strain over everything we do, even when we’re having fun. I’m writing these words on a balcony in Naples, Florida, overlooking the Gulf of Mexico. Below me are palm trees, sea gulls, a lovely pool, and a placid ocean with soft rhythmic waves. Yet worry never takes a vacation. There’s seldom a time when I feel totally free from inklings of fear, and even now I have a nagging feeling of foreboding about things back home.
We need professional counselors, therapists, doctors, and people with giftings of wisdom to help us. Mental illness is treatable at all its levels, and modern science offers helpful solutions. Nutrition, exercise, rest, and good habits make big differences in how we handle stress. Prescribed medication, used wisely, can play a role in our healing. The right therapists and counselors can
