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Mark David Gerson
Mark David Gerson is the bestselling author of more than a dozen books. His nonfiction includes popular titles for writers, inspiring personal growth books and compelling memoirs. As a novelist he is best known for The Legend of Q'ntana fantasy series, coming soon to movie theaters.
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Books, Videos & Coaching for Writers
The Voice of the Muse: Answering the Call to Write
Birthing Your Book...Even If You Don’t Know What It’s About
From Memory to Memoir: Writing the Stories of Your Life
Organic Screenwriting: Writing for Film, Naturally
The Heartful Art of Revision: An Intuitive Guide to Editing
Writer’s Block Unblocked! Seven Surefire Ways to Free Up Your Writing and Creative Flow
The Voice of the Muse Companion: Guided Meditations for Writers
Time to Write
Write with Ease
Free Your Characters, Free Your Story!
Journal from the Heart
Write to Heal
Mark David Gerson is the best friend a writer ever had!
luke yankee – playwright, screenwriter, author of just outside the spotlight
One of the most lyrical, spiritual and beautiful books about writing I’ve ever read.
julie isaac – author and writing coach – los angeles, ca
Mark David Gerson will make your book-writing dreams a reality. I know. He did it for me!
karen helene walker – author of the wishing steps
A skilled magician, Mark David Gerson is able to draw reluctant words out of even the most blocked writer.
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and Break Free into Prosperity (coming soon!)
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Memoir
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From Memory to Memoir
Writing the Stories of Your Life
Mark David Gerson
From Memory to Memoir: Writing the Stories of Your Life
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One cannot choose what he writes — one can only choose to face it.
Luigi Pirandello
To the lives we live, the memories we share and the stories we tell. May they continue to inspire us and all those we touch.
And to my daughter, who is always an inspiration.
Opening Words
"It is your story to tell. It is for you to fix it in ink,
to set the truth down for all to read."
The MoonQuest
I began writing my memoir in 2009, a few days after having facilitated a memoir-writing workshop. I had taught memoir-writing for nearly a decade by that point, but I had never felt any call to set down my stories. That changed moments after the last student left the room.
Suddenly and without warning, I knew it was time to write a memoir. My Muse had spoken, and as Toshar did with Na’an in my novel The MoonQuest, I wasn’t happy with what I heard. Who, I asked repeatedly, would care about my personal stories? Perhaps, had I known back then that my memoir’s title would be Acts of Surrender, I might have seen the cosmic joke and given in more gracefully. Perhaps, had I seen the parallel with The MoonQuest’s theme and story sooner, I might have been more pliant. Muses, though, are nothing if not persistent and, in the end, my resistance proved futile…as it always does.
Ironically, the challenge I faced when beginning Acts of Surrender was similar to the one I had encountered with The MoonQuest: I did not know the story. Oh, I knew my story or, at least, my version of it. After all, I had lived it. What I didn’t know was the book’s shape, structure or theme. How could I begin to write without knowing those things? Without knowing those things, how could I condense more than a half century’s living into a compelling, manageably sized narrative?
We’ll talk more about outlines later in these pages. For now, let’s simply say that starting with an outline was out of the question. Even in high school, when I was required to submit one with an essay, I wrote the essay first and crafted the outline afterward. Without knowing it, I was already conceiving a writing philosophy I would not consciously connect with for nearly two decades: Just start and let the story reveal itself in the writing.
Could I do that in a nonfiction memoir with the same success I had achieved in novel and screenplay? Could I trust that my memoir was its own entity separate from the story I had lived and that it knew more about itself than I did? Could I surrender to that superior wisdom?
Perhaps the more appropriate question was, How could I not?
Of course, I would have to write a book of my stories in the same way I had lived them: from a place of surrender, trusting that the story of my memoir would reveal itself to me in the writing of it, just as the story of my life has revealed itself to me in the living of it. In other words, how could Acts of Surrender be anything but another act of surrender?
In the end, if you let it, an act of surrender is what every memoir is. It’s what every book is: a guided journey where your Muse or your story or your unconscious or whatever you choose to call your creative source is at once travel agent, tour guide, navigator and driver.
That has been my experience through nearly than three decades of teaching, as well as through, now, nearly two dozen books, four screenplays and three stage musicals-in-progress. It is that experience that I am excited to share with you through the pages ahead.
This is not a step-by-step memoir-writing how-to. When it comes to creativity, I don’t believe in step-by-step how-to’s nor, as you will discover, in rules. Rather, it’s a writerly voyage that will awaken you to facets of your story you didn’t know you knew and will reawaken you to the intuitive wisdom and creative power you already possess and that is as natural to you as is your DNA.
It’s that power that will write your memoir for you, if you let it. It’s that wisdom that, if you surrender to it, will transform your memories into a memoir that eloquently reflects the depth, insight and richness of your life and your stories.
May the alchemy of our time together reignite that wisdom and power within you and may it birth the memoir you have come to these pages to write.
Mark David Gerson
May 2014
Why a Second Edition?
A writer never knows, when rereading work that’s more than a couple of years old, whether or not it still fits.
After all, authors grow and evolve but their books hover in a single moment in time, photographs snapped the day the final period drops on their final draft.
So I approached the first edition of From Memory to Memoir with a tiny bit of trepidation, wondering whether I would publish it as eagerly today as I did five years ago. I was relieved to discover that I would, unhesitatingly.
At the same time, I felt that there were tweaks and additions I could make that would take that five-year-old photograph
and make it current. The result is this revised edition.
What has changed? I have developed new exercises and meditations and have either fine-tuned or expanded existing ones. I have included more tools for editing your memoir. I have reorganized some of the original edition’s material for clarity and better flow. I even caught a few of the typos that slipped into that first edition, although I can’t promise that new ones haven’t weaseled their way into this one!
With these major additions and a host of minor ones, this second edition is about ten percent longer than the first and, I hope, at least ten percent more effective!
It certainly has been for me, reentering my life at the perfect moment, as I contemplate expanding and updating my own memoir. May it be equally so for you as, through its pages, you unleash your creative potential and transform your memories into memoir.
Mark David Gerson
January 2019
1. Getting Started
To be a human is to constantly weave stories.
Dr. Anne Foerst
Every true
memoir must be incomplete;
what I remember may not be true
;
and people who know me may disagree with what I recollect.
Tom Grimes
Your Life, Your Story
You are a storyteller — not because you are unusual (though your experiences may well be), but because we are all storytellers. We each carry an infinite potential for self-expression-through-story that, if we open to it, can reshape our lives and the lives of others in ways we cannot begin to imagine.
In a sense, we are also all memoirists. From the moment the first caveman returned from a day’s hunting and grunted his experiences to his mates over the cooking fire, we have been not only telling stories, but telling our story. From the moment of our first newborn gurgle, we have been communicating something of our brief life. From the moment the first diary entry reflected back on days, months or years past, we have been unconsciously crafting memoir.
Yet writing a memoir involves more than reciting dates, facts and what-happened-next’s. A memoir is an intimate journey into what underlies those dates, facts and occurrences.
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