BDSM & Fetish Dictionary Of Kink, 2nd Edition

By Dominic Paul Reagene

"Words are the voice of the heart."
Confucius

Whether you want to play more safely, express your passions more intensely, build trust through better communication or whether you simply want to find out about other people's fantasies, BDSM & Fetish Dictionary Of Kink, 2nd Ed. is the tool to serve your need.

The original dictionary of BDSM, Fetish and Kink.  2nd Edition.  A comprehensive listing of vocabulary including dominance, submission, master, slave, sadism, masochism and much more. Includes description of practices, etymology, historical context, word functions and more where pertinent. The first dictionary to record and explain the usage of "Dominant" and "submissive" as nouns. The first dictionary to record the abbreviations "Dom" and "sub". The first dictionary to explain the convention of abbreviating Dominant and submissive as "Dom" and "sub".

A reader:  "I've been in the lifestyle for many years and I still learned a lot from this book.  Highly recommend."

• Language: English
• Publisher: Muze Management, Inc., Publishing
• Release date: Mar 29, 2015
• ISBN: 9781507033999

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Numerals and Symbols

1950's -  Also 1950's Relationship, Style, Era, Values, Household, etc.  Refers to an historical era, usually referencing society in the USA and the male leadership relationship dynamics, structure and roles common in that time period.

24/7 - Twenty Four, Seven; twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week; all the time.

3-Hole Slut - Also Three Hole Slut. A woman who is ready and willing to be penetrated in her vagina, anus or mouth.  May describe simultaneous penetration, consecutive penetrations or simply refer to the availability of a choice of penetration targets.

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AB - Adult Baby.

Abasiophilia - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by people with impaired mobility.

ABDL - Adult Baby/Diaper Lover.

Abduction - The simulated action or an instance of forcibly taking someone away against their will, usually for a sexual purpose.

ABF - Adult Baby Feeding.

Abrasion - Using something rough on the skin.

Abuse - Cruel and violent treatment, often involving sexual assault.

Accent Fetish -  A sexual attraction to or arousal by hearing a distinctive mode of pronunciation of a language.

Acronym - An abbreviation that is pronounced as a word and is formed from the initial letters of other words, e.g., RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) is an Acronym because it is pronounced as a word, while BDSM is not an acronym because each letter is pronounced individually.

Acrotomophilia - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by people with amputations.

Adult Baby - A person who dresses and/or assumes the role of a baby or toddler.

Adultery - Also Cheating. Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not the spouse.

Aftercare - Physical or psychological comfort after a fetish experience to aid the return to a normal state of mind or being. Usually provided by someone other than oneself.

Agalmatophilia - Sexual arousal from an attraction to, usually nude, statues, dolls, mannequins and/or other similarly body shaped objects.

Age Play - Conducting a scene or relationship as though one or all of the people involved are a different age than they actually are.

Algolagnia - A somewhat out of date psychological term dating from the 1800's meaning to derive sexual pleasure from experiencing or inflicting pain, i.e., sadomasochism, sexual masochism or sexual sadism.

Alternative Lifestyle - A lifestyle, especially including sexuality, that is significantly different from the norm.

Alternative Sexuality - Sexuality that lies, at least in large part, outside the norm.

Alvinolagnia -  Stomach Fetish or Belly Fetish.  Sexual arousal or attraction to the stomach.

Amp - Amputee.

Anal - A comprehensive term that can be used to refer to any sexual activity involving the anus.

Anal Beads -  A string of beads, balls or spheres of some sort.  They are designed to be inserted into the anus and then pulled out by the string, often one at a time, and often at the height of orgasm, thereby enhancing or magnifying the orgasmic reaction.

Anal Chastity -  Refraining from or being denied anal sex.

Anal Hook - A large hook used in the anus to create psychological and visual, as well as physical sensation.

Anal Plug - Also Butt Plug. A sex toy that is designed to be inserted into the rectum for sexual pleasure. In some ways they are similar to a dildo but they tend to be shorter and must have a flanged end to prevent the device from being lost inside the rectum.

Anal Sex - Intercourse via the anus.

Anal Stretching -  The process of gradually expanding the anus and its ability to accept insertions.

Anal Torture - Inflicting pain on the anus.

Anal Training - The act, often through repetition and incremental progress of adapting the anus to activities such as insertion of foreign objects such as butt plugs of increasing size.

Analingus - Performing oral sex on another person's anus.

Androgyny - A state of being or appearance in which gender is difficult or impossible to recognize or dressing and presenting oneself in such a way that it is hard to determine gender from appearance.

Andromimetophilia - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by trans men.

Anililagnia - Attraction by young men to older women.

Anilingus - Oral sex performed on the anus.

Animal Play - Also Animal Role Play or Pet Play. At least one person assumes the role character of an animal.

Anime - A style of animated cartoon developed in Japan in the 1960s.

Anonymous Encounters -  Encounters or experiences with other people, usually sexual in nature, in which the participants remain anonymous.

ANR - Adult Nursing Relationship. Usually breastfeeding.

Anthropophagolagnia - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by raping and then cannibalizing another person.

Anthropophagy - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by ingesting human flesh.

Apotemnophilia - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by being an amputee.

Arm Binder – Also Armbinder.  Sleeves, often of leather, which attach together binding the arms behind the back of a person; may also cover the hands.

Armpit Fetish -  Also Maschalagnia.  Sexual arousal or attraction to the armpits.

Asexual - A person who does not experience sexual attraction.

ASFR - Also Technosexuality or Robot Fetish. Abbreviation of alt.sex.fetish.robots newsgroup. Sexual arousal from humanoid or non-humanoid robots.

Asian Fetish - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by people, cultures or things that are Asian.

Asphyxiophilia - Sexual attraction to or being aroused by being asphyxiated or strangled.

Ass -  Also Butt.  The buttocks and anus.

Ass To Mouth -  Also ATM.  Anal sex followed immediately by fellatio, usually performed by the person who was just penetrated during anal sex.

Ass Worship -  Worship of the ass.

Assault - (1) To make a physical attack. (2) Legal: An act that threatens physical attack whether or not actual harm is done.

ATM -  Also Ass To Mouth.  Anal sex followed immediately by fellatio, usually performed by the person who was just penetrated during anal sex.

Attention Whore -  Also Attention