Prayer Starters: Talking with God about Hard Times

By Suzanne Eller

When you can't find the right words to pray...

In hard times, many of us shy away from God, not sure how to talk to him about what we're feeling. Through her own battles, Suzie Eller has experienced the peace of knowing that prayer is not about the number of words that come out of your mouth or how eloquent you sound. It's about being in God's presence.

When you can't figure out what to say to him, these 90 prayer starters will begin the conversation you've been longing for. Each one is birthed from a specific Scripture, and on each page, journaling space is provided so you can complete the prayer in your own words or simply write what you're feeling.

Don't let your hurts, fears, or doubts keep you from freely talking to God. He loves you and wants to hear what's on your heart.

"Connect with God in ways you've always hoped for but haven't been sure how to make happen."--HOLLEY GERTH, bestselling author

• Language: English
• Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
• Release date: Oct 11, 2022
• ISBN: 9781493439225

Book preview

Oh how I love Suzie Eller’s heart for prayer. It spills onto the page of this life-transforming journal. What a gift to those who struggle to find God in difficult times. This is a beautifully written, spiritually deep invitation to the joyful life you’ve been longing for.

Mary DeMuth, speaker and podcaster

"Struggling to find the words to chat with God? Suzie Eller’s Prayer Starters will give you ideas for ways to start up—and continue—this most life-affirming conversation. I especially appreciate the mini Bible studies. Enjoy!"

Amy Boucher Pye, author of 7 Ways to Pray

If prayer has ever felt intimidating, confusing, or like one more to-do on your list, then Suzie Eller will be the gentle, wise guide you need to connect with God in ways you’ve always hoped for but haven’t been sure how to make happen.

Holley Gerth, bestselling author, cohost of the More Than Small Talk podcast

If you’re like me, connecting with God in challenging seasons is hard. Suzie’s book gently meets you in those places, providing God’s words and creative ways to begin your conversations with God. Her biblically grounded prayers and starters come alongside you like a good friend and guide you every step of the way. 

Wendy Blight, biblical content specialist, Proverbs 31 Ministries

Suzie Eller’s prayers are a gentle invitation to walk with her into the loving arms of our God—and they’re so much more. They teach us how to pray. Show gratitude and humility. Reveal biblical insights. And model for us an honest, intimate relationship with Jesus. They are simply beautiful.

Kelly O’Dell Stanley, author of Praying Upside Down, Designed to Pray, and InstaPrayer: Prayers to Share

"Suzie Eller is a seasoned guide in those seasons that require pressing in, asking hard questions, listening in the silence, and hearing from God’s heart. In Prayer Starters, she’s taken the mystery of our prayer relationship and provided the words to begin going deeper with God, with gentleness, wisdom, and honesty."

Julie Lyles Carr, bestselling author of Raising an Original; speaker; host of the AllMomDoes podcast

Our lungs need air. Our lives need prayer. Don’t know what to say? Don’t know how to pray? This book has beautiful prayers to help you start, with extra space to write from your heart, so you can learn to pray and make it a part of each day.

Amanda Hinds, founder and writer, bebraveboldstrong.com

"Prayer doesn’t always come easy, especially when life’s storms are raging. Suzie’s Prayer Starters lead you into a beautiful space of prayer and worship, gently guiding you into needed prayers with God. Simply show up with an open heart and allow the prompts to spark your conversations in prayer."

Kathryn Shirey, founder and writer, prayerandpossibilities.com

"If your problems seem overwhelming, but your prayers have dried up, Prayer Starters is here for you! In this Scripture-soaked resource, Suzie equips you with real words for real talk with God. She’s a battlefield prayer warrior who points you to the hope and divine wisdom that you need from God in your challenging times."

Barb Roose, speaker, author of Surrendered: Letting Go and Living Like Jesus and Breakthrough: Finding Freedom in Christ

Books by Suzanne Eller

Come With Me: Discovering the Beauty of Following Where He Leads

Come With Me Devotional: A Yearlong Adventure in Following Jesus

JoyKeeper: 6 Truths That Change Everything You Thought You Knew about Joy

The Mended Heart: God’s Healing for Your Broken Places

Prayer Starters: Talking with God about Hard Times

The Spirit-Led Heart: Living a Life of Love and Faith without Borders

The Unburdened Heart: Finding the Freedom of Forgiveness

© 2022 by T. Suzanne Eller

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Contents

Cover

Endorsements    1

Half Title Page    3

Books by Suzanne Eller    4

Title Page    5

Copyright Page    6

A Note from Suzie    11

How to Use This Prayer Book    15

PART 1  Trusting God in Hard Seasons    19

1. You Are My Source    21

2. Help Me Remember    22

3. In This Hard Place    23

4. I Say Yes    24

5. Nothing Misses Your Eye    25

Think on This

6. One Step at a Time    27

7. I’m Really Tired, Lord    28

8. My Strong Place    29

9. You See    30

10. Open My Eyes    31

God Is Listening

11. You Are My Constant, Jesus    33

12. Secure    34

13. Greater than the Heavens    35

14. I Will Live in Truth    36

15. Help Me Choose My Battles    37

What Are You Asking Me to Do, Lord?

16. Increase My Faith    39

17. When I Don’t Have Words    40

18. Running to You    41

19. Shine through Me    42

20. Open Hands    43

Hey, Friend, Just So You Know . . .

21. You Are My Stronghold    45

22. Yes to That Miracle    46

23. Deep and Wide    47

24. This Is Who You Are    48

25. Where Would I Go?    49

What Is So Different about Them?

26. I Am Seen    51

27. Help Me Hear You    52

28. On Every Day    53

29. Hold My Tears    54

30. You Make Me Brave    55

Write It Down. Make It Plain.

PART 2 Growing in Hard Places    59

31. You Know Me    61

32. Draw Me to Truth    62

33. I Have a Helper    63

34. Complete    64

35. My Part in Your Plan    65

A Mantra of Hope

36. Break Down Those Walls    67

37. In the Heart of the Storm    68

38. You Fight for Me    69

39. Seed Sower    70

40. On My Knees    71

When You Are Afraid

41. Meet Me in the Fire    75

42. Holding Fast to You    76

43. Not Just Me, but Me and You    77

44. In the Wilderness    78

45. I Am Hurting    79

The Beauty of Battle Scars

46. Light Me Up    83

47. Change the Way I See Things    84

48. A Deep Soaking    85

49. You Are Compassion    86

50. Hey, I Love You, Jesus    87

51. Wisdom    88

52. Thank You    89

53. Shut It Down    90

54. This Is Who I Am    91

55. Today Is a Hard Day    92