The Boston Girl: A Novel
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Family
Friendship
Personal Growth
Gender Roles
Family Dynamics
Fish Out of Water
Star-Crossed Lovers
Mentorship
Opposites Attract
Rags to Riches
Love at First Sight
Family Drama
Secret Relationship
Secret Society
Culture Clash
Self-Discovery
Social Class
Immigration
Love
Education
About this ebook
An unforgettable novel about a young Jewish woman growing up in Boston in the early twentieth century, told “with humor and optimism…through the eyes of an irresistible heroine” (People)—from the acclaimed author of The Red Tent.
Anita Diamant’s “vivid, affectionate portrait of American womanhood” (Los Angeles Times), follows the life of one woman, Addie Baum, through a period of dramatic change. Addie is The Boston Girl, the spirited daughter of an immigrant Jewish family, born in 1900 to parents who were unprepared for America and its effect on their three daughters. Growing up in the North End of Boston, then a teeming multicultural neighborhood, Addie’s intelligence and curiosity take her to a world her parents can’t imagine—a world of short skirts, movies, celebrity culture, and new opportunities for women. Addie wants to finish high school and dreams of going to college. She wants a career and to find true love. From the one-room tenement apartment she shared with her parents and two sisters, to the library group for girls she joins at a neighborhood settlement house, to her first, disastrous love affair, to finding the love of her life, eighty-five-year-old Addie recounts her adventures with humor and compassion for the naïve girl she once was.
Written with the same attention to historical detail and emotional resonance that made Diamant’s previous novels bestsellers, The Boston Girl is a moving portrait of one woman’s complicated life in twentieth century America, and a fascinating look at a generation of women finding their places in a changing world. “Diamant brings to life a piece of feminism’s forgotten history” (Good Housekeeping) in this “inspirational…page-turning portrait of immigrant life in the early twentieth century” (Booklist).
Anita Diamant
Anita Diamant is an award-winning journalist and the bestselling author of six books about contemporary Jewish life, including The New Jewish Wedding, The New Jewish Baby Book, and How to Be a Jewish Parent, as well as the novels The Red Tent, The Boston Girl, Good Harbor, The Last Days of Dogtown, and Day After Night. She lives in Massachusetts.
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154 ratings87 reviews
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Jul 23, 2018
Found this book on OverDrive to listen to while I worked out. The best part was that it was read by Linda Lavin (not exactly a Boston accent, but a great reader for this). I've liked Anita Diamond books in the past, and this is no exception. There's no great anticipatory plot, but a sweet and realistic story of a (what would now be called) progressive young woman growing up in the 1910s- 1920s and following to who she has become... as she answers her granddaughters question - "how did you get to be the woman that you are?" An interesting question for all of us to ponder... - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Feb 8, 2018
The Boston Girl: A Novel by Anita Diamant; (4 1/2*); hardcopy; family saga; Jewish immigration to AmericaAnita Diamant never disappoints whether you are reading her works of fiction or non-fiction. She is an amazingly good writer who draws the reader into the world she is writing of. When I read her, everything around me simply ceases to be.Her characters are of the greatest interest regardless of their placement within the story; whether they are a major or a minor player. And no matter the happy or the sad of the world of which she is chronicling, I always find myself wanting to live within the framework of her story lines.The Boston Girl is about the daughter of Jewish immigrants, born and bred in Boston from her childhood into her eighties. The story is told in an unusual manner, in that our protagonist is telling the entire tale in the first person, toher granddaughter. We live through her unhappy and stifled childhood, through her difficult coming of age years, her school years, her two unhappy endeavors at creating romantic relationships, her working years and all the while wonderful and crazy back burner stories are carrying on about her two sisters, her parents, along with her friends and colleagues.Favorite quotes from the book:Describing to her granddaughter the circumstances of a young friend who gave herself an abortion and nearly died: A helping friend speaking to the girl: "I figure God created Margaret Sanger too."To her granddaughter: "You know, Ava, it's good to be smart, but kindness is more important. Oh dear, another old-lady chestnut to stitch on a sampler."There was nothing that I did not love about this book. I am so bummed that it has ended. I highly recommend it. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Sep 26, 2016
Fun story--marginal writing. The story kept me engaged despite uninspired writing style. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
May 30, 2021
Great story! You can broaden your audience by publishing your story on Novel Star Mobile App. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Jan 11, 2025
I love Addie. She has this amazing spirit and wit that shines bright through her storytelling. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Jan 22, 2022
4.5 This was a fast and interesting read. I liked Addie and her spunk. Seeing the world through her eyes- up through the 1930s- was eye-opening. I finished the book two days ago and am still thinking about Addie and her friends and family. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
May 8, 2016
Anita Diamant's is able to make the mundane interesting. A young Jewish girl grows up in Boston. Abigail proceeds to share her life story with her granddaughter and thus we have the story. Linda Lavin's reading of the story was wonderful. Her accent lent additional depth to the story. A nice story of a girl becoming a woman, a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, and a friend. Nice book. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Mar 5, 2016
Good picture of everyday life of 1st generation women in the early 20th century. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Feb 24, 2016
In 1985 Addie is being interviewed by her granddaughter, Ava. Addie tells the story of growing up Jewish in Boston. It is a time before child labor laws, a devastating flu epidemic, with hardships, but overcoming and resilience. In hard times there is a sense of hope especially since we know that Addie makes it through to become a grandmother. I enjoyed the voice of Addie who now and then throws in a comment to Ava who is living in times which have very much changed. While this is not packed with action, I found it very engaging and very enjoyable. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Jan 17, 2016
I so enjoyed this book. It is the story of Addie Baum, born in America in 1900 to a Jewish immigrant couple. Addie is smart as a whip and headstrong. The novel is narrated by Addie as she answers her 22-yr-old granddaughter's question "How did you get to be the woman you are today?" It's an easy, compelling read. I recommend this one. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Jan 5, 2016
I really, really, really enjoyed this book. The audio version was narrated by Linda Lavin and she was just wonderful. I came to work for a week with tears on my face, not because of events that were horrifically tragic, but just life's sad events, and this family was so likable, I wanted to be part of it. Because Addie is ostensibly being interviewed by her granddaughter, it reads like a memoir, which is fitting because this isn't a book with a big plot or conflict or question to be answered. It is a story of a life well lived. Another reviewed balked at the premise that Addie's thoughts would be so well gathered while being interviewed by her granddaughter. Really? It seems entirely likely to me that she would have had advance notice of the interview and spent time gathering her thoughts, as evidenced by the fact that is broken down by years, and would likely have taken place (the interview) over the course of a few visits. It worked just fine for me! - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Nov 15, 2015
Particularly like historical fiction, but this work was a grandmother reliving her life experiences to her granddaughter. Book was interesting with regard to discussing Jewish culture, but would probably be better enjoyed by the female gender who might better relate to female relationships. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Aug 14, 2015
3.25 stars ;-)
I enjoyed it but I expected more from the author of The Red Tent. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Jun 30, 2023
I LOVED this novel AND the audiobook narrated fabulously and on point by the actress Linda Lavin.
This story was just a comfort story to me, a grandmother recalling her life story to one of her granddaughters on the occasion of her 85th birthday. It is one person's/family's story wrapped up in a historical fiction envelope. I loved learning about Addie, the grandmother born in America in 1900 to a Jewish immigrant family in Boston, and how her life as a woman was shaped in and by 20th century events. You get glimpses of this one person's particular life as Addie's remembrances, both good and bad, are shared. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Nov 21, 2020
Well written and very interesting learning about a young Jewish girl trying escape the constraints of her upbringing and be a modern girl in 1915-31. It was a bit on the light side and Addie's jewish-ness did not factor hugely in the story, - Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5
Oct 24, 2020
Completely innocuous fictional memoir of Addie Baum talking to her Harvard-educated granddaughter Ava in an interview about "how she became the woman she is today." (at age 85 in 1985). The coming of age in the 20s portion was interesting and Addie was a scrapper who fought for her education instead of becoming a child labor statistic. The child of Russian Jewish immigrants, she had to convince her parents of the value of education rather than another income. She had 2 sisters -- Betty -- way ahead of her time, and Celia the fragile one, who dies as a young adult in an implied suicide because she doesn't feel adequate to be a mother and homemaker. Addie has some wonderful "modern" women who mentor her and provide opportunities for her betterment and that was a charming component to the story. The Ediths are 2 intellectual women in Boston society who see her potential and introduce her to other like-minded girls and business women. A sharp cookie, Addie succeeds in the newspaper industry and the business world -- essentially running the show for the men who front the endeavors. Her tale of courtship and marriage to Aaron is also very sweet and it was great to see him honor her achievements and encourage her endeavors. The story skips along smoothly and nicely without much drama or depth. Historical references are interesting and the extraordinary achievements of an ordinary woman are inspiring. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
May 28, 2015
A Jewish immigrant woman recounts her life from a young age in Boston. Linda Lavin's lively narration brought this character to wonderful and palpable life. I enjoyed this look into life in my present hometown. Our young protagonist is spunky, smart and entertaining. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Aug 25, 2020
Fun, fluffy, sweet historical; great narration. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
May 7, 2015
A comforting and nostalgic look at a time when life was much slower. Reading this book is like sitting back to listen to someone telling a great story. Very enjoyable. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
May 2, 2015
A grandmother tells her life story to her granddaughter when she is 85. Good story but written more simplistically than RED TENT. Different genre. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Apr 30, 2015
This is a story of an Jewish immigrant girl growing up in Boston in the early 20th century. The main character is relating her life to her granddaughter. It has a good sense of place, the poor tenements and the neighborhood house that offers a promise of a wider world. The prose is straightforward and the story moves right along. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Apr 10, 2015
What a poignant Powerful novel! I have read Anita Diamant's "The red tent," so I expected a lot and "The Boston Girl," did not disappoint. The story as told by Jewish grandmother,Addie Baum, to her granddaughter follows her life through an era of dramatic change in general and for women in particular. The author's writing style and humor at the most unlikely spots are really endearing; for example when she has Addie's sister, Betty, talking about getting married and comments "as if there weren't any difference between making soup and getting pregnant." A must read not only for women but for every reader. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Apr 1, 2015
I received this book from Scribner Publishers in a blog giveaway (Olivia's Catastrophe). I really would rate it 3.5 stars if I could. The Boston Girl is the story of a Jewish woman, Addie Baum. It is told in the first person by Addie who is now 85 and answering her grand-daughter's question "How did you become the woman you are today?". It begins when Addie is 15 in the year 1915 and paints a picture of what it was like to live in Boston's West End as the daughter of Jewish immigrants. I enjoyed the stories but felt sometimes the hard times and conditions were glossed over a bit. I also felt that it was sometimes written a little too simplistically. All in all it was an enjoyable read. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Mar 31, 2015
I was really happy with this story. I figured it would have been a little bit more like new immigrants struggling to make it in New York in the mid 1800's. It was actually more recent, but as the story went on and the Grandmother continued her story, I couldn't help but think about how similar life really is now compared to then. I'm not talking about technology and and modern advances, I'm talking about plain humanness. I have to say that this is my favorite part of the whole story...how you don't think your Grandmother could have possibly been through the same things you have when in actuality, she could probably understand everything in your life...more than what you would have thought. At least this Grandmother. It makes me have a whole new respect for my grandmothers (who are both deceased). I know this is just a novel, but boy, it really gets you thinking... - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Mar 27, 2015
Addie Baum goes from 1915 - 1985 tracing her life, friendships, family history and marriage. She relates her stories to her granddaughter who is going to rabbinical school. On a whole dry and not well developed. The characters are not clearly defined, but the one thing fairly well developed is the contrast between Addie's growing up years and those of contemporary society. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Mar 18, 2015
I read this book in a day, it was so compelling. An easy read, but not simple, by any definition. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Mar 3, 2015
I found this book to be utterly charming to read. Loved the narration of the grandmother telling her granddaughter the story of her life. While nothing really stands out to me as amazing, I really liked sitting down at the end of the day with this one and finding out where the family was going that day. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Feb 23, 2015
Having lived in Boston and being somewhat familiar with its geography and history, I found this fascinating. Even though it is fiction, one can learn a great deal about immigration to Boston in general and the Jewish immigration in particular. This is the first book that I read almost cover to cover in one sitting. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Feb 4, 2015
Disappointing. First of her books that was just ho hum. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Dec 30, 2014
I won an advanced reader copy of this book from Goodreads. I really enjoyed this book. It was a sweet, feel good novel. I loved that despite the times (early 20th century), Addie was such a strong and independent woman. It was truly a novel that will make you appreciate your friends and see the power of true love and friendship.
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The Boston Girl - Anita Diamant
| 1985 |
Nobody told you?
Ava, sweetheart, if you ask me to talk about how I got to be the woman I am today, what do you think I’m going to say? I’m flattered you want to interview me. And when did I ever say no to my favorite grandchild?
I know I say that to all of my grandchildren and I mean it every single time. That sounds ridiculous or like I’m losing my marbles, but it’s true. When you’re a grandmother you’ll understand.
And why not? Look at the five of you: a doctor, a social worker, two teachers, and now you.
Of course they’re going to accept you into that program. Don’t be silly. My father is probably rolling over in his grave, but I think it’s wonderful.
Don’t tell the rest of them, but you really are my favorite and not only because you’re the youngest. Did you know you were named after me?
It’s a good story.
Everyone else is named in memory of someone who died, like your sister Jessica, who was named for my nephew Jake. But I was very sick when you were born and when they thought I wasn’t going to make it, they went ahead and just hoped the angel of death wouldn’t make a mistake and take you, Ava, instead of me, Addie. Your parents weren’t that superstitious, but they had to tell everyone you were named after your father’s cousin Arlene, so people wouldn’t give them a hard time.
It’s a lot of names to remember, I know.
Grandpa and I named your aunt Sylvia for your grandfather’s mother, who died in the flu epidemic. Your mother is Clara after my sister Celia.
What do you mean, you didn’t know I had a sister named Celia? That’s impossible! Betty was the oldest, then Celia, and then me. Maybe you forgot.
Nobody told you? You’re sure?
Well, maybe it’s not such a surprise. People don’t talk so much about sad memories. And it was a long time ago.
But you should know this. So go ahead. Turn on the tape recorder.
—
My father came to Boston from what must be Russia now. He took my sisters, Betty and Celia, with him. It was 1896 or maybe 1897; I’m not sure. My mother came three or four years later and I was born here in 1900. I’ve lived in Boston my whole life, which anyone can tell the minute I open my mouth.
| 1915–16 |
That’s where I started to be my own person.
Where I lived in the North End when I was a little girl wasn’t so quaint. The neighborhood smelled of garbage and worse. In my building to go to the bathroom, we had to walk down three flights from our apartment to the outhouses in back. Those were disgusting, believe me, but the stairways were what really scared me. At night, you couldn’t see your hand in front of your face and it was slippery from all the dirt and grease. One lady broke a leg on those steps and she never walked right again afterward.
In 1915, there were four of us living in one room. We had a stove, a table, a few chairs, and a saggy couch that Mameh and Papa slept on at night. Celia and I shared a bed in a kind of narrow hallway that didn’t go anywhere; the landlords chopped up those apartments to squeeze in more people so they could get more rent. The only good thing about our place was that we had a window that looked out on the street so there was a little light; a lot of the apartments faced the air shaft, where it was always the middle of the night.
Mameh didn’t like it when I looked out the window. What if someone saw you there?
she’d say. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do.
I didn’t understand why it bothered her but I kept my mouth shut so I wouldn’t get a smack.
We were poor but not starving. Papa worked in a belt factory as a cutter and Celia was a finisher at a little shirtwaist factory upstairs over an Italian butcher shop. I don’t think we called it a sweatshop back then, but that’s what it was. And in the summer, it was steaming hot. When my mother wasn’t cooking or cleaning, she was mending sheets for the laundry across the street. I think she got a penny apiece.
Together, they made enough money for rent and food. Mostly I remember eating potatoes and cabbage, and I still can’t stand the smell of cabbage. Sometimes Mameh took in a boarder, usually a man right off the boat who needed a place to flop for a few nights. I didn’t mind because she didn’t yell so much if one of them was in the house, but they made Celia nervous.
Celia was delicate.
That’s what Mameh called her. My sister was thin and had high cheekbones like my father, blue eyes, and fine brown hair like him, too. She would have been as pretty as the drawings in the magazines, but she was so shy that she winced when people talked to her, especially the men Mameh pushed at her.
Celia didn’t like to go out of the house; she said it was because her English was bad. Actually she understood a lot but she wouldn’t talk. My mother was like that, too. Papa managed a little better, but at home we only spoke Yiddish.
When Mameh talked about Celia to the neighbors, she said, Twenty-nine years old already,
like it was a death sentence. But in the next breath she’d brag, My Celia has such golden hands, she could sew the wings on a bird. And such a good girl: modest, obedient, never gives me any trouble.
I was the other one.
The other one is almost fifteen years old and still in school. Selfish and lazy; she pretends like she can’t sew.
But I wasn’t pretending. Every time I picked up a needle I stabbed myself. One time, when Mameh gave me a sheet to help with her sewing, I left so many little bloodstains she couldn’t wash them out. She had to pay for the sheet, which cost her I don’t know how many days of work. I got a good smack for that, I can tell you.
You wouldn’t know Celia and I were sisters from looking at us. We had the same nose—straight and a little flat—and we were both a little more than five feet. But I was built like my mother, solid but not fat, and curvy starting at thirteen. I had Mameh’s thin wrists and her reddish-brownish hair, which was so thick it could break the bristles on the brush. I thought I was a real plain Jane except for my eyes, which are like yours, Ava: hazel, with a little gold circle in the middle.
I was only ten years old when my oldest sister, Betty, moved out of the house. I remember I was hiding under the table the day she left. Mameh was screaming how girls were supposed to live with their families until they got married and the only kind of woman who went on her own was a kurveh.
That’s whore
in Yiddish; I had to ask a kid at school what it meant.
After that, Mameh never said Betty’s name in public. But at home she talked about her all the time. A real American,
she said, making it sound like a curse.
But it was true. Betty had learned English fast and she dressed like a modern girl: she wore pointy shoes with heels and you could see her ankles. She got herself a job selling dresses downtown at Filene’s department store, which was unusual for someone who wasn’t born in this country. I didn’t see her much after she moved out and I missed her. It was too quiet without Betty in the house. I didn’t mind that there was less fighting between her and Mameh, but she was the only one who ever got Celia and my father to laugh.
Home wasn’t so good but I liked going to school. I liked the way it felt to be in rooms with tall ceilings and big windows. I liked reading and getting As and being told I was a good student. I used to go to the library every afternoon.
After I finished elementary school, one of my teachers came to the apartment to tell Mameh and Papa I should go to high school. I still remember his name, Mr. Wallace, and how he said it would be a shame for me to quit and that I could get a better job if I kept going. They listened to him, very polite, but when he was finished Papa said, She reads and she counts. It’s enough.
I cried myself to sleep that night and the next day I stayed really late at the library even though I knew I’d get in trouble. I didn’t even want to look at my parents, I hated them so much.
But that night when we were in bed, Celia said not to be sad; that I was going to high school for one year at least. She must have talked to Papa. If she said something was making her upset or unhappy, he got worried that she would stop eating—which she did sometimes. He couldn’t stand that.
I was so excited to go to high school. The ceilings were even higher, which made me feel like a giant, like I was important. And mostly, I loved it there. My English teacher was an old lady who always wore a lace collar and who gave me As on my papers but kept telling me that she expected more out of me.
I was almost as good in arithmetic, but the history teacher didn’t like me. In front of the whole class he asked if I had ants in my pants because I raised my hand so much. The other kids laughed so I stopped asking so many questions, but not completely.
After school, I went to the Salem Street Settlement House with a lot of the other girls in my grade. I took a cooking class there once but mostly I went to the library, where I could finish my schoolwork and read whatever I found on the shelves. And on Thursdays, there was a reading club for girls my age.
This is probably where the answer to your question begins.
How did I get to be the woman I am today?
It started in that library, in the reading club. That’s where I started to be my own person.
Three cheers for Addie Baum.
The settlement house was a four-story building that stood out from everything else in the neighborhood. It was new with yellow bricks instead of red. It had electricity in all the rooms so at night it lit up the street like a lantern.
It was busy all day. There was a baby nursery for mothers who worked, a woodshop to teach boys a trade, and English classes for immigrants. After dark, women would come to ask for food and coal so their children wouldn’t starve or freeze. The neighborhood was that poor.
Miss Edith Chevalier was in charge of all that and a lot more. She’s the one who started the library groups for girls: one for the Irish, one for Italians, and one for Jews. Sometimes she would look in and ask what we were reading—not to test us but just because she wanted to know.
That’s what happened on the day my club was reading The Midnight Ride of Paul Revere
out loud. I guess I was better than the others because after the meeting, Miss Chevalier asked if I would recite the whole poem to the Saturday Club. She said a famous professor was going to give a lecture about Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, and she thought a presentation of his most famous poem would be a nice way to start the evening.
She said that I would have to memorize it, But that shouldn’t be a problem for a girl of your ability.
I’m telling you, my feet didn’t touch the ground all the way home. It was the biggest thing that ever happened to me and I learned the whole poem by heart in two days so I’d be ready for our first rehearsal.
Miss Chevalier was a small woman, a few inches shorter than me, which meant less than five feet. She had a moon face and chubby fingers and coppery hair that sprang straight up from her head, which is why some of the girls called her The Poodle. But she had one of those smiles that makes you feel like you just did something right, which was a good thing since I was a nervous wreck when I went to her office to practice.
I only got halfway through the poem when Miss Chevalier stopped me and asked if I knew what impetuous meant. She was nice about it, but I wanted to sink through the floor because not only did I not know what the word meant, I had mispronounced it.
I’m sure I turned bright red, but Miss Chevalier pretended not to notice and handed me the dictionary and said to read the definition out loud.
I will never forget; impetuous means two things. Rushing with great force or violence,
and acting suddenly, with little thought.
She asked me which one I thought Mr. Longfellow meant. I reread those definitions over and over, trying to figure out the right answer, but Miss Chevalier must have read my mind. There is no wrong answer,
she said. "I want to know your opinion, Addie. What do you think?"
I had never been asked for my opinion, but I knew I couldn’t keep her waiting so I said the first thing that came into my head, which was, Maybe he meant both.
She liked that. The patriots had to be impetuous both ways or they wouldn’t have dared challenge the British.
Then she asked, Would you call yourself impetuous, Addie?
That time, I knew she was asking for an opinion. My mother thinks I am.
She said mothers were right to be concerned for their daughters’ welfare. But I believe that girls need gumption, too, especially in this day and age. I believe you are a girl with gumption.
After I looked up gumption, I never let anyone call Miss Chevalier The Poodle again.
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I told Celia and my parents about the big honor of reciting for the Saturday Club, but when the day came and I put on my coat, Mameh said, You’re not going anywhere.
I told her they were waiting for me and that I had practiced and they couldn’t start without me but she shrugged like it was nothing. It’s too cold. Let someone else get pneumonia.
I couldn’t believe what she was saying. I argued and I begged and finally I was yelling. No one else can do it. They’re counting on me. If I don’t go, I won’t be able to show my face there again.
Mameh said, When I was your age I didn’t step a foot outside without my mother, so close your mouth before I get mad.
Celia said, Let her go, Mameh. It’s not far. She can wear my scarf.
My mother almost never snapped at Celia, but she said, Stay out of this. That one sits in that school while you’re killing yourself at work. She’s already ruining her eyes from reading. No man wants to marry a girl with a squint.
Maybe I don’t want to get married.
The moment I said that, I ran behind where Celia was sitting so Mameh couldn’t slap me. But she just laughed. Are you so stupid? Marriage and children are a woman’s crown.
I said, Like for Mrs. Freistadt?
Mameh didn’t have an answer for Mrs. Freistadt. She lived across the street. One day her husband came home from work and said he couldn’t live with a woman he didn’t love, so after twenty years and four little girls, he walked out. Just like that.
The wife didn’t speak English and she didn’t know how to do anything but clean and cook. They got so poor—she and the daughters—everyone in the neighborhood was ashamed for them.
Talking about Mrs. Freistadt was the last straw for Mameh and she came at me with both hands, slapping and cursing and saying things like Ungrateful worm. Monster. A plague you are.
I was jumping around to keep away from her, which made her even madder. My father would have taken a strap to you,
she yelled, and finally got me on my cheek with a loud slap that made Celia wail as if Mameh had hit her instead of me.
My mother had me against the wall, holding my wrists, and I was hollering, Leave me alone,
when Papa walked in and told her to let me go.
Mameh screamed, You don’t do anything and I’m not having another whore in this family.
Don’t use that word,
he yelled. Betty is a good girl.
Someone started pounding on the door. Shut up in there.
Celia had been crying the whole time, but now she started banging her forehead on the table. She was saying, Stop, stop, stop,
and hitting her head hard enough that we could hear the sound of her face on the wood.
Papa grabbed her by the shoulders. Lena, she’s hurting herself.
Mameh let go of me to look and I ran.
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The cold wind on my face felt like it was washing away everything that happened upstairs. I walked fast and whispered the poem to myself in time with my feet.
Listen my children and you shall hear
Of the midnight ride of Paul Revere,
On the eighteenth of April, in Seventy-five;
Hardly a man is now alive
Who remembers that famous day and year.
I was almost calm when I got to the settlement house, but it was a big shock to see all the chairs and benches in the big meeting room full of girls, talking and laughing with each other.
The Saturday Club was different from all the other clubs. It was bigger—fifty girls instead of ten or twelve—and all the religions were together. They were older, too; some were in high school but a lot of them had jobs. They also held elections and ran their own meetings. I was only three or four years younger than most of them, but to me, they were practically grown-ups.
Miss Chevalier was at the door and sent me to sit in the front row while she waited for the professor. She said he should be there any moment, but five minutes passed and another five and another and I was getting more and more nervous. My hands were shaking when he finally got there. He looked so much like the pictures of Longfellow—with the white beard and long hair—it was as if he’d come back from the dead.
Rose Reardon, the club president, banged a gavel and made some announcements. I didn’t hear a word and Miss Chevalier had to tap me on the shoulder when it was time for me to go up to the platform. My knees were like rubber.
I had a lot to remember—and not just the words. Miss Chevalier had given me a lot of directions to add to the drama.
This was the North End of Boston, where every schoolchild knew The Midnight Ride
and we were all pretty sick of it.
Miss Chevalier gave me a big smile and a nod to start me off.
I remembered to begin as if I were a little out of breath, like I had a surprise to tell. Then I tried to make Paul Revere seem like a real person, tapping my foot to make it look like he was impatient to get going. I whispered about the graves being lonely and spectral and sombre and still, making it sound spooky. At the end, I went very, very slow.
In the hour of darkness and peril and need,
The people will waken and listen to hear
The hurrying hoof-beats of that steed,
And the midnight message of Paul Revere.
I counted to three and bowed my head like Miss Chevalier showed me. There was a big round of applause and even a Three cheers for Addie Baum.
Miss Chevalier put her arm around me and introduced me to the professor, who said I’d done the Great Man proud.
Then he gave his talk. And, boy, did he talk. It was not only long but also so boring it was like listening to a clock tick. Girls started yawning and looking at their fingernails and even Miss Chevalier had to pretend she was paying attention. When he stopped to blow his nose, she stood up and clapped as if he were finished. Everyone else clapped, too, but I think it was to thank Miss Chevalier for rescuing us.
After the lecture, I was the belle of the ball. Girls I didn’t know came over to say what a good job I’d done and ask where I worked and did I want another cup of punch or a cookie.
Miss Chevalier introduced me to Miss Green, the artist who ran a pottery studio in the settlement house. The two of them lived in an apartment on the top floor. They had the same first name so everyone called them the Ediths.
They were about the same height, but Miss Green looked like a sparrow compared to Miss Chevalier, who was more of a pigeon. Miss Green tilted her head the way a bird would, and looked me over with round, bright bird eyes.
Miss Chevalier has told me so much about you,
she said. I hope she’s talked to you about going to Rockport Lodge this summer. It’s just the thing for a girl like you.
Miss Chevalier explained that Rockport Lodge was an inn for young ladies in a seaside town north of Boston. She said it wasn’t expensive and some members of the Saturday Club went regularly.
Miss Green said, You must know that the Frommer girls have been there a few times.
I guess she thought that all the Jewish girls knew each other, but I only met Helen and Gussie Frommer that night. Helen was the older one, a real peaches-and-cream beauty. That could have been hard for Gussie, who had a big nose and a mousy complexion, but you never saw two sisters who looked out for each other like those two.
Helen was sweet, but Gussie had the big personality; she walked me around the room and introduced me to just about everyone. When we got to Rose Reardon, she said, "Madame President, don’t you think Addie
